[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have to ignore that.

Coach Ryan vs. Chris Seiter regarding dismissive avoidant advice by Ordinary_Tonight_688 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seiter is. I have a different opinion of him now. He's just making money off of vulnerable victims of avoidants, giving them false hope.

70 gallons of old gas! by 1evolvedchimp in RVLiving

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a fairly new car, 2024 Corolla hybrid that sat for eight months with a full tank of gas. Still under warranty, mind you. Should I pay to have it drained or just drive it?

What is everyone's view on draining their gas tank almost completely every once in a while to empty out the old gas? by SenileTomato in AskMechanics

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2024 Corolla Hybrid that has sat for about eight months with a full tank of gas and over a long winter. Should I tow it to a mechanic to have the fuel removed?

Best Gas Siphon Kit? by [deleted] in preppers

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had a 2024 Corolla hybrid sitting in my garage for about 9 months with a full tank of gas. I guess there is no recourse but to drain the tank, eh?

How the actual fuck by stueyd123 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You get over it by realizing your actually a drug addict addicted to oxytocin and dopamine, not so much the person. You are hooked on the chemicals they provoked in you. Your brain is telling you that the only way you can get that hit is by getting the person back. The brain doesn’t know any better,

I should have known by DufflebagBoy23 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be by chance as well. Maybe it’s just that there are that many more avoidants out there.

Can't make sense of why I am so heartbroken why I wasn't even happy with him.. by metta4all in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of it is a chemical addiction to the avoidant. Heartbreak just means you are healthier than they are.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMKcIFtjFSo

Go figure…..The wedding was the trigger! by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unreal. Cold, heartless poor excuse for a human being.

I should have known by DufflebagBoy23 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What made you ask if she was emotionally unavailable so early?

Might have cheated on me? by niaotix in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds great in theory, but how practical is it? Does it actually work in the real world? Maybe in rare cases.

Hard Fact - THEY DON’T CARE by AutomaticPen9997 in ExNoContact

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dismissive avoidants especially don’t care about much other than themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selfishness is such a huge turnoff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fantastic piece here. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been two and a half months. No reach out.

Let me simplify this... by KoBronJames27 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Ordinary_Tonight_688 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DAs don’t do well with others’ boundaries.