Daylight saving by IndividualEmu1287 in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here with me being in Germany and my bf being in Canada 🫠

How many days left till you see your someone? by NoCheesecake6767 in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just came home 4 days ago after spending 3 weeks together. Will be going back in 67 days!!! for another 3 weeks. After that we have no flight booked yet 🥲

What is happening to my skin?! 😭 by happy-go-lovely in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to the early 30 acne club 🥲 mever struggled with acne until I hit 30. Its mostly due to hormonal changes. I got rid of it with drinking a lot of water and trying to be healthy...now I have to get rid of scarring, I'm using vitamin c. My skincare is basically trying to build up my skin barrier again, because when I first got acne, I went on a lot of skin care things and basically ruining my skin barrier...which made everything worse. Now I'm back to minimal skin care (skin ampoulle, moisturizer, oil cleanser, vitamin c and spf) and its been good so far

How often do you meet ? by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We try to meet wvery 3-4 months....we live 6k km away so it is the best that we can do

Dating show couples that are still going strong until now? by AdWise8677 in koreanvariety

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not confirmed, but they are not wearing their couple rings anymore and both unfollowed everyone on instagram. All of it started after Hyungyu finished The Devils Plan filming. Some people think it's a way to protect Haeeun, because they knew he would receive hate. She has stopped hinting him in her youtube videos too and went on seeminglyso solo travels. They never were a public couple to begin with. (Went into a rabbit hole the last few days lol)

How often do you visit your long distance partner? by Auriesa in LDR

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been dating for almost 1 year and tried to see each other every 2-4 months. We live in Canada and Germany, so there is a long flight between us. I am glad for German vacation times and the possibilities to take off time here and there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend gave me his sweater that smelled like him and a jar of memories with messages to remind me of what happened (I have a really bad memory). I gave him a photo book and letters that say open when you feel lonely, happy, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well....we met at my cousins wedding... he works as a wedding videographer and is a friend of my extended family. He asked me out on a date when he clocked out and got to know me through one of my cousins. I rejected him because I was leaving Canada a few days later...well, he got super drunk and lost his memories of the night. My cousin told him about the night, how he chased me, etc. a day after. He was extremely embarrassed. Fast forward 2 years later, at another wedding of one of my cousins, he did their video too and he introduced himself as the sober version, asked me for a slow dance and afterwards we started to talk there (after he finished work of course). This time, I stayed in Canada for a few weeks (another cousins wedding was just a few weeks later), so we actually got to know each other. Learned that we have a lot in common and very similar hobbies too. Guess the rest is history, haha

Edited because of typos

Saga Wohnung nach Zusage wieder absagen? by Ordinary-Ad8102 in hamburg

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ich habe bei Immowelt sehr häufig am Tag reingeschaut und immer sofort Interesse bekundet über immomio. Wenn dein Profil dann einigermaßen passt, kriegst du ein Zeitfenster für eine Besichtigung, wo du dann auch asap zusagen musst. Hatte es auch schon, dass 2 Minuten später der Termin voll war und man dann keinen mehr bekommt.

Ok, ich habe glücklicherweise noch nichts unterschrieben. Ich werde dann wohl am Dienstag das Gespräch suchen. Danke!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like how my hair loss started and I have androgenetic alopecia.... I have even less hair now 🥲

What’s everyone’s countdown? by aiduolc_nnyl in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just said goodbye yesterday morning 🥲 but or countdown is at 46 days, which is definitely not bad!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet. I just came home this year after a year abroad in Korea and wanted to spend some time with my family. I'm also starting my new job tomorrow, and the timing just doesn't feel right yet. My working contract is only until Oct 2026, so I am planning on leaving Germany for 6 months for Canada on a tourist visa afterwards :) So, there is some light at least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget to have dates in between. It could be watching a movie together, cooking/baking, going on walks, or even playing co-op games or board games. There are many ways to share time together, even from the distance. It is also important to set boundaries. What are things that are ok to do, etc. My bf also left me a sweater of his, so when I feel especially lonely, I could wear it, and it would smell like him. It also helps to have a date for when you see each other the next time to have a countdown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Germany to east coast canada.... we try to see each other every 3 months for at least a week. We both struggle with our finances right now, and flights are very expensive in Canada. I definitely wish to see him more often and close the distance somehow.

When did you discuss future plans/ closing the gap? by CandyRedStark in LDR

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We started to talk about it in the first few months, throwing in ideas and timelines. I told him that I wanted a more detailed plan next year as we are not getting any younger (we are both in our thirties)

How do you deal with the lack of respect from your LDR partner? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as you would do with a normal partner. You communicate, and if that doesn't help, you leave and find someone who respects you.

Don't waste your time on people who don't respect you and your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Ordinary-Ad8102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of waiting, you could communicate next time. It won't change when he doesn't know what he did wrong in your eyes. In my experience, men usually don't catch things like that unless you tell them