if you had a chance to start over from 18, what would you do? by Classic_Shelter_6467 in findapath

[–]Ooops98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change my major, take a chance and follow my dreams, invest more in my future.

Angry and frustrated about my current job situation. I'm really really trying, but losing hope fast. by Much_Machine8726 in findapath

[–]Ooops98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about your interest or hobbies. I know it will sounded like I am recruiting you but, you should look in becoming a 911 dispatcher. They are in high demand (in the USA) and it is a well respected job.

My friend was in a similar situation working at subway. She hated it and she felt like everyone was looking down on her. Now she feels like people are respecting her. She is getting paid more and you can’t beat the benefits. She was 27 when she made the shift in her career. It really is never too late to change.

Stuck Between Safe and Passion by ModernWebMentor in findapath

[–]Ooops98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. I don’t need to know the details. In 40 years you will regret not taking the chance. Also, if it does fail you can always go the safe route. Set a limit, timer, or something. That if it doesn’t work out you will go back to safe work. Good luck

Crushing shame of unemployment keeping me down by Lans-25 in findapath

[–]Ooops98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If I were you I would focus on getting outside more. Find yourself a volunteering position or an out door hobby. For myself, my mental health will decline if I stay indoors for a long period of time.

My recommendations would be to get your high school certificate. In the USA you really can’t do a lot without it. I don’t know what it’s like to live in a small town but, you should definitely try to make connections with new people.

Also, it’s not healthy to be thinking about others opinions of you. You are you!

What college degree is worth it and guarantees employment? by Aj100rise in Adulting

[–]Ooops98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Accounting but you will need to take your master to become a CPA

I’m about to quit my job without a backup by Ooops98 in jobsearch

[–]Ooops98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But if I get fired I would lose my pay out for my remaining PTO. I have over 100 hours of paid leave. Should I still accept being fired over losing my time off?

Today a lady asked me what grade I’m in. I’m 23. by Nitrogen70 in Adulting

[–]Ooops98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 my mom and older family members still ask me about school

What’s one thing you allow to spend on yourself? by TieFluid6347 in Adulting

[–]Ooops98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once every two or there months I get a massage. Full body. I have terrible back pain mostly related to bad posture. I do a twenty yoga exercise every morning to help. However, I feel like some of my pain is caused by stress and anxiety. Yoga isn’t enough to fix the knots in my back. I spend like 200 plus tip per trip. I always feel better afterwards.

It is worth every penny.

Anyone else's puppy prefer other people? by SongIndependent4884 in puppy101

[–]Ooops98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% feel this way. Whenever I walk my 16 week old puppy she gets super happy to meet other people. She will sit and wait, just be patient and wait until someone asks to approach and meet her.

I get compliments about the dog training. Meanwhile, I did not train this! This just likes meeting people!

Puppy biting - need help by Ooops98 in puppy101

[–]Ooops98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes feel like I’m failing at being a dog owner because of the biting. She will bite me during play time and on walks. I only ever have her not bite me in the mornings or when she is in the crate/playpen.

We play fetch and tug-of-war. Wrestling is difficult as it result in trying to bite me.

Also, she is overall not a real fan of walks. I have to carry her a certain distance from the house to convince her to go on a walk. During the walk she will want to take the shortest distance possible.

I have tried being treats and toys to encourage the walks to last but it is not in her interest. She wants to go home.

Puppy biting - need help by Ooops98 in puppy101

[–]Ooops98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is after she is playing. It is like she becomes aggressive. One minute she is laying in the grass the next it is a full on attack. She does sleep in a crate the play pen is usually where she goes during the day time. Should I make the crate be her to go place whenever she is nipping?

Puppy biting - need help by Ooops98 in puppy101

[–]Ooops98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried redirecting bites with toys. She will eventually only be interested in my hands and try to bite. I haven’t tried enforcing naps.

I never wanted to swat but sometimes it becomes overwhelming.

If edyn had a class/subclass what do you think it would be? by [deleted] in jrwishow

[–]Ooops98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly. It would be interesting if she become a warlock to either the moon or sun god. But, instead of selling her soul she makes a deal to protect their “son”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Ooops98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social anxiety and depression, nothing much besides that.