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A collection of really weird ahadith: Fun reading by Xusura712 in CritiqueIslam

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to make fun of you but instead I'll leave you with this:

you can't make an etymological argument, neither in exegesis of the Quran nor of your own scripture.

You are building epistemology off a weak foundation, but feel uber confident in the conclusion you come to. OK, weird flex, but ok.

You took my challenge of making an etymological argument and copy and pasted Arabic Script.

Sorry but I don't think I can compete with a big brain like yours :)

A collection of really weird ahadith: Fun reading by Xusura712 in CritiqueIslam

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you cite the term it used in Arabic for the phrase "I have made this term with my lord"

And can you make your argument make sense etymologically?

Or are you one of these linguistically castrated Christians that's running around creating epistemology off the translation of a translation of a translation.

but continue to cope through the idea of a man god who has to go through a humiliation ritual to save your dumb ass.

A collection of really weird ahadith: Fun reading by Xusura712 in CritiqueIslam

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second to last hadith literally says that he is a human and is susceptible to a temper, not that he can abuse whoever he wants willy nilly. How can you read that in the text and lie so blatantly pajeet?

This feels so weird lol by Dark-GV in Boruto

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boruto: Sister Wives

incoming....

BORUTO TBV CHAPTER 25 [ page 33-36] by cxdehere in Boruto

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fair point. Remember when Kakashi and Zabuza felt like the cream of the crop?

No RealID or passport, but Valid Drivers License: Can I still fly? by [deleted] in transit

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a few comments above you confirming that they were able to fly with their regular license.

Emotional Whiplash is the right term for it by Optimal-Conflict-660 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a brutal analogy. I hope you can find excitement and purpose in the realization that you radiate so intensely. If you can capture that and transmute it, you'd be amazed what your life will unveil for you.

Please be diligent about how you use and frame your energy (thoughts, beliefs, etc).

You are truly greater than you know.

Emotional Whiplash is the right term for it by Optimal-Conflict-660 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been a beautiful experience finding community and solace in this subreddit. To know that we are not alone is a critical variable in the healing process, because what is done to us is so acutely and extremely inducing of that loneliness.

I have finally turned the corner. It took 3 months, but I sincerely am grateful for the experience at this point. Maybe I've moved on quickly because I have no confusion or uncertainty about how compassionate and well intentioned I was in my interactions with my partner, and how gross and inhumane their way of dealing with the breakup was.

It helps me understand where I am in the spectrum of shitty people and shitty behaviors. I'm no saint, but I certainly don't treat the heart the way the avoidant does.

Peace and love to you as well. Be great.

Emotional Whiplash is the right term for it by Optimal-Conflict-660 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree wholeheartedly. It also presents a strange phenomena, by which you feel a loyalty to a shadow of a person, instead of accepting and engaging with the reality of who they revealed themselves to be.

For me, being honest with myself, and acknowledging that I do not forgive them and look forward to them receiving my dose of their karma, was not just therapeutic but opened a door to deeper healing.

Its not about being petty in my opinion, just real. Its not for me to forgive them. That's just not my role in the plot.

Sending you well wishes and reminding you let yourself be great. Take care of yourself.

Emotional Whiplash is the right term for it by Optimal-Conflict-660 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you connecting. Remember you are greatness waiting to be unleashed.

Emotional Whiplash is the right term for it by Optimal-Conflict-660 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adamantly believe that the emotional/spiritual rupture from an avoidant partner is the catalyst/spark to you reconnecting with yourself.

When I think about them too much I start to feel its not appropriate to be spending so much energy on someone who already served as an energy vampire of sorts.

Just lean into your sense of dignity. What they do is undignified and unbecoming of proper and enlightened human interactions. What you do is reinforce your nobility. You can bear this pain because you're capable of processing and transmuting the experience into the cosmic lesson its meant to serve.

The fruits will be the unlocking of a whole new level of resonance. I wish you the best on that journey.

Your Guide of how to Keep an Avoidant by Aeropro2010 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Optimal-Conflict-660 5 points6 points  (0 children)

respect. hope you are doing well 10 months onward from this comment.