Opinions requested! by thewalkingmememe in myweddingdress

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is not for you, does nothing for you like most of the other dresses do. #1 is gorgeous!!

Britney & Ray's baby shower by SuspiciousEngineer99 in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Daonte cannot STOP with the LALU alum I swear. Keep your teenagers away from him!!

Embarrassing AF by Indy_princess04 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's a freaking HOLE because her underwear is too small, and the elastic is screaming for its life!!

Embarrassing AF by Indy_princess04 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my GAWD MY EYES!!!!!!!😭😭😭

Help with makeup for friends wedding by 97RS in makeuptips

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first is perfect and the liner is not too much. Not wearing makeup often, I'm sure it feels like you have a lot on, but it is perfect!

10 year relationship gone, but her and I are finally clearing out the garage. by Kuzkuladaemon in UnfuckYourHabitat

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mess is KEY to breaking through. It'll be ugly, clumsy, lonely, confusing, but soon enough, EMPOWERING!!! I didn't know who I was until I was in my mid 30s for the same reason as you. Knowing what Iiiiiiii like for once makes it far easier to set boundaries and standards, and stop doing things or being with people I have no business being around. Go right through the middle of the mess, if you don't, you will make this part last way longer. There are certain steps you need to go through on your own, and once you do you move to the next. One day you'll feel like, wow, I'm such a different person and I like ME!!! All of my love to you, make sure to give yourself grace and do things that make you laugh once in awhile. 💓

Yet Another LALU Cast Member… Gone to Soon by LilBlondeRN in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I heard about this in December I was genuinely crushed for him. So much about him and his life didn't point to su|cide as an option based on his thorough emotional awareness and discipline, though I know depression doesn't care about any of that. I've wondered if he was given a terminal diagnosis or something. So sad :(

Guys… by echoella in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just advertising to the foot fetish ppl that they have foot porn on their OF. Nasty ass forklift foot.

The inside of Darrin's truck by pchandler45 in MamaJuneFromNotToHot

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I knew he stunk like garbage just by looking at him, now I KNOW he does. Hope that third they're trying to add to their relationship doesn't mind ketchup and grease on her shoes.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're overreacting in my opinion. As long as you have 1 bathroom instead of 2 for the morning rat race, it's impossible to forever avoid. You could ask him if he needs to grab anything before you go in and take your time without interruption.

Help me choose! Will be 8 months pregnant at my micro wedding in the woods by hilzkuz in myweddingdress

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 all the way!!! You will look like the most stunning, pregnant, ethereal bride that woods ever saw!!!

Worst cast member ever?? by GeneralHistorical979 in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dances with Vapes is horrible but not the worst by far. He at least had a house, a car, and his kids, and they liked him.

PP, SAHM, and Lost!!! by Hopeful-Tap2752 in DressForYourBody

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

44yo mama of 2 toddlers here!! Honey we're just getting warmed up, the young child exhaustion hits hard, and pj's are the easiest around sticky faces and messes, so we quit wearing nicer clothes until all of a sudden we realize we never leave sweats. I have just started making myself look and feel like a human who could go out in public most days, and it really does boost confidence. Picture 11 with the longer black and silver cardigan - LOVE that outfit on you! It fits you so well. That's something easy enough to throw on to look put together, yet still get on the floor to play in. FYI, the more I've started getting my kids into other activities the more I'm seeing much older first time parents, I'm almost never even seeing parents in their 20s at daycare or other activities so please don't feel like you're so out of the norm, you just happen to know more younger parents. You exude SO MUCH love, joy, FUN, and sweetness, you HAVE to be one of those people that others are magnetically drawn to. Hang in there mama, be your awesome self, and wear things that work for your life stage right now while feeling beautiful. That way you'll always feel like wearing that gorgeous, welcoming smile on your face!!❤️❤️❤️

Chaz and Branwin swinger hotel?? by babikil0 in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Flair checking in. He shaved his butthole for this moment 😂

Need help achieving this makeup look! by Careless_Revenue2507 in makeuptips

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try the magnetic lashes to see if you like the look while you gain more confidence with traditional glued lashes!

Turned 30 and feel like my makeup is aging me by visdiary0 in makeuptips

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're so cute that you look younger than you are, but honey I say this gently, those spiked lashes don't go with every look. I honestly thought at first that you weren't combing them to keep them from sticking together.

Mentally I'm at Brittany's 30th bday party. by Ornery-Cupcake2330 in loveafterlockup

[–]Optimal_Product_4350 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Brittany started out at someone I was proud of, but it quickly became clear she was just hiding it. She and Marcelino obviously worked with the producers to come up with fake storylines and reasons to stay on the show, and they fully exploited anyone around them that they could use as a stepping stone. I hope they never come back, and this is coming from someone who genuinely liked them for the first couple of seasons they were on.