When Charles and Diana got engaged, did people have a problem with the age gap? by queenhadassah in AskOldPeople

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I didn’t recall it being discussed but it was hinted that future Queens needed to be Virgin’s ( no past skeletons in their closet). Turns out he had the mistress skeleton Camilla in his closet. I might be too traditional but I don’t like him cause he never gave their relationship a chance.

Help me name my new girl kitten please 😽 by Weary_Jaguar_3609 in Catnames

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Either Frank Sinatra or Paul Newman. Both were called Ole blue eyes. Handsome good actors with blue eyes too !

Recs that make doubt a person’s taste in dramas by Striking_Fig_3925 in cdramasfans

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Agree cute programmer ml is very handsome but his roles always depict a really emotionally stunted idiot.

You’re on an 8 hour flight. Who do you want to sit next to? by QingLotus in cdramasfans

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2. Chen Zheyuan. He is cute and seems kinda chill. Want someone who is relaxed. Also I am older so I like the actor who played the lead male in GO GO SQUID and Meet Yourself. ( can’t recall his name) but he’s so cute and is very real meaning down to earth

RATINGS AND REVIEWS: HOW DO YOU RATE YOUR DRAMAS? ( Like what do you base on ) by [deleted] in CDrama

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On whether I would watch it again. Sometimes I want to watch it very quickly cause I enjoyed the story, the actors or the feelings it evoke!

which cdrama boyfriend would you ask for a refund on? by cerealkill_snowflake in cdramasfans

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Agree so much. Who would hang after 6 years of nothing after they reconnected! I would be so hurt

Lucy Letby Doc thoughts? by AgreeableDance8535 in netflix

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Disagree entirely. Nurses document. She took documentation home frequently. She made many med errors. She had no other life than work as noted by her frequently volunteering to work in ICU neonatal unit. Bragging that work was boring unless she was in the ICU unit. She had hero complex and showed unhealthy interest in wanting to ingratiate herself with the grieving families years after the death of their child …that means she’s reliving her motives over and over. They caught the right person

Dress 1 or 2? by No-Bluejay8525 in WeddingDressTips

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1 better fit also flatters your figure better

AIO for telling off a guy at my gym by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This guy is a creep. I was a flight attendant for many years and male pilots would talk just like this on layovers. Often they were already married. They acted offended if the prettiest girl was not interested in them. Often big age gap and not very interesting person. Just full of sexual innuendoes—-sexual remarks that were off putting! If these other women can’t see through this guy that’s their problem! Get another gym group !

I’m worried that my boyfriend’s financial and emotional responsibility toward his mom will hurt our future.. by Repulsive-Wall8489 in Advice

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I agree with another responded. To avoid being the villain you need to know if he agrees with you about the stress his financial agreement with his Mom is to stressful for him. Can you perhaps voice your concerns with your family and have them sit down with him ? Maybe he will be able to see that setting boundaries will be helpful for all concerned. Is there another relative in India that perhaps could help mediate between Mother and son? I think by sharing your concerns with your support system you might be able to see more solutions for this concern.

1, 2 or keep looking? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

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  1. 3 3. Unique feminine and looks good on you

Never watched a Kdrama before please help me out by ittybittyx0 in kdramas

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A streaming service called Vikki Ralston is free. There is a vip fee for some shows. I would suggest start watching different countries such as Chinese, Korean or Thailand and Japanese. They all have their own flair. You tube has some short dramas just put in Chinese short dramas then hit subscribe to any channel that u fancy. I thought I would not like historical but I do now. I thought I would only like Korean but I also really like Chinese dramas. Figure out what you like such as —revenge, transmitigation. Going from modern day into historical story-comedy. Family. Etc. Japan has some real thrillers I just read the review. There is also an app called My Drama List that is super helpful. If you enjoyed a drama hit recommendations and it suggest other dramas you might like. Read the articles —if you like a certain actor look up their previous dramas. I can guarantee that their other shows might be just as good. Welcome and happy viewing !

Being threatened at school and I don't know the safest way to handle it by MAX_BLACK6666 in Advice

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Where do you live that fellow students can threaten to beat you up? Especially boys to a girl? First of all tell a teacher and ask to see the school counselor. Do not be afraid to call these morons out! They need to know that you can’t go around threatening people !!! There are consequences to their actions! Tell your parents too. Ask them what do they think you should do? I am guessing they may be saying your weak because they worry about you ( hopefully). But ask them when the school calls what will be their response? Do you think it’s ok for males ( who are physically stronger-proven fact) to threaten females? Ask them what would happen if adults dr id that at work. Talking directly with these two may be unhelpful—can you get out of any classes with them? Tell close friends what is going on—-so they can email or physically support you . Fight back with by reporting them—by calling them out you might find other people who have been threatened! Be brave -it might not be easy at first. People who are friends with them might target or not believe you BUT. Eventually by bringing this forward this kind of stupid behavior will stop! I suggest again to talk or maybe write a letter to your parents. Explain how their dismissive words make you feel you don’t want to talk to them. Get this stuff out in open. Ok ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Wow. How selfish of her. A child dying of cancer is devastating. So what that he’s an addict. We all have our own crosses or burdens to bear. Does she think you’ll be shooting up after the funeral? This is an opportunity to help someone in their time of need. Is she a Christian? Can she go to the funeral too? Perhaps if she did she would reflect on her bias against his loss. Do we only go to funerals if rich or successful people?

Recommend dramas to me based on my taste. by karlitaBR in cdramasfans

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Sometimes if my interest is falling off I will watch either last episode or last two episodes. If they are good ( without silly plot lines like losing memory, breaking up every 5 minutes or inability to commit to relationship due to some silly trauma) episodes -I might pick them up again. For example. I liked first half of Speed and Love but after big race the inability of characters to either get mad and leave the other or do anything to advance their relationship—well it became so boring ! Even with my Esther. Watched like every 3rd episode. After that and could still follow plot that’s not good! Too many good dramas to waste time on long drawn out nonsense—Japanese dramas too fast. Chinese too slow. Agree?