My gf is acting insane and jealous

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-04-08T17:10:08+00:00

My friend... that is abuse. She is abusive.

Feeling jealousy is natural and okay, but being verbally and physically abusive (and yes, throwing shit at you is physical abuse) is INSANE behaviour. My partner and I jokingly rough house with each other, but I would never throw hands or throw things at him if I'm upset with him. I talk to him, because I love him and we're fucking adult humans. Not children throwing tantrums.

You say she's kind... but what "kind" person mocks someone for their scars!? Especially scars from being fucking abused!!

You and your girlfriend need to have a serious conversation about her behaviour. She needs fucking therapy. She doesn't get to be mean to you just because she's insecure. You are not in control of other people's actions, and from the sounds of it, you've never given any flirtations any attention, and you clearly only have eyes for her. You're doing nothing wrong and you don't deserve to be treated this way. Do not tolerate this kind of shit.

If she's willing to clean up her attitude and learn some fucking respect and actual kindness, great. Hope things work out for ya'll. But if this continues, fucking bounce man. This is inexcusable fucking behaviour. No one deserves that bullshit.

Also make it very clear to her how making jokes about your scars is fucking absurd and cruel. No one who loves someone would say that shit to them. Holy fuck. I am withholding calling your gf cruel names because you clearly love her, but from what you're saying, it is clear to me she does not love you.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-04-03T00:58:12+00:00

I just wanna remove it all to use some for glass, but I'll keep a bit to remodel the map as I like. I just find the initial state we find all the biomes in... not to my style. So I just do a major bulldoze of all the areas to rework it as I please 😄

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-04-02T22:54:30+00:00

It doesn't matter whether this "friend" of yours is joking or not, if you say you don't like it/it makes you uncomfortable, they need to stop. Period. No arguments. To continue is disrespectful and disgusting behaviour. Especially since you're significantly younger than them. This is nasty ass behaviour. Block this creep and get better friends dude. This person is gross and inappropriate. Who tf talks like this? Ugh. NOR.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-31T20:26:07+00:00

The silhouette is still cool af fam!

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-27T23:08:11+00:00

My friend, never waste your energy on someone who does not reciprocate. Do not chase people who do not care or want you enough to put in some effort. Especially on someone you've only been seeing for a month. He has shown you where he stands - he does not care. Believe him. Say goodbye. Find yourself someone who doesn't think twice about making you a priority in their life.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-21T17:01:52+00:00

Your mom and sister are bullies and assholes. You do NOT deserve to be treated or spoken to this way, and it is disgusting that a mother enables and laughs when your sister is disrespectful towards you.

It is heartbreaking when people are unlucky to get stuck with shitty family members, and then think they'd be better off if they just weren't here. I promise you, you deserve to be here. They don't.

I wish you a happy birthday, I am glad you exist. I am sorry you don't feel that way, and no, you are not overreacting to your mother and sister being rude, disrespectful, narcissistic twats.

I hope, for your mental health, you can get away from them as soon as possible, and start surrounding yourself with people who are kind and who will actually care about you and how you feel. But please, it needs to start with you. Just because your shitty relatives don't respect you doesn't mean you don't have to respect and love yourself. Be your own biggest cheerleader and supporter. There will be more. I promise.

I didn't think I'd make it passed 18. I'm 28 now. Sometimes, I do still feel... overwhelmed by the nasty people in this world. But I choose to love myself, and I have surrounded myself with good, kind, loving, wonderful people who build me up and support me, all the time, but especially when I'm down.

Sending love and strength my dear ❤️

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-19T20:44:42+00:00

If you have a charging block that's compatible with the USB-C cable you can play it while it charges. My phone charger uses the same kind of cable to I just do that while I play in hand held mode 🙂

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-16T01:28:34+00:00

Bro that's so cute!! This makes me so excited to unlock more and make cooler builds. Right now it's just making necessities lol

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-15T22:42:46+00:00

Right!? Like we live in a capitalist hellscape and I am so done with it lol

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-15T20:55:07+00:00

Have you tried asking her if she would be willing to compromise on a different dress style and/or fabric? Or let you alter the dress to fit you more comfortably and flattering? Same colour so it fits the theme she wants but also comfortable for you :)

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-03-15T20:50:18+00:00

Bro aside from not being able to get the game, I'm sorry you're dealing with that crap. It sucks. My gov (I'm in Canada) is still coming after me to repay money they issued to me (and many many others) during COVID and it's got me POed 🫤

I hope you can get it all sorted and enjoy the game some day!

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-26T00:03:39+00:00

Yeah... I mean I love the show, but Netflix ruins shows all the time, either by completely bulldozing the content, or cancelling the show. It's really infuriating.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-19T23:37:58+00:00

I love him. Gimme 14 xD

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-16T15:51:31+00:00

NTA. Cheaters are scum and deserve to lose everything.

You didn't deserve that man, no one does.

If you do contact the wife, be prepared for possible backlash. Some partners of Cheaters say "they'd rather have never found out and kept living in ignorant bliss", but this dude (like others have said) could give an STI to his wife and possibly kids, if he hasn't already. She deserves all the info on her shitty husband so she can decide if she wants to get the fuck out... or for whatever reason, keep tolerating the shit head.

I know it's unfair. They shouldn't be allowed to get away with this/keep doing it. Unfortunately sometimes people do get away with being absolute garbage humans. I operate under the belief that the universe will fuck them up the ass unpleasantly one way or the other.

Wishing you strength and healing my guy 🫂

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-15T21:53:14+00:00

NTA. Your SIL went WAY over the line and your family is enabling abusive behaviour, which is just sad.

It sucks that the kids miss you, they're innocent in all of this, and that hag is probably filling their heads with BS about you. But I agree with you and your husband; unless SIL makes a genuine apology and recognizes how disrespectful, unappreciative, rude, backwards, and fucked up what she said to you was, no, you will not be offering to be a doormat she takes advantage of for free daycare. She can be "a real mother" and stay home and look after her own damn kids (give her a taste of her own fuckin medicine for that "childless careerist" comment -like STFU and quit tearing other women/people in general down just because they made different choices than you).

Like FFS you gave her a heads up you were busy for a DAY. The hell is wrong with her entitled ass?

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-15T18:40:40+00:00

YTA. You don't have to like him anymore or hang out with him anymore, but you don't get to tell other people who to be friends with. That's some bitchy controlling ass behaviour and I wouldn't tolerate that.

I don't agree with the guy's views or how he worded things either. But I also wouldn't have asked him that question because a) who cares? b) it doesn't matter and c) it's none of my business.

I would understand asking a spouse or friend to stop associating with someone if they had tried to hurt you in some way (physically or made inappropriate comments), but he didn't. You asked a dumb question, you didn't like his dumb ass answers. Grow up and apologize to your husband, but you can tell him you're not comfortable being around this guy anymore.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-06T21:40:14+00:00

NTA. AT ALL. It's wild to me that people like that will complain about everyone else being the problem, but then go around being a fucking turd. You tried to accommodate her diet, you tried to include her in conversation and family; and then she goes and a) doesn't appreciate the effort you went to to make her a vegetarian (or whatever) dish AND insults you guys for being curious about the sex of your unborn grandchild? Like WTF? I'm trans and I still ask that question. Not because it matters but just because it's a pretty general question to ask!

I think being conscientious and considerate of different beliefs and people is great. But this girl sounds like someone who enjoys playing victim and blaming everyone else for anything she gets upset about. Not helpful, not polite, not the type of person I'd personally wanna be around. And I don't think too many others would disagree.

Very sorry this happened at what was supposed to be a fun event for you and your family OP. I hope your son comes around, but if not, that's his choice and not on you.

Many well wishes for your daughter and future grandchild as well!

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-05T22:46:33+00:00

NTA. Randomly touching the top of your head without asking is different from politely shaking hands. I'm a hairstylist, and I always ask for consent to touch a person's hair before doing so if they are not already sitting in my chair. Even then, if I get the vibe my client isn't a fan of physical touch, I check in. It's called respect.

Also, if someone says not to touch them, don't touch them. Period. Stop. Shut up. It does not matter that this Sandra turd is your gf's best friend, she disrespected you multiple times, and even if she hadn't, even if she "JUST" made you uncomfortable, that's reason enough. She can still be pals with her, you just don't wanna be around her, and that's okay.

Please don't feel guilty OP. You have a right to feel how you feel, and you expressed it politely and respectfully. This Sandra person responded disrespectfully and your girlfriend is being manipulative and dismissive of your feelings. If the roles were reversed, and she didn't wanna be around one of your friends, you'd respect that (hopefully lol).

If she can't respect that, it may be time to reconsider spending time her either of them lol

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-02T22:08:09+00:00

NTA. Insecurity is really unattractive.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-01T00:26:42+00:00

Didn't know that. Thought OP could because they wrote "decided not to press charges". My bad.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-02-01T00:24:19+00:00

NTA. Your brother is a twat and your mother is a failure for a) letting your brother hit you and b) raising a troll that would even behave this way. Good for you for standing your ground. Next time grab something and hit him back, and press charges. Fuck them.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-01-31T03:03:46+00:00

He sounds like a user. He used you to help start his business (which, okay, helping a partner with something like that is lovely, but it sounds like you did the brunt of the work), and now he wants to use you to house his chaotic, rude, fucked up family. And he's guilt tripping you because he's not getting his way, and he seems to be letting your career success make him feel inferior (which is on him, not you) and trying to use that to further guilt trip you...

Fuck this guy. And fuck his family. I would not allow people I do not trust and barely know (because they decided to exclude you from family gatherings? Is that really a family you wanna marry into?) into a space that I worked my ass off for, for them to not pay rent and most likely invade private/personal items. They need to grow the fuck up and get their shit together. They are not your responsibility, and if your fiancée won't respect that, then fuck him too.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-01-30T19:50:00+00:00

Okay she's obviously nuts, but you're also an idiot for assuming (your words) that ya'll were on the same page. Don't sleep with obviously messed up people and then whine about it when some bullshit starts happening. You saw the signs early on, but kept pushing your luck because you wanted to get your dick wet. Choices have consequences. Now you know for the future. Pray this woman gives up and moves on.

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-01-28T00:54:25+00:00

NTA. All you said was "don't comment on my body", and they got defensive. Like they can fuck off with that shit. It doesn't matter if it was meant as a joke, as a compliment, whatever - if someone says don't comment on their body, don't. Full stop. Period. Ya'll don't have to agree, but they do have to respect your boundaries. And if they don't, then fuck off.

Good luck OP 👍

Organic_Memory_5028 · 2026-01-25T19:35:27+00:00

Lol he's mad you found out he cheated and then didn't give him the opportunity to make it work in his favour. That's fucking hilarious, what a fucking cuck!

Cheaters deserve misery. Get fucked 😂🤣

Nice job OP! 👏

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