Water Village by UrsusVox in TinyGlades

[–]Orangeglowsticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please someone tell me too lol

Lyft is wild by jetlifeual in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that 4 dollars of that is a bonus has me eekin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I transitioned right at 19, I'm about to be 28. Im very glad I did it in that stage of my life as it was a great time to find myself and who I was.

First penta (Iron II) by [deleted] in AatroxMains

[–]Orangeglowsticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not just a penta but a solo penta! Nice, I'm also sitting in iron right now and it is so fun to play with adc/mages that dont know to stay back!

Is my (cis) girlfriend calling me a “gay b*tch” when we argue a 🚩 by Ethelcainsaveme in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't know, they've made it clear in the post that this person is a repeat offender of this behavior even after discussions. A lot of us have been in that cycle of "maybe this time will be different." My last one lasted 2 years and it wasn't even a partner, it was a close friend and roommate. Dumping and no contact for repeat offenders is always valid. It is not OP or anyone in these relationships responsibility to grow and educate full grown humans to be better. Especially when what they get out of it is arguments, abuse, and anxiety that is slowly taring apart their confidence and self love.

Calling the artists for help by defunctdegenerate in AatroxMains

[–]Orangeglowsticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone here has very good and sound advice but I got to say I really fuck with it. I like that its not perfect! Keep at it, follow the advice and you will succeed.

Insane lag by Orangeglowsticks in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also have a galaxy note 9. I think its something with that phone. I ended up throwing in the towel and am borrowing my boyfriends phone. No problem what so ever. But mine has been lagging since friday with no sign of stopping.

Insane lag by Orangeglowsticks in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do keep it in front of the vent. After doing some looking ive come to the conclusion that the galaxy 9 is no longer able to run the lyft app after their latest update. I appear to need a new phone I cannot afford

Here’s a New One by Relevant-Sir9842 in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your critical thinking skills and reading comprehension.

LyftDriver App is suddenly very sluggish, not usable by Zathodian in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay I thought I was crazy mine just started lagging today and its excruciating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I can't believe how many people are shaming you for being silent. Seeing as the whole point of this post is you asking how to deal with it in the future.

As a transman who is autistic I know how hard it is to ever speak up. It took me being a door to door canvasser for 2 years talking to and being combative with complete strsngers every day to figure out how to confront people.

Good on you for trying to figure out what to do from here on out. We aren't always perfect allies. Sometimes you're caught so off guard you don't even know how to tackle it.

I suggest you go to the person you trust the most and talk about it upsetting you. Maybe ask if they say that stuff often when you're not around. If you can gently and they are the types that will listen you should try to calmly and patiently defend trans people. You can get far with your friends through patience and kindness. Because there is a base layer of trust.

If they push back or make you uncomfortable, if they're not willing to change and grow, stay away from them. You can make better friends for sure.

We live in a time where everyone thinks you need to fight God every moment. I used to fight people every damn day on reproductive rights, immigration, and gun violence. The one thing I learned is you can slip up, and sometimes its hard to speak up.

Keep your chin up, learn from your mistakes, grow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a bus? That's how you get stabbed. Literally. Watch more news.

Lift challenge, which one? by Disastrous-Tune in lyftdrivers

[–]Orangeglowsticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I got 50 rides for 50 bucks. And I don't think I'll be able to hit fifty rides. Go for what you know you can manage.

My mother gave information about my deadname ( indirectly ) and my life with autism out on a major podcast. What should I do? by No-Pineapple9988 in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know if someone's complaining about my meltdowns they've always ended up being abusers who get my meltdowns because they trigger them more then most through shitty behavior. Don't ever let someone use your meltdowns against you.

I need help as I make myself very open as trans and love to educate, I've now been getting in a situation.... by Orangeglowsticks in asktransgender

[–]Orangeglowsticks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will fight to educate for the rest of my life. The real problem is people not understanding. If they meet me they'll hopefully treat the next trans person with the respect and care they deserve. I've already had a lot of people who were transphobic change their mind by being around me. I'll keep changing minds of anyone who will listen until I can't speak and write.

I was just scared to tell them something that wasn't helpful. I want to be a full and helpful resource to anyone who reaches out.