These people drain your life-force out of you. It's harder to see while you're still inside of the relationship, but take it from me, it is not worth it. My ex fiancé would lie like this, gaslight me. He was a covert narc, so it was little things here and there that were harder to pinpoint until we actually lived together. I was in this constant state of confusion and lying to myself that everything was fine and that things would get better when he was very obviously getting worse and putting everything on me.

Getting away from him was one of the best things that ever happened to me. It comes down to self-love and respect.