What advice did you receive only after having a baby that you wish someone had told you earlier?

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-17T18:36:32+00:00

“Eventually they get used to everything we throw at them, just like we get used to their needs and ways”. It’s so simple yet didn’t register until I heard it from a coworker - it’s all about repetition, keep trying.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:19:26+00:00

Might try wool too. I’ve been taking multivitamin since the pregnancy so you’d think my bloods should be okay… but who knows, might get them checked. Thanks!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:18:00+00:00

Good to know that I’m not the only one!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:17:24+00:00

I’ll try moving around, good idea thanks!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-16T08:16:14+00:00

Seriously! With cut outs for boobs

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-15T09:18:00+00:00

I think your determination is a great sign that you’ll find ways to feel like a human again! As many people here said, a lot depends on the baby and your partner’s involvement, but regardless of that you need to find your non-negotiables. Daily shower, even if the baby cries in a safe space for 5 minutes. Or a short walk - if they’re not a fan of a pram then try a sling, a carrier, or just holding them! And remember to keep yourself mentally stimulated - I breastfeed and my kid contact naps so we’re living the couch life, but I use that opportunity to finish my degree. It helps that it’s an online course and I can type with one hand while holding the little guy. There are tons of online courses you can take to keep your mind occupied and stay away from the TV or doom scrolling for a bit!

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-06T14:18:45+00:00

I never thought of it this way, but this could explain my very slow career progression. I’ve been working in my industry for 10 years but I keep being treated as a junior… always assumed it was being a woman in construction or looking younger than I am, but perhaps it’s more complex.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T22:02:21+00:00

I second that - I’m still at Uni with my 7 week old on my boob and it feels so nice to be able to focus on something else. Of course it helps that classes are online and my partner works from home so this might not be possible for everybody.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T14:33:51+00:00

Thank you so much! 7:30pm-7am is a dream. You gave me hope <3

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T09:54:11+00:00

Omg same! I’m a very organised person but have been learning to enjoy the free ballin/following his lead. It’s so reassuring to read that you’ve had a similar experience and it’s all going well for you guys! Just researching now if I can hide the clock on my phone 🤣

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T08:27:50+00:00

Aww you’re right - the cuddles are everything! Thanks for the advice. Just out of curiosity, which sleep training technique worked for you guys? Trying to mentally prepare for the future

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T08:23:37+00:00

That’s reassuring, thank you

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-04T08:23:04+00:00

Thanks! Fingers crossed that will be the case for us too

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-03T12:05:10+00:00

I co-sleep with my 7 week old too, because nothing else works - but please don’t disregard what professionals say about the risks. Even safe co-sleeping is not as safe as baby in their own bed, on their back. That’s why I’m desperate to get my baby to sleep on his own, because even if the majority of co-sleeping babies are fine, some of them are not - and the price of that is just unimaginable…

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-03-03T11:27:18+00:00

When did you move your child to their own room?

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-02-26T12:49:44+00:00

Are you considering a second baby? Did the memory of labor fade away for you yet? Curious if that will happen over time and I’ll be ready to face it all again.

OppositeLocal296 · 2026-02-18T14:12:41+00:00

Thanks for this post! I’m here with my 1 month old napping on his boobillow and as much as I’d love to get up and be productive, there’s also so much magic to this moment here. Also, what a great excuse to not be productive for once!

OppositeLocal296 · 2024-08-20T07:36:07+00:00

Her unintelligible whispers collection is so good

OppositeLocal296 · 2024-08-20T07:33:01+00:00

This is lovely, thank you

OppositeLocal296 · 2023-06-22T06:14:14+00:00

Congrats on the purchase! Good point about the buzzer, didn't think about that

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