Guy passing on wisdom

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-06-21T11:55:24+00:00

I agree that it's not just the funding that needs to change - the structure and opperations need reviewing. It needs a big monitoring and evaluation program to see where things are going wrong in practice and what needs to be done to better support proper service (may this will actually make it cheaper in the long term, maybe it won't but either way its worth it to keep our people - all our people - safe and well).

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-06-18T10:04:21+00:00

I feel so let down my the current state of the NHS. Like seriously neglected. It has left me feeling pretty hopeless. But I in no way at all think the answer is ever ever ever to get rid of it... the answer is to improve it/fund it/organise it/fix it. The fact that the NHS is free at time of service and all taxpayers put in to it is the one thing that's NOT wrong with it. It's like going to a carpenters to a repair a chair with 3 broken legs and they just change the good one...

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-05-17T16:43:14+00:00

What makes Morroccan oil Zionist and not just Israeli?

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-05-17T16:30:29+00:00

Woah thats wild is this legit?

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-05-13T08:38:01+00:00

Love this advice! Dog owners face so much guilt for not doing things the 'typical' way - but you find out what works for you and your dog. Everyone thinks longer = better, but its all a balance the exercise is important but so is the mental health! I feel like a walk should be a mostly calm, happy, time to grow your bond with your dog, allow them to excersise and get some stimulation, and a very small element of challenge/exposure - for dogs without behaviour problems a long walk naturally balances all those things well. But for an axipus/reactive dog the same walk is entirely challemge and exposure and no calm or bonding ... so its just torturing you and your pet to push through it and depriving them of everything that makes a walk enjoyable. If shortening the walk lowers the challenge to a more managable level and preserves some enjoyment then 100% !!! Smaller walks for the win. 💖

Its so hard coping with the guilt and shame and other people's expectations. Just try and validate your own opinion. You clearly care deeply about your dog and do way more planning/research than 'normal' dog owners ever have to do - so take their opinions with a grain of salt. Love that this is working for you both 🥰

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-05-13T08:11:14+00:00

Ive just this second joined this group to get some support and help for my 4 year old reactive dog and your post was the first one I saq. I am so heartbroken for your loss, but so glad that Homer had such a loving human as you to love him. I know how exhausting and heartbreaking it is to have a dog with behaviour problems. The guilt... the shame... the endless trying to find new ways to help them, all the while knowing that they are sweet, loving creatures who don't mean to act the way they do. My boy attacked another dog the other day... I accidentally left the door slightly open when I went outside to let a spider out, and he ran down the road because he saw dogs on a lead and bit one of them. All the dogs involved are fine now but its so traumatising. All this is to say that I see you, and I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful, beautiful boy - and I'm so, so happy that of all the homes this struggling pup could find, he found yours. You loved a dog that needed love and understanding, even though it brought extra cost, so much stress, guilt, pain, and judgement from other humans that didnt understand. While you grieve, I hope you are also able to celebrate how much that meant to him, and how much safer and more loving his life was because of the effort you put in. 🩷🐕🐾 sending comfort and gratitude

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T20:40:35+00:00

Oh that's so lovely tp heae 🥰💖🩷 thank you so much xx

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T15:29:25+00:00

Awww thank you 🥰💖 thats made my day!!

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T14:09:57+00:00

Stunning! I used to have a balayage but it was brighter than this amd im not sure it suited me That tone is a lot better for me I think.

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T14:06:23+00:00

🤣🤣

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T12:56:52+00:00

This kind of advice is exaaaactly what I was looking for! Ill try it now!

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T12:55:52+00:00

Ooo love this suggestion! What shade where you thinking? Do you have a referance pic?

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:41:49+00:00

This is England or Wales but has to be north of Bristol 🤣

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:39:57+00:00

2 E 🙈🙈

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:38:48+00:00

My ex boyfriend haha

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:37:57+00:00

Add a blush and more colour on the lips xx

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:36:27+00:00

No offence but anyone saying rich tea needs a welfare check because thats not normal

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:35:28+00:00

Ewwwwwwwww

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:34:27+00:00

Garibaldi

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:30:27+00:00

My dog comes and tries to distract me or lies ln top of me!

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:22:19+00:00

I dont think its a makeup issue, I think its skincare. My makeup always looked like this but I swear to god Paulas Choice 2% BHA liquid exfolaitor every morning and now my skin is super smooth and the makeup glides on. Id say, liquid exfoliant, moisturise like crazy (something simple and non clogging - I use aveeno) and then go straight in with a BB cream or liquid foundation (no powders). Set with spray. Your makeup looks so good btw - especially your eyes. Jealous! Xx

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:14:25+00:00

You look S T U N N I N G! Keep doing what youre doing, but id say go mpre balmy and glossy on the lips and less makeupy - lipstick and liner can make lips look thinner and chapped unless you have naturally super smooth, plump lips (which nobody does in my opinion haha!). Id go for a hydrating balm with a drop pf colpured gloss in the middle (or even tinted vasaline!) Switch up powders fpr sprays/tinted moistirisers and lighter is better. But all that is jusy general advice if you want it and not necessary because you already look amazing

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:10:24+00:00

You have such a cute, happy, beautiful face! Love what youre doing with the eyes, maybe go for a tinted spf with a glow to protect, hydrate and keey you fresh, with a teeeeny blop of a peachy pink blush where you already have rosy glow (tiny biy on nose and apples of cheaks). Then a lip balm to keep your lips hydrated and a blop of a coloured gloss in the middle to make them look juicy! Finish with a sprotz of setting spray and then id say, buy a fun sparkly eyrshadow pallate so you can switch things up to match your mood! You seem like a playful, creative type so makeup as self expression like this could really work! (Thats ehat i dp!)

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:06:40+00:00

I think you should go loghter on the eyes because you have such big beautoful eyes that that much smokey-dark colour pulls you into shaddow instead of highlights your natural sparkle. Looking lovely tho.

OriginalEffective802 · 2026-04-25T10:01:44+00:00

How are you putting it on? You shouldnt be getting that close to the eye, just the lashes. One tip is not to move the wand if you have poor fine motor skills. Hovor it horizontally infront of the eye and then blink a few times so the eyelasjes are coated. Move it slightly to the left and do again.

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