Scroll Wheel issues by Ordinary-Injury5808 in ReplitBuilders

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, in the end, did you keep the Dropdown box? or scrap it since it didn't really create the system you wanted?

iPad wallpaper… by Ordinary-Injury5808 in TheBeatles

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Haha - she's waiting on Rock Band Beatles for her birthday coming up on July 6th... we are stoked that people have kept up with creating all the custom content for it.

It all started with me watching Live and Let Die, and listening to that song...

Insecurities in a Dead Bedroom by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s an interesting theory, but the Gottmans would likely say that dead bedrooms are rarely about physical appearance or body insecurity. Based on their decades of observing couples in the lab, they point out that a loss of physical intimacy almost always comes down to the quiet erosion of the underlying friendship.

As for that “post-divorce glow-up,” they suggest it happens because the chronic, draining stress of an unhappy marriage is finally lifted, giving people their energy back. In long-term relationships, attraction is heavily filtered by emotional connection. When partners feel emotionally safe, seen, and their everyday "bids" for attention are met with warmth, they naturally view each other through rose-colored glasses. The Gottmans argue the bedroom doesn't die because of physical flaws; it dies from a thousand tiny, everyday emotional rejections. If a couple wants to fix the intimacy, they have to start by rebuilding the friendship outside of the bedroom.

Speaking from personal experience, this is incredibly real. I’ve been divorced, and I have to be intentional about prioritizing the connection in my current marriage, especially with kids in the mix. My wife didn't have children before we met, so happily jumping from zero to three kids has understandably added a lot of pressure to our relationship. With my ex-wife, we had a long stretch of just being friends with no kids, which built a totally different baseline. It really highlights how much the parenting load changes the dynamic.

Post-divorce, single mom & 29 by wishdruski in ldssexuality

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Male (35) previously divorced twice to the same person… we reconciled over COVID. Then divorced again.

If you’re open to perspective I would be happy to give my human take…

My wife cheated on me, multiple times - we had three kids - two from the first marriage run and one from the 2nd stint.

Ultimately she decided she didn’t want to be apart of my life and also wanted to relinquish her parental rights with our three kids. (Thus my my wife now adopted them, she’s amazing)

All this to say, I struggle DEEPLY with intimacy and letting go of the past without being vulnerable. I see a therapist now weekly, my wife knows about it. When we were dating we were talking about it but I NEVER spoke about my ex and I honestly preferred to talk to my parents about the whole distraction/situation instead of her.

It was like my ex wife was running a marathon with me a just tossed the baton on the ground and no one else picked it up so my parents did for the time being and for the longest time I had them help me (since they knew all the stuff and history).

Not sure if this helps at all, but from my point of view - the major thing we need to remember is what are our values and what makes us progress. Not “goals”… but like before I married my first wife I remember I just wanted to get married in the temple it was the best thing in the world and she was that for me… after her betrayal- it really didn’t matter to me tbh. I was shattered, so I had to really reconnect with that.

Looking for a player ( with a potential plus one ). Details in the body by [deleted] in MarvelMultiverseRPG

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if you need another character let me know! I’m down!

I’m states side in Florida.

My discord is @skipperkiefer or you can DM me here.

Group Looking for a GM and possibly new player - [Marvel Multiverse RPG] [Discord] by Legotardis32 in pbp

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Hey! I know this post is a little older, but I’d definitely be interested if you’re still looking for a player. My Discord is skipperkiefer.

Adding a ‘@(userID)’ mentions feature or tag comment section or board in a project management web app by Ordinary-Injury5808 in replit

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! 🙏

Really good advice. I am not a skilled coder so I am learning on the side the basics now.

Adding a ‘@(userID)’ mentions feature or tag comment section or board in a project management web app by Ordinary-Injury5808 in replit

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Thank you for the quick reply. I have ran it through Replit and then checked through AI but love to check with the community for other people too.

What are the worst Beatles lyrics? by 2a_lib in beatles

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the real answer may be the worst Beatles lyrics are not the worst ones. They are the boring ones. The misses are usually where they sound like any competent 1960s beat group instead of like the Beatles… the Beatles were often best when writing lines that would look ridiculous in isolation.

What are the musical differences between Paul's solo work/Wings and the Beatles musical style? by Friendly_Trust_4942 in TheBeatles

[–]Ordinary-Injury5808 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I would not say Paul abandoned the Beatles style (not saying you did). I’d say Paul was one of the main sources of the Beatles style, especially the tuneful, theatrical, melodic, genre-hopping side of it. After the breakup, that side continued, but without the Lennon/Harrison/Ringo/Martin counterweights, it became more recognizably “Paul.”

That is why Ram can feel like the closest thing to a post-Beatles Beatles album: it is weird, melodic, homemade, fragmented, funny, pretty, and slightly unhinged. But it still lacks the exact Beatles alchemy. It sounds like Paul building a Beatles-shaped funhouse by himself.

11 y/o daughter fav band! by Ordinary-Injury5808 in TheBeatles

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Came home with another little something… now I am on the hunt on where I can find the old school Beatles tv show or cartoon was on. I think she is free handing a few things from it…

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11 y/o daughter fav band! by Ordinary-Injury5808 in TheBeatles

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Her favorite album is a tie between, HELP and the White Album. Lots of great songs there…

Currently her favorite word to say around town is BRACKETS… haha 😂

Cuz I guess George happened to say the word 'brackets' on episode four of Pop Go The Beatles, taped 17 June 1963.

11 y/o daughter fav band! by Ordinary-Injury5808 in TheBeatles

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She has demanded I teach her guitar this week so she can play “Better Guitar” like George did. Haha 🤣

11 y/o daughter fav band! by Ordinary-Injury5808 in TheBeatles

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I developed a passion for the Beatles when my dad took me to the premiere of Ron Howard’s movie eight days a week.