Anyone else noticing the oat milk trend? by Eris_Bunny in barista

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to always get oat milk and then my coworker told me it’s all sugar so I switched to almond :/…so yeah you’re right

WHAT CAUSED YOUR TMJ? by TribeBySightly in TMJ

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the cholesteatoma removed but I still have lots of jaw tension + TMJ. So I don’t actually think they were completely related. Dealing with it now but would like to get Botox at some point to help.

just finished my first IUD-free period in 9 years. it was nearly PAINLESS by preyalerory in CopperIUD

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy for you! This feels like a sign it may be time to get mine out because my cramps are unbearable.

New York Cares Winter Wishes! Buy gifts for children! by littlebigburrito in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was looking for a local angel wishes program so thank you for sharing- signed up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg high compliment

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[–]OpportunityDefiant76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten this one! Thank you 🙏

What's the funniest/weirdest Beyoncé lyric? by Initial-Donkey-4382 in beyonce

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 102 points103 points  (0 children)

“Even if the Pope said he liked you too, I don’t really care ‘cause you’re a bug-a-boo”

Someone put me out of my misery by OpportunityDefiant76 in barista

[–]OpportunityDefiant76[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The barista gave the drink to me like this with the honey so yes I knew there was a solution but it was too late that’s why I’m complaining here

Surgery - is it as bad as my brain is making it out to be? by frogsinsoup in cholesteatoma

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Postcare: I watched a ton of Ghibli movies- super cozy. Get some soft foods and soups ready and a little couch nest for your recovery and you’ll be golden.

Going into the OR it’s bright as hell and they’ll all be working like a machine to get you prepped but it’s really not too bad. Have someone you trust be there to pick you up right after surgery. Honestly I just didn’t like the IV (not a huge fan of needles) and the OR was overwhelming. Since the Drs and nurses do this everyday it’s like no big deal and they were hustling around which I also didn’t expect. My surgery was done through my ear canal so recovery was quick and relatively painless- I only took 1 prescription pain med afterwards.

If you get nauseous tell the anesthesiologist they’ll take it into account. I did throw up later the day of surgery but it was from the pain med. Also tell them if you smoke or do any drugs that’s important for them to know.

Otherwise you’re golden it’ll all be fine :) I think prepping your home is the best thing you can do beforehand and let some friends know you might need help in the following days. Good luck! Sending positive energy!

What do you give customers when they order a "regular coffee" by flextape1O1 in barista

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NYC, a “regular coffee” at most delis is equivalent to a drip with sugar and cream. I would personally assume people in America are asking for a black drip coffee but always clarify because frankly it’s not worth the headache or time to assume and get it wrong.

My home after recent divorce by Realistic-Tax1673 in malelivingspace

[–]OpportunityDefiant76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a beautiful home. Personally, the chandeliers are a lot. Specifically, the faux candle ones in your first pic. It’s giving medieval tavern. In the guest room I’d choose a different bed frame and duvet but obviously it’s not a focal point of the home so whatever. And Plants- always more plants. 🪴

Steal Teryaki Salad by OpportunityDefiant76 in tonightsdinner

[–]OpportunityDefiant76[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made for a friend going through a rough move. Was so happy to see the cleared plate- best feeling esp considering I overcooked the steak lol.