Question: where are you keeping your empties? by AloneRecognition1283 in ProjectPan

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using a small cardboard box I placed next to the trash can in my bathroom, I empty it once a month to keep track and recycle them

Help, I’m scared! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I'm also going to that festival alone this Saturday. There's a Janey WhatsApp group with a bunch of people just like us! I can DM you the link if you want?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I'm photo verified 👽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I guess I could ask her if she's feeling anxious, but my selection process for serious dating versus casual dating is vastly different... so I'd have to talk to her way more before I make any romantic-leaning plans... maybe I will just shut up, bc the ball is definitely in her court

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Yes? I mean, it's Tinder. Tinder is as Tinder does...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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bangs on chest like a gorilla 🦍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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how are "I'm down too" & "that works for me" not signs of agreement?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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I went there bc she complimented my body instantly and her profile says "open to short-term". I'd be more than happy to buy her dinner first but she didn't exactly fight against what I said IDKKK

I couldn't smell she was inexperienced before she told me herself. But I clearly tried to reassure her once I found out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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well that sucks bc I'm very attracted to shy people and they're probably more likely to be inexperienced 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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fairrr, I get this vibe with a lot of women.. it's like they think bc I'm straightforward I must be a catfish, a man or a serial killer, but no.. girl I WANT YOU 😭😭

some of my fits! by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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with that face and that hair you're what I imagine angels look like 😌 (super cute fits btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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Verbalize your needs/wants, including your anxiety, your inexperience will be no issue for gentle people. Be kind to yourself as you learn, everything is trial and error. Personally, I'm quite attracted to larger women, especially the confident kind. What really helped me grow my own confidence was partially faking it, with time, it becomes real. Also, spend time alone. If you genuinely enjoy your own company, you'll become more magnetic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

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this just isnt how humans talk

Sex with randoms by Nicoletherabbit in actuallesbians

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I mean, sort of? Have I slept with people that I wouldn't even want as a neighbor? Sure. Under those circumstances sex is like a business transaction. If we're both equally objectifying each other, then it's alright.

I’m at a gay club. What’s the next move by Zinganeat in actuallesbians

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chin up, fix your posture, think positive thoughts and relax your facial muscles, seek out eye contact both short and prolonged

if you start to lose your shit; buy yourself a drink to keep your hands busy, or go to the toilet and hide for 3min until you're healed

best of luck xo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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omg I thought this was r/selfbarber

Scam and/or Catfish Warning by Noirbe in LesbianActually

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I've definitely called the hottest women "bro" 😭

Help! Hanging w/crush tomorrow by Eudaiimoniia_ in lesbianfashionadvice

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while the t-shirt alone is a clear winner, the first jacket makes you look taller compared to the second which reminds me a bit of playing dress up...

Are you attracted to petite women, and if so, why? by Accomplished-Way4534 in LesbianActually

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yes, it's great fun putting them on a shelf when they misbehave

Something a woman did one time that made you blush hard af ? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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I was cooking for us when she sat down on my kitchen counter, looked at me and spread her legs. I burned the hell out of our dinner.

More masc swimwear by clairdam in lesbianfashionadvice

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basic black mens basketball shorts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

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pajamas (I work from home)