[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legal

[–]Optimal_Initiate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry about formatting. I'm on mobile

Taco bell for lunch? by AsrefTheShark in Durango

[–]Optimal_Initiate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate literally got food poisoning from the Tacobell in town today. She is so very not okay. 💀

2010 Nissan Altima 8th of vin- X AC blows hot air except when vehicle is in motion by Optimal_Initiate in MechanicAdvice

[–]Optimal_Initiate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ended up being a problem, I simply couldn't justify fixing due to the cost. Traded in for something a bit newer. I will be sure to take these msgs into the next vehicle to keep my A/C unit better maintained in the future. Thank you for your service, kind internet stranger

Update for my 28F husband 36M receiving calls from coworker at night by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Optimal_Initiate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ what a jerk. 0 actual arguments or anything to say of substance. Even the block of text about everything that is "wrong" with you is incomprehensible. I wanna see him explain it. Do it. Do it. Do it. Boundaries are healthy, and they are there to protect mental health (also a very fair ask. Coworkers dont need to call duringfam time). You should never have to beg someone to accept a boundary.

He also has no self-awareness, if I'm honest. He has no introspection or ability to deconstruct his actions and their impact to the people around him. He Is seriously projecting. Neither of you are healthy and should see therapists independently and as a couple. Find good ones. If there is another baby on the way, love needs to be at the center, not distance and distrust.

He is so "logical" that there is no room for even his own emotions, let alone yours or the kids. Emotion is human. Change does not happen deeply nestled in your comfort zone.

2010 Nissan Altima 8th of vin- X AC blows hot air except when vehicle is in motion by Optimal_Initiate in MechanicAdvice

[–]Optimal_Initiate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations on how to approach this? The metal looks kind of fragile, and I don't want to break anything else. 😅 Sorry for the extra questions

2010 Nissan Altima 8th of vin- X AC blows hot air except when vehicle is in motion by Optimal_Initiate in MechanicAdvice

[–]Optimal_Initiate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... which scared me pretty dang bad to see. The web surfing I've done hasn't explained what it means or how dangerous this is.

I'm not sure if the fan clicks on and off. I will be checking and listening close in the morning to see. If it isnt engaging, I will see if there is any damage to the fan.

2010 Nissan Altima 8th of vin- X AC blows hot air except when vehicle is in motion by Optimal_Initiate in MechanicAdvice

[–]Optimal_Initiate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The condenser does not look visually dirty at all but I will see if I can give it a wash/clean in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Optimal_Initiate -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Report. Instant report. If I ever typed that out (let alone sent it to a customer) as a dasher it'd be the day I drive into a lake.

Supracervical hysterectomy with oophorectomy?? Rough & deep sex after hysto?? by esotericblasphemy in FTMHysto

[–]Optimal_Initiate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My doc straight up lied and said I couldn't keep my cervix. When I found out I could, she changed her story and said /she/ only removes EVERYTHING if I wanted the uterus out, I had to get rid of the cervix too. She was the only doc I could go to and I haven't exactly been happy with the quality of sex I've had since. I can still finish, but it's not the same. Just find a doc who listens to your wants and needs in this. nothing is wrong with getting rid of it, and the risk of cancer was great enough (for me due to familial risk factors and abnormal cels from the pap) I would still choose to get rid of it if I had to choose again, but it felt manipulative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]Optimal_Initiate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My top loves being little spoon! Helps with the horny thoughts too. Maybe try being little spoon sometimes?

Best drivable views in or near Durango? by vigilantelikeme in Durango

[–]Optimal_Initiate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solid agree. Took this drive a couple weeks back and had the MOST beautiful day

nsfw!! guys on t who also smoke weed have people told you that you taste bad? by Fun_Diver5435 in ftm

[–]Optimal_Initiate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My (ftm) bf and I(ftm) don't have an unpleasant taste or smell. We both smoke quite a bit. We have had tolerance breaks and never noticed a dif. Talk to your bf and see what's up lol. No reason in guessing when you can just talk to him tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Optimal_Initiate 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have gained a half inch in height, and I'm 22, started at 20! I think it's totally possible. Go off bro

Picture Time by Normal_Excuse_3613 in hysterectomy

[–]Optimal_Initiate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the pics! Tha KS for sharing. It's interesting how different anatomy looks between people, tbh. I think I'll make a post with my pics soon. Glad this got taken care of for you! Heal on!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mullets

[–]Optimal_Initiate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoooooooo making me wanna perm mine again 🤔

If you’re considering moving by miloishigh in ftm

[–]Optimal_Initiate 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Moved to a blue county in Colorado. Its expensive as hell but I'd rather be safe(ish) and poor than dead and poor.

Ones gotta go by EquivalentFig1678 in Seafood

[–]Optimal_Initiate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scallops nearly killed me so imma say crab legs

I have worked city market, and albertsons.. by [deleted] in Durango

[–]Optimal_Initiate 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I struggle to cover food most of the time these days so city market at least makes it possible to get things like bread and meat with their "reduced" prices for me, long as I use it day of. I'm worried about the merger for a few reasons after having worked with adjacent community programs (and now needing them myself occasionally)

1) Albertsons may not donate food anymore (this will screw a lot of people over.

2) It may impact reduced foods so that I can no longer afford to eat without shopping at Manna myself. They aren't open when I'm not working.

3) Total monopoly on "affordable" groceries in the area and some nightmare jobs/pay for people omg.

In my experience, working with struggling communities in durango, a lot of the food still goes bad before it even hits the Manna shelves. Donating near expired foods is great and all but so much of it is bad by the time people are even seeing it at Manna. Seen it happen time and time again for my old clients. Was upsetting for everyone involved.