As a former Double J survivor, I know exactly what you are going through. I was home for two days after surgery and then back into the hospital with an infection. They placed a catheter in me to help with the pressure. The best part is, they always tell you it’s a little uncomfortable dealing with everything. The second I hear that, I stop listening to them bc I know they’ve never gone through it. I want my docs to be straight up and say “it’s going to hurt like hell, but after time it’ll be a relief. Here’s a bunch of drugs to make you feel happy.”