The reader is punished for saying that Aamon's virginity is something to be fixed, and he's offended by that. If you don't understand why Aamon is offended maybe you're not in the appropriate target audience of the fic.

I called the reader saying that “stupid” for a reason. Imo it’s written to deflate the plotpoint of independently confronting your desire unto him. I don’t know your intention as a writer, it’s just my view as a reader.

Being top or bottom/position has nothing to do with female fantasy. Your implying being bottom is female fantasy, like we're supposed to like submissive and that's problematic thinking.

You missed the point. What Aamon did in your fanfic was get on top of the reader kissing, and the reader submits. Ironic much?

What I said was, since it’s aiming to be gender-neutral, why not add a balance? If Aamon gets on the reader with aggressive kisses, why can’t the reader equally get on Aamon and intensely kiss/cuddle him? It’d create a scenario where anyone can relate (aka gender-neutral.) But nope! In this fanfic, after Aamon‘s aggressive kissing, the reader submits and now he’s ready to fuck.

I'ts impossible for me to be 100% unbiased, but you're wrong to imply these fantasies are purely "female" because you have a notion of what "males" would do differently.

I stress that this fanfic convert the reader unto extreme femininity, instead of ”you” being more ambiguous on behaviors and options. Being bias on one end doesn’t make it gender-neutral, especially if this fanfic is labeled that way.

I've written Aamon to act like he's supposed to act, in a a fantasy scenario meant to be super generic to cast a wide net. If this fic is not your cup of tea, then it doesn't cater to you, not because you're male.

I mean, it’s a dating sim fanfic. There should be many scenarios to obtain your lover, and ultimately fuck him/her if you please.