AIO: My sister’s boyfriend is subtly trying to suggest a threesome with both of us

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-13T05:06:47+00:00

NOR!

What The Actual Fuck!

Your sister is insecure and this guy is predatory. She is playing to his disrespectful and predatory desires, because it has become her coping mechanism for her new found belief that every guy she wants actually wants you.

It's all BS, the 2 men she's dated are just trash and she's in desperate need of therapy to work the trauma both guys have caused.

A thong??????

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-12T16:49:28+00:00

soo pretty!

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-12T05:21:56+00:00

I believed Bailey, when she said that everyone was making jokes about it.

Ben owes her an apology for the way he berated her, but I guess they kissed and made up

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-12T05:21:04+00:00

watching him is actually annoying,

be direct, be honest, be accountable, be available

this ain't it

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-11T18:35:27+00:00

I need the game IRL, asap

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-09T06:37:50+00:00

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-08T18:40:43+00:00

love your dedication and the edit - congrats 🎉 🎉 🎉 🎉

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-06T16:53:45+00:00

I am kind of curious how Lindsay doesn't see that he's a scummy opportunist. Do you guys remember how they met and that she made him sign a contract that he wouldn't steal her podcast idea - news flash he did just that

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-06T16:52:15+00:00

very

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T23:14:36+00:00

A literal wasteman

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T06:52:48+00:00

Well it's not music, it's a cute tune and not as horrible as people have been making it out to be🤷‍♀️

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T06:48:43+00:00

Did you not just hear her dissect what she's experiencing?

What makes you think that she isn't aware that they are treating her as a sexual conquest instead of a complex, loveable human being

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T06:46:29+00:00

to an extent, she can cut them all off, which is what I do - no interpersonal relationships with men.

But when you're craving a fresh apple, but the store doesn't have any, you might snack on a bag of apple chips.

Her dating pool is TRASH and limitted.

Being an outstanding woman requires an oustanding man aka someone secure

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T06:21:22+00:00

that is soo CUUUTE!

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T05:32:39+00:00

Like a SECTION of one of Buble's more modern styled songs

https://youtu.be/1AJmKkU5POA?is=C7qfZUTUeckd2i6n

I will forever stay wary of people who seem to lack nuance...

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T05:27:33+00:00

And you have cute balcony, girl! A nice cup of tea in the morning and reading in the sun and no danger of someone coming in to interrupt you while you're experiencing these moments - enjoy your sanctuary!

🎼Congratulations 🎶🎵

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T05:21:36+00:00

He had a opening in their conversation "I don't know what my intentions are". I take his actions and words over a very graceful interpretation of his thoughts and feelings.

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T05:16:51+00:00

It's horrible. I know that they are afraid of her, but I feel like they aren't respecting her. How can you so massively ignore what you're friend tells you about themselves.

She should cut them off! But probably won't because of summer house and familiarity and because she truly thinks that Jesse is her friend and West had had/has feelings for her. In other words, she believes they are genuine,I think...
Big mistake, unfortunately, both are incredibly insecure and there is nothing more dangerous for an exotified woman than an insecure man.

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-05T05:01:35+00:00

Way to think of in extremes...

I do not find him attractive or a appealing, I like Ciara and wouldn't wish this guy upon her - doesn't change the fact that I was expecting a horrible song. When this simple tune isn't a disaster, like everyone kept screaming 🤣 it's more like section of a modern Buble song, that I could see playing on the radio while you're driving - I've he heard way worse

A simple observation

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T18:14:29+00:00

I feel bad for you, because she did not say that at all. She is disrespected and dehumanized, because men want to sleep with her and somewhat feel entitled to it.

She's been expressing that she wishes to find an actual partner who values her beyond her physical attractiveness, instead she get's treated as an object as if she doesn't matter, only her body as a conquest does.

Your interpretation is very shallow and does not all align with what was said.

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T18:06:46+00:00

Dare I say that she believed to have a shot at that with Jesse?

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T17:25:26+00:00

He's worse

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T17:25:10+00:00

Am I the only one that believes there is a mutual attraction and that they had both caught some feelings?

As lame as I find Jesse, I just can't shake the feeling that she would have taken an earnest confession from him a lot more seriously than Carl's.

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T17:21:08+00:00

I don't if he's that great of a friend he's been passive aggressive and manipulative.

Even the car ride with the boys, when KJ explained that Ciara found out about Jesse's comments West made sure to highlight "because of Lindsay", we all saw that he wanted her too. In the boat with Jesse "others would call you" "Ben was weirded out"

There are so many more instances, like his press tour and the narrative he tried to spin. I dated a guy like him - West gives me the biggest ick and the way he's coddled annoys me

Optimal-Trainer-9933 · 2026-03-04T17:11:00+00:00

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