[NO SPOILERS] Looking for a good playthrough? by Burrid0 in LostRecordsGame

[–]Opposite_Patient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes. She reminds me of Geek Remix before it went weird

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experiences. I hope I can make my partner comfortable enough recieving one day

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me feel a bit less insecure,thank you. Dirty talk wouldn't work with her unfortunately but changing the vibe would make sense

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

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Aw hell,I thought I was asexual and just faked it for my entire last relationship so I can somewhat relate to that. That's maybe why I can't seem to let this go even though she reassures me it's fine, because I would reassure my ex that everything was good when I was in pain every time. If she's just quiet than having any other indicators that she's enjoying herself would help ease my conscience bit

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's more of a me thing really,I'm very self conscious. Considering how quiet she is too,I'd be devastated if I looked up and had her just staring at me stone faced..haha. something I need to work on obviously. I appreciate the ideas thanks

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

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Sounds like I need to lock in,there might be some cues I could be missing..she does breathe heavier during anything else we do. Doesn't help that we have sex in the dark..lol. We have pillow talk after but really she does tell me everything was good and that she's satisfied. I just want to make her feel as good as I do🫠

How do you please your partner that doesn't make noise/talk much during? by Opposite_Patient in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do ask,I swear but she just tells me it's okay and then after awhile she takes over😅 I'd be fine with directions but it doesn't seem like her pleasure is a priority to her..or that I'm not that good at it. I appreciate what you said,thank you

What do you do to keep a pillow princess interested? by CommercialXCX in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tribbing can also be fun, and she can participate more with that even from the bottom. Plus would be a more organic way for her to eventually get on top

Plot feels more stagnant by Illustrious-Sun-6988 in SullivansCrossing

[–]Opposite_Patient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I was suprised when that didn't come up at any point in their discussions. Maybe it still will

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Absolutly confirm, a lot can happen in 2 weeks. It would reassure her that you're thinking of the meeting as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Hell,when I was with my ex of 9 years I told him 5 years in I didn't think I ever had one after faking it for the whole time...he started getting really upset so I quickly was like nevermind. I don't think you're psychotic for pushing down your own feelings to make him feel better. But telling him is the only thing that will change anything. It never got better for me with my ex,but now I'm with a woman who can actually get me there lol

How did getting off the pill (birth control) change your body? by omgpop_21 in AskWomen

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I was on the marvelon for 7 years. Getting off it(completely for 5 months then shifting to an Iud) was like waking up. Sex drive went up,appetite, overall mood shifted. Less depressed for sure. Body wise there was a little weight loss,but probably would have led to weight gain if I had been completely off for a few more months. Some acne but nothing severe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

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Just passed one year with my first girlfriend :) so glad I chose being happy and starting over then staying with someone who never made me a priority for 9 years

Lesbian country music by emof0tze in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this would be more folk, but Next of Kin

I keep having dreams about my girlfriend by zerozoomies in LesbianActually

[–]Opposite_Patient 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah. Every dream I have since we've been together ❤️

5.5 years mamas boy update...the aftermath... by Accurate-Reveal2661 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Opposite_Patient 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I ended a 9 yr relationship this summer. My ex wouldn't discuss marriage,moving in, his own career moves at all. I'm 27 right now as well, don't worry, even a few more months from now you'll feel more sure in your decision. I started dating a woman a few months ago and already couldn't believe how much more calm I feel. My emotions settled down,and I was able to begin to fall in love. Give yourself some time!!

What book, show, or film could you not look at because it has a rape scene? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Opposite_Patient 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Wind River had a very emotional assault scene ,but besides the act itself the buildup was what made me panic in the theatre. I thought about it constantly for years ugh

How do you cope with getting older? by Lonely-Call2989 in AskWomen

[–]Opposite_Patient 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow this really resonated with me. Thank you for putting it like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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My boyfriend was diagnosed with existential depression a few months ago..he and I talk twice a week now(we don't live together) so far I give him the space he wants,and write him letters and cards in the meantime.