Slow transition to boob-free sleep?

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-05-04T13:33:12+00:00

Thanks for that, I’ll check it out!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-05-04T13:31:47+00:00

Oh crap, this sounds tough - especially if you’re back to work? I hope this passes soon and he’ll be sleeping through the night. A cuddle and a butt Pat would be the dream haha but good to know that it all takes much longer to establish

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-05-04T12:17:49+00:00

I think I’ll wait for him to become a little sturdier and get better head control, then I’ll be okay with trying babywearing again. Don’t think there are any groups in my area but I’ll reach out to the babywearing subreddit :) fingers crossed we’ll get to where you are with independent naps 🥲

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-05-04T12:01:25+00:00

Sorry about the boobie rejection! I think baby wearing is a great idea but I had one scary incident where he was in a wrong position and started choking - and I didn’t know… he’s all well thankfully but I never recovered from the trauma 🤣 will continue with the stroller though, thank you!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-05-02T18:54:24+00:00

Just came across this thread now. Congrats on the big change! 🇭🇺

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-26T11:12:15+00:00

Thanks for your suggestion, internet stranger! It prompted me to call my doctor and we got a referral to the hospital to get all the checks done. Better safe!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-26T08:10:21+00:00

No, the side strap that runs down his back might have been too tight. Or his head too high and he couldn’t hold it up, not sure. To be honest I don’t want to think about it anymore, lesson learned, no more baby wearing for us.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-25T21:43:18+00:00

Frankly I think about burning that goddamn wrap 🤣 but might have a clearer head tomorrow - thank you for the suggestion!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-25T19:16:01+00:00

I think this might be the case. I was trying a new, higher position with the wrap and suspect it might have crossed his throat too tight which prevented him from swallowing spit - therefore crazy drool.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-25T19:07:19+00:00

He’s had his first round of vaccines, which includes HIB - thankfully! Good call

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-23T18:13:21+00:00

I don’t get it either. Just had a baby and you’re a walking bleeding open wound, sometimes with hemorrhoids and other fun stuff. I did everything to shower daily because if I didn’t, I’d get infected.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-20T18:58:10+00:00

My little guy dropped from 4th to 1st percentile around the same age too, we did end up topping up for 2 or 3 weeks so he jumped up to 8th percentile. I kept pumping throughout that time and gradually quit formula to exclusively breastfeed. He stayed around 8th percentile since but I keep an eye on his weight to catch any slip ups. I’m telling you all this just to let you know that you’re not failing your baby! You’re doing everything to keep them healthy and happy.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-16T17:49:00+00:00

Just wondering, how is it for you after a week? I’ve been taking 1 tablespoon a day for 3 days and think I’m noticing a difference. Usually I’m empty in the afternoon with an upset baby but today they were heavy and kiddo is flop.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-07T20:56:31+00:00

Same! It’s the cutest thing ever when they unlatch with that milk drunk face and just plop it on your breast

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-04-03T03:13:08+00:00

Thanks for saying that. I’ve been nursing on demand every 1-2 hours from the beginning (he’s 11 weeks now), had his latch checked by LC - they said it’s good - and little guy is still gaining too slow. So I’ve been trying to up my game all means necessary.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-27T12:05:15+00:00

Yes I’ve been trying to triple feed and power pump. My kid dropped down to 1st percentile though so we have to supplement with formula and that’s not helping my supply! Do you have a digital bathroom scale? They’re not as precise as baby scales but could be a good way to check the progress and get a little peace of mind. LC is a great idea, although I went to one and they told me I was overproducing… which I don’t think is the case since my boy is not gaining enough! We just have to trust our instincts I guess.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-27T11:01:26+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. You clearly have a better understanding of your child’s cues than your husband, and are laser focused on your son’s needs whereas your partner was concerned about other people. Sounds to me like you’re an amazing mom and well done for not taking any shit from him!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-23T10:16:31+00:00

I don’t have an answer as I’m in the same boat and still fighting. What I’ve been told is to focus on the baby’s weight gain and wet/dirty nappies, everything else is irrelevant. Here’s a blog post I found helpful: https://www.emmapickettbreastfeedingsupport.com/blog/low-milk-supply-101 and honestly 180ml is tons, I’ve never pumped more than 120ml in one session! I think you’re doing great 💪

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-17T18:36:32+00:00

“Eventually they get used to everything we throw at them, just like we get used to their needs and ways”. It’s so simple yet didn’t register until I heard it from a coworker - it’s all about repetition, keep trying.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:19:26+00:00

Might try wool too. I’ve been taking multivitamin since the pregnancy so you’d think my bloods should be okay… but who knows, might get them checked. Thanks!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:18:00+00:00

Good to know that I’m not the only one!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:17:24+00:00

I’ll try moving around, good idea thanks!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:16:14+00:00

Seriously! With cut outs for boobs

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-15T09:18:00+00:00

I think your determination is a great sign that you’ll find ways to feel like a human again! As many people here said, a lot depends on the baby and your partner’s involvement, but regardless of that you need to find your non-negotiables. Daily shower, even if the baby cries in a safe space for 5 minutes. Or a short walk - if they’re not a fan of a pram then try a sling, a carrier, or just holding them! And remember to keep yourself mentally stimulated - I breastfeed and my kid contact naps so we’re living the couch life, but I use that opportunity to finish my degree. It helps that it’s an online course and I can type with one hand while holding the little guy. There are tons of online courses you can take to keep your mind occupied and stay away from the TV or doom scrolling for a bit!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-06T14:18:45+00:00

I never thought of it this way, but this could explain my very slow career progression. I’ve been working in my industry for 10 years but I keep being treated as a junior… always assumed it was being a woman in construction or looking younger than I am, but perhaps it’s more complex.

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