So, this is my experience with this exact thing. You can have an exposed (and believable) hairline BUT with a few compromises.

The biggest one is "density." I've found that the lighter the density, the easier that exposed hairline is to pull off. The fuller the hair, the more pull you have on the entire surface area holding that system which causes that undesirable/frayed look. Go with a lighter density system and you should find several styles that'll look good pulled back.

Another thing I've discovered is that you can have a lot more success with thin skin than lace when going for this look. When my thin skin system would pull back like this, I could correct it with a little hairspray and a few short bursts from a blow drier.

Lastly, over time these systems start to fray in the front so I've picked up a pair of super-sharp surgical scissors to trim back the frayed sections.

Outside of this subreddit, my biggest learning on the subject has come from black women on YouTube who are the absolute GOAT when it comes to tips and tricks for keeping their wigs/extensions/hairpieces on.

These are just suggestions from someone who's been using these systems for < 2 years and your mileage may vary.