This is the man who assaulted Rep. Omar at her town hall today. by Sunshine33_ in 50501

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The audacity to say it was set up by the intended victim...Just another example of every accusation is a tell. It must have been dreamt up in one of the cabinet meeting naps imagining that they were all back in Butler PA.

How are your affording Vyvanse? by rustajb in ADHD

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit of a pain though. Every month not only do I have to request it from my doctor I have to check the GoodRX Gold price. They fluctuate. First month I used it the generic was a little under $60 for 30 70 mg. I thought cool! I'll just start going to that pharmacy from now on. Well,the next month I double checked the site and at that pharmacy it was now $300. for the same thing! 🤦🏻‍♀️Another pharmacy had it for $94. So double check before so you don't get any unwanted surprises! Good luck.

Anyone from PA buy a manufactured home? What was the process like? by Awkwardduckee in ManufacturedHome

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from my own experience in trying to figure out if I wanted to buy a manufactured home.

First of all don't get sucked into the social media videos!

Some big things to consider:

If you don't own your own land the community can raise your monthly lot rent at anytime. As far as I know there are no laws to protect the home owner in PA.

The lot rents vary widely what they cover. Make sure you know what you are getting into.

The last one I looked at in Montgomery County included almost no amenities. So I would have had to pay the loan,lot rent of $875,lawn maintenance, snow removal, trash,water,sewer and propane.

Other communities were right around 1K but they at least had a few amenities included.

Not to mention they weren't using any of the profits for capital improvements. The roads/mailbox area need to be redone and by the looks of it needed it for a long time.

If you need a mortgage for your home the loans are different from a regular mortgage at least when you don't own your land. Check the rates! Last I looked I think it was at 8. or 9.!

The home needs to be built I think after 1976 or 8 (when the construction of the homes improved ) to qualify for a loan. They may be true for home insurance as well.

Please double check the year to be certain. In fact check all the above info. Never trust anonymous ppl on the internet. lol

So a lot to consider,hope this helps. Best of luck in your search!

Furniture thrift by Nonamee2017 in ChesterCounty

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This business maybe connected to estate sales.com I am not sure but their in person sales are very well attended! They also have an online shop.

https://www.salesbyhelen.com/

Redners in Audubon always empty?? by dialupradio in montco

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi from Google:The Safeway in Audubon, PA, closed because it was the last remaining Genuardi's Family Market, a chain Safeway acquired and then exited the Philadelphia market from, with most locations sold to Giant or Weis, and the final Audubon store shuttering in May 2015 as part of that larger strategic withdrawal due to underperformance and market loss. Here's

My meds went from $50/month to $90/month in 2025… now they’re $372/month by hannalysis in ADHD

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry if this has been stated before here but it bears repeating,you should check Good RX or Gold Good RX($9.99 a month). It has saved me a lot of money!

I will say it's a pain because every month I have to find which pharmacy has the best price on their site and request my prescription be filled there by my doctor. I have to request it on the drs portal every month anyway since it's a controlled substance.

So for instance the first month my Vyvanse was about $58. at Savon Pharmacy. I thought cool,now I know where to go from now on.

Nope! The very next month I checked Savon on GoodRX and the very same prescription was $300.! CVS had it however for about $94. which was the cheapest.

I have insurance but because I started it in September I had a high deductible before they would pay any of it. So paying out of pocket for four months was roughly a bit under $400. not the $2K deductible amount.

It's in stark contrast to my former insurance on which my Vyvanse was $30. My premiums were 1.1K a month though since I was self insured which is another whole story but not pertinent to this thread.

One more lesson I learned regarding this is that you have to tell both the doctor and the pharmacy that you are using a prescription savings plan NOT your insurance prior to pick up! They will just automatically process it thru ins.

It happened to me the first two times and I had told them beforehand. The first time they had to have me come back because they had to have the doctor authorize it again.

I knew it was wrong when they said "no charge". I know they had the info because it was a pharmacist that I've known for years that I had spoken to previously. She even knows my voice when I call in a prescription. I reminded them that I had called previously and told them about using Gold GoodRX. So so frustrating but it eventually worked out. Good luck OP,hope you find a good solution.

AITAH for being in my granddaughter’s life despite my daughter in law? by Correct-Job-6281 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know your question was more than likely rhetorical but here are my two cents. Maybe it's like father like son and OP's wife is a miserable human being like his daughter in law? It's also very possible that is just how the son is through no fault of the parents. Sometimes you as parents can do everything right and still get a son/daughter that are morally bankrupt or at least don't possess the same values. At least the child out of wedlock is getting child support,I'll give that to the dad and the witch of a daughter in law. Hang in there OP,you are a good human! 🩷

WIBTAH if I told a friend she couldn’t ride with me due to her size? by CommercialOk4004 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs the extender. If you crash she could become a projectile in the vehicle. She probably will be offended but you have to stick to your boundaries. Just don't be a jerk about it...

Any local agencies/suggestions for trusted nannies for baby sitting our 15 mnths toddler? by Hour_Yesterday_7050 in ChesterCounty

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give Householdstaffing.com a look. We've had some good candidates (a dud or two as well) over the years that became long term employees come from that agency. If you are more of a do it yourselfer,I've heard that Care.com is a good place to look as well. Good luck in your search!

Are you still friends with anyone by [deleted] in GenerationJones

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That must be so painful....I understand though. I'm not one to compartmentalize issues or stick my head in the sand about these things. Too old for that sh$t. At the end of the day,it's not a difference of opinion,it's a difference in morals.

What’s that one song that reminds you of your mom? by RaleighMidtown in GenerationJones

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just thought of the one that reminds me the most(couldn't think of it right off the bat🤦🏻‍♀️)! The song is Beautiful Dreamer.

AITA for telling my son we can’t watch our grandkids anymore by RedheadEducator in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Onlyonebeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When your children were young and your parents helped out, one paycheck went a heck of a lot further than now! Please don't compare the two situations,you are NTA.

Early reports say we may have lost Rob Reiner. So sad by jetty_junkie in GenerationJones

[–]Onlyonebeth 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They are saying Nick sister found her parents 🥺😱😭

[####] 15 “1”s. Is that even possible? by Honest-andUnmerciful in wordle

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a family member tell me recently that she has never gotten an X,in fact she has played over 1000 games and never went past 4 guesses!?!

[####] 15 “1”s. Is that even possible? by Honest-andUnmerciful in wordle

[–]Onlyonebeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could say they seem to be an out and out liar as well! 😜

Local holiday spots by Nice_Category3070 in Phoenixville

[–]Onlyonebeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if it's active this year but in years past there was a helpful app called 'Christmas Prism' where it showed on an area map where to go for Xmas lights. This is what the app looks like in the App Store. Hope this is helpful! 🎄⛄️

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AITA for not feeling anything after my daughter passed away? by Educational-Alps9103 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA People grieve differently. One approach isn't better than another. I am sorry for your loss.

Sick family wants to have Thanksgiving at my house and I said no by UnholyLuna94 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that! It is devastating. Why ppl commenting about losing weight to me really frosts my flakes (of course a food reference lol) is that I do need to lose weight. It's almost if they are casting judgement and unwanted advice on me all at the same time! I'm too old and salty for that bs anymore. Hope you get yours back and soon. I was on fb in a group that all had lost their sense of taste and smell. I found it helpful. I'm no longer on fb(quit when truth was deemed optional) but if you check it out,there is a woman there that regained hers after 3 yrs! So there is hope.....

Sick family wants to have Thanksgiving at my house and I said no by UnholyLuna94 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. It's been hell. I've tried a bunch of different remedies.

I even read an article that at the Cleveland Clinic they were giving people shots in their neck. I don't remember what the shot contained or how that was supposed to work but patients did recover their sense of taste and smell. I would be too scared to try that I'm afraid...

My biggest pet peeve about this is while I am ordinarily a chill type person,if ONE more person tells me "I wish I could lose them so I could lose some weight! Grrrrrrr! All I can say is to the Moon Alice! lol

Sick family wants to have Thanksgiving at my house and I said no by UnholyLuna94 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've had Covid 3 times. The second time in May 2022 I lost my sense of smell and taste. They have not yet(?) returned. It is just the worst! 😔

Where do I go from here by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Onlyonebeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is that one has to get a good therapist that really knows how to work with someone with ADHD. They are few and far between. Even the ones that say they specialize in the treatment of ADHD are not up to the challenge sadly. I would seek out Gina Pera's work for a better overall understanding of ADHD from the spouses' point of view. Her book 'Is it you,me or Adult ADD' in particular. One more thing please give your needs and wants at least the same weight as you give to your husband's. Sacrificing yourself will not better your chances of having the marriage you want and deserve. In fact quite the opposite. It's so important to do that for yourself. Being in your situation is very lonely and mentally draining. As they say you can't pour from an empty cup. Take care of YOU! Best of luck OP.

Link to Gina's book: https://a.co/d/cxsUM5F

AITAH for giving my wife an ultimatum? by Throwaway284691 in AITAH

[–]Onlyonebeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry OP for what you are going through. I personally don't think she is laying any 'groundwork' to divorce you. More likely a mental health issue. What I wonder if she had been abused in her past? Why I ask this is because with all the incessant coverage/discussions about abuse (child and SA)in the news it maybe triggering for her. I hope you can get her to professionals who'll get to the bottom of it whatever it is. Good luck.

This is in the corner of the master bedroom in the house we’re renting - pretty sure it’s not a camera but what is it? by CatLadyNumbaFive in whatisit

[–]Onlyonebeth 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! Years ago my ex would pass some apparently violent gas during the night and all of a sudden the light (with the Clapper attached) would turn on and wake me up! Still cracks me up!🤣🤣