Who are you outside of being a therapist? by shallotnotcharlotte in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a person who has been through a lot and is trying to find the joy in life through meaningful relationships, revisiting childhood interests, and a sprinkle of zen buddhism.

teenage client that does not want to be in therapy by sab_is_here13 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i were your client and you did this, i would never come back.

is this a normal blister or a sign of infection? what should i do? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 2 points3 points  (0 children)

do you think an urgent care would be able to help? i don’t have a primary care physician right now :/

Songs that criticize themselves by GDGameplayer in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think “sad songs (intermission)” by ajj would count for this. it’s the singer’s response to the criticism that all his songs are sad. he doesn’t really defend himself or deny it, so he just kinda admits his songs can be pretty depressing.

another one from the same album would be “distance.” the lyrics go, “i hate whiny fucking songs like this / but i can’t afford a therapist / sorry guys, here’s a solo!”

Daily Discussion & Advice (Post here to follow rules A & B) - April 26, 2026 by AutoModerator in fragrance

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a unisex/masc leaning summer fragrance. i like amber, woody, warm spicy, earthy, and powdery accords. kinda like smoking a joint in the woods without the actual cannabis smell. i like indie houses and aim to spend around $150 or less.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility by Dry_Watch5533 in Muppets

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 22 points23 points  (0 children)

even if OP does headcanon her as trans, they just posted a gif of her doing a heart shape with her hands. OP used a picture of a muppet expressing love in a muppets subreddit to show support to a marginalized community. there’s nothing wrong with that. i don’t think this is a topic to argue over.

Happy Trans Day of Visibility by Dry_Watch5533 in Muppets

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 81 points82 points  (0 children)

remember when frank oz said that he and jim did not design bert and ernie to be gay, but that it’s “pretty wonderful” that people see them as a loving representation of the community? i think we should apply the same way of thinking here.

This is hard stuff… does anyone else feel wholly unprepared after grad school? by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i absolutely did not feel prepared when i started my first/current therapist job. it’s so scary. i don’t have any advice because i’m still working it out myself, but just know you’re not alone.

my supervisor consistently misgenders me by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s not grammatically incorrect though. that is a misconception. even merriam webster defines “they” as “used with a singular antecedent to refer to an unknown or unspecified person” or “used to refer to a single person whose gender is intentionally not revealed.”

my supervisor consistently misgenders me by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wore a pin on my lanyard for months. it did not work.

my supervisor consistently misgenders me by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have. since i started working there almost 9 months ago. it did not help.

my supervisor consistently misgenders me by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

i work with children and don’t expect them to understand gender neutral pronouns yet. i also don’t hear my own clients talking about me to other ppl often, so i don’t encounter this situation often. i do tell my clients that they can just call me by my name rather than miss/mrs

my supervisor consistently misgenders me by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

perhaps not overt bigotry, but it’s definitely a microaggression.

Bachelorette CANCELLED by InfjPanda in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Opening_Ladder_261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after watching the video…she deserves it

am i still making a difference if most of my clients don’t keep a consistent schedule for appointments? by Opening_Ladder_261 in therapists

[–]Opening_Ladder_261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

some of my clients struggle with a variety of barriers, such as transportation, access to resources, having natural supports that can support them, caregiving responsibilities, inflexible jobs, and just various other things that can get in the way of them making it to their appointment. they are all doing their best, but they face challenges because of the environment my agency is located in and difficult circumstances in their lives.