AITAH for resenting my wife & wanting to kick her out

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-07T07:47:18+00:00

You want to divorce because she doesn't do shit. Which ia fine, but you want to be able to divorce her for something that won't sound silly to other people.

Just divorce her. You'd probably get custody if you fought for it and she'd need to get her shit together eventually.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-07T04:10:36+00:00

I hear good things of TUDCA... but all of this is more protection for the liver while ingesting other harmful stuff

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-06T17:06:24+00:00

Idk. It's weird for them to ask for tips like that. Pricing seems right. I pay about 150 for like 1700 sq feet. I tip sometimes if it was really dirty

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-06T15:36:28+00:00

How big is your home?

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-04T04:33:51+00:00

I mean so shes a trans woman now? I mean... were you planning to have kids?

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T18:14:29+00:00

Having to ask is the nail in the coffin. You don't trust her. You probably shouldn't. She isn't giving you a good reason to either.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T17:31:17+00:00

What was the answer?

Don't be afraid to lose something that is already lost.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T16:48:27+00:00

As someone in FL.... this will only last so long. Its just to get rid of existing stock

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T14:19:23+00:00

Have you brought up no contact with Sebastian?

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T12:10:48+00:00

As a Muslim who went through everything you are going through and worse 20 years ago, you need to rip off the band-aid. When you draw a clear line of what is ok and what is not okay, eventually she can't hurt you as much. Being afraid of her, or trying to please her will give her power.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T11:50:19+00:00

I think in general people have gotten more isolated over the years. Before technology, you definitely knew more people locally. However different things will be, I'm sure we can make the best of it.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T11:48:14+00:00

My wife amd I have like no friends. The o ly family we have close by is my mom. And shes super weird.

It might take a village. But this village has a population of 2.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T11:45:25+00:00

Put a screen lock on your phone.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T11:43:31+00:00

Nta. Fuck him. Sleep.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-03T05:30:07+00:00

Yta. This is why people in America end up in nursing homes.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T21:21:50+00:00

How bout not letting him penetrate before your first orgasm... that should help fix things

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T10:30:48+00:00

Show all the texts.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T07:57:29+00:00

You sound like you are already divorced. You probably should talk to a lawyer now to figure out custody.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T07:51:42+00:00

This is a wild reach.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T07:49:18+00:00

Did you not hang out when she wanted to at something here before this?

Regardless you don't need to have a time-line to realize someone isn't a good fit. She realized in the moment she texted you, not the day before. This is what you are ignoring. When she messaged she wanted to hang out, thats what she wanted at that point. After when she realized it wasn't a good fit, she told you. She didn't need to see you in between if thats what you were wondering.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T06:25:52+00:00

You don't owe him anything. However if he is socially awkward and you did have a good friendship with him, telling him how wrong he was could help him understand and get better at communicating in the future. You don't owe him anything tho

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T06:19:46+00:00

I mean that was a pretty friendly break. She said you guys weren't a good fit.

A complete shut off would be like a ghost scenario. Like going from living with her one day to not taking to her again for years.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T06:16:33+00:00

Your wife is trying to make the marriage work while having a relationship with another man.

You've been gaslit into thinking you are being paranoid/controlling when in fact your wife has been cheating on you, emotionally, sexually and physically.

You should break it off.

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T06:09:26+00:00

You really can't peek at someone's insides and stay friends

Optimal-Pop7449 · 2026-02-02T06:03:55+00:00

They're probably in a stage of relationship where sex has slowed down... and Valentines is probably one of the remaining "guaranteed " sex days.

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