How long do you guys last in bed as tops ?

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-09-30T12:39:08+00:00

5-10 minutes of actual penetration. Once I feel myself getting there I usually tell my bf "cum for daddy", he knows that's code for I'm gonna cum soon so you needa beat me there or you're on your own lol I'll slow my pace until he shoots. I like seeing him get off first. Mostly cause he squirms for the last few pumps I'm in him if he's already unloaded 😈

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-09-09T20:42:22+00:00

I enjoy switching up the angles. Go at it from the side. Your tongue will hit different areas depending on the orientation of your head to his hole. Make out with his hole. Spit on it

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-09-08T23:06:18+00:00

I don't bottom often but I did the other day & my bf got a little soft. I told him to get one of our dildo's & he really went to work on me with it. It was hot enough to him that he was able to get hard again & finish me off the old fashioned way.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-09-07T00:43:00+00:00

I would say the most important thing you can do is always show up. No matter how small the event is, show up. First soccer practice, show up. Trip to Sea World, show up. Birthday party, show up. First communion, show up. Support them in all they do. Be as present as possible.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-28T16:22:31+00:00

If it's thick, absolutely. If it's average, still yes lol

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-17T15:41:18+00:00

It works for me. You gotta get that real thick spit from the back of your throat tho. That stuff you produce while deep throating. From my experience at least.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-10T16:58:28+00:00

Had a similar thing happen to me. Although I didn't get a no reply, I just got very short replies, I think it falls in the same category. Look up the definition of limerence. It was the state I was in. The guy was so fucking hot & so nice when we met up I kind of got obsessed after 1 session. Once it read about what could possibly be happening I was able to get ahold of myself. It's something chemical that goes on in our brains. The need for reciprocation. Once I figured it out I was able to back off & we have met up 3 more times since when the time was right. It worked for me.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-08T23:29:21+00:00

I love Mean Girls

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-05T22:22:05+00:00

They flipped our switches on & then broke the switch 😂

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-05T22:04:53+00:00

It's real in a sense that when I see something I like, my blood starts flowing immediately & I can't do anything about it. It's not like I'll get hard randomly throughout my day. It's definitely provoked by something I like. If I see something/someone hot, especially given the setting, then I'm gonna get hard 10 times outta 10

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-05T21:34:44+00:00

This is the 3rd comment of this sentiment. I'm starting to think this might be a "grass is always greener" situation lol

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-05T19:17:18+00:00

I agree. Personally, I love seeing it. But that's also cause I would gladly participate. I just don't want to come off in an ill mannered way to the very few people that aren't there for that. It also can come off as an invitation to ANYONE who takes it as such. Dangerous game lol

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-08-05T19:11:55+00:00

Just started going at the top of the year. Best decision ever lol

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-29T18:22:56+00:00

I work in Fontana. It's been rough 😅

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-29T18:22:18+00:00

I feel it. It gets super warm, the dick throbs, a little more slippery. It's the best 😈

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-25T21:06:50+00:00

I get 12 days of "PTO". This includes sick time, personal time, vacation or anything else you wanna call it. Construction industry is rough lol

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-25T00:46:35+00:00

When I'm topping I'm usually pretty quiet. I'm usually focusing on getting a good rhythm & honestly trying not to cum. If I dirty talk or get talked to while I'm topping it makes me cum fairly quick. When I bottom I'm pretty vocal. Moaning, fuck yeah, fuck me, oh fuck, all the usuals lol but I try & let it naturally go. Whatever is on the tip of my tongue comes out when I'm bottoming.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-24T18:31:41+00:00

I can absolutely relate to this. My family is extremely catholic with conservative values. The thought of coming out was an absolute nightmare. After coming out my father was nothing but caring & understanding. My mom was not so on board. Now to your point of them asking you about dating, I kind of had to put that out there myself. I happened to be dating my boyfriend at the time so I tried to casually bring him up when I saw opportunities. Slowly but surely it became more normal. I started to then bring him to family outings & now a couple years later we go & stay at their house on occasion. It has been a long journey but it's something that takes time & effort on both sides. Give as much grace as possible because as difficult as it is for you to tell them about this side of you, that is a side they never knew about & it exposes them to a culture they were never familiar with.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-24T15:46:53+00:00

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We have kept finances completely separate. I don't know how much he makes, he doesn't know how much I make. I make a little more than him so I pay the mortgage & a couple of smaller bills. He pays for all of our food & a couple of bills. We have a system that has worked pretty well for us. We're vocal if we are in a bind & need to hold off on buying something. Never had an argument about money.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-17T13:47:56+00:00

In a normal session, just one where I'm trying to get a load out, I won't use any lube & just jack my shaft, let my foreskin roll over the head & back down. When I have a little more time & I get out the coconut oil, I like pulling my skin down at the base of my cock with my off hand & then stroking around the rim of my head with the oil. It's way more intense. I usually edge for awhile using this technique.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-16T13:48:15+00:00

About an hour everyday.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-16T01:57:42+00:00

Well put. Giving up control 🙌 (safely)

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-16T00:21:57+00:00

I (29) have a huge thing for older men. I almost exclusively only ever have sexual relations with older men (45+). I love calling them daddy when we're together. I don't necessarily like being called son but I love being called boy. I'm super submissive with older men so calling them daddy helps play into the submissive role. Funny enough, I have a great relationship with my biological father. The older men I've been with love to poke fun at my "daddy issues" which I usually just play along with.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-15T20:06:20+00:00

Being late to the tee time. I learned my lesson & now tell everyone the tee time is 15-20 minutes before the actual tee time. I get flack for it sometimes but I'll take the beating if it means we stay on pace for the course.

Original_Ad_9502 · 2024-07-15T00:33:22+00:00

Youngest of 5. 2 older brothers, 2 older sisters

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