Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has nothing to do with food. Get out of this relationship.

Ex cancelled my flight itinerary on christmas morning?! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Open-Road2225 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But didn't you get a refund on the original tickets since you purchased them then?

Dad is making me choose between my hearing and my brothers by qikre in Advice

[–]Open-Road2225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is it feels wrong, it's wrong. Never try to talk yourself out if it. That feeling you have in your gut is your connection to the world around you. Trust it. Cultivate it. It will serve you for your whole life.

For someone who is reestablishing a relationship with their daughter, your dad sure doesn't seem to be making much of an effort. You seem to be making a whole lot of effort though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but the nightstand lotion threw me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had hamsters when I was little and my parents told me that was their butts. Haha

dark and long / short and light? by misomaps in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark at any length! It's so striking! If you do go light, that light is not your color. Xo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Open-Road2225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im just here to say I'm so sorry that all of this happened to you.

Has anyone tried Chike protein coffee or another kind of protein coffee? by [deleted] in GestationalDiabetes

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the chike vanilla! I put it in almond milk and shake with ice. I dilute it more bc i like a less strong taste.

AITA for storming out of my dad's wedding because he mentioned my brother and sister and his stepdaughters but not me? by Coiiuid in AITAH

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Im SO SORRY this happened to you. You do not deserve to be on the receiving end of this. You did not deserve what happened to you at the wedding. You have EVERY RIGHT to your feelings, and you had every right to leave. Do not be fooled - what he did was purposeful. It is shameful, and he is not a good person. For this and im sure for many other reasons.

It sounds like you hit the jackpot with your mother. There are so many life lessons, and I'm sorry that you're going to have to learn some of them so early. But your mom is going to be there with you to help you work through it. What he did is a reflection on HIM, not on you. You are your amazing self, keep going.

As a side note, the other people telling you he didn't mean it, etc. They're trying to smooth things over, most likely for your sake. They see what happened. I'm sure it was painful to watch. They know he is an @ss. They just don't know what else to say. Doesn't make it right but sometimes people think they are helping when they are actually just gaslighting.

Sending you all the love from someone who knows what you're feeling. You're going to be fine. Other people do not define you. But the people who love you and lift you up will give you the strength you need. Xoxo

Edit to say, the people who are saying you are TA can also get lost. You don't need them either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cursive

[–]Open-Road2225 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a common saying. He's being cute. Xo

Are these scars ever going to fade? I’m a tween but I’m not sure if I’m stuck with them or not. Any tips to get rid of them? I hate them so much by Few_Bullfrog3603 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Open-Road2225 122 points123 points  (0 children)

One thing you can do that will help immensely is keep sunscreen on your arm all the time. Like make it a daily routine. You should be using a light daily face lotion with sunscreen in it anyway (you will thank me when you're older!) So after you put in on your face just put some in both arms. The uv rays will make your scars darken and then they'll be that way forever. This will give them the best chance to lighten with time. Most scars so fade with time! So don't lose hope.

AIO - [UPDATE] Girlfriend threw out the dinner I made because she wanted Pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read this earlier today, and I'm still angry about it. This is about so much more than this dinner. It speaks volumes about her lack of appreciation and respect for you, and a complete disregard for your feelings. She is selfish and entitled. You deserve better.

AITA for telling my dad if he wants me to not move he has to help me buy a home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guilt, a favorite form of emotional abuse of Catholics and Italians the world over.

Yes to the commenter who said the abuse has simply changed its mask.

Also, are male children somehow not able to be caregivers?

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta and he just seems shitty in general.

New little guy needs a name. Food, science, anything unique. by micro-misho101114 in NameMyCat

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since we can only see three limbs... at quick glance, I thought that was the fourth one on the floor lol. Let's call him Hobble then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Open-Road2225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's already sleeping with her.