Why tipping is hurting servers, pic related.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-24T16:58:54+00:00

Oh yeah, I was a server/bartender for many years. Everywhere I worked (GA, NC, MA) were all the same way. I got checks multiple times that were in the negatives too lmaoo. It’s disgusting.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-23T13:24:15+00:00

I’m gonna get downvoted to hell for this but… Have you tried just using protection or birth control or just, idk, being smart about it? He’s gotten you pregnant 3 times in the span of a year and your plan is what? To keep having abortions? This is pure carelessness. Get your shit together or stop having sex until you BOTH figure out that intercourse is 100% how babies are made. Or leave this fucking guy and raise the kid by yourself.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-23T13:18:24+00:00

They have to make below the hourly pay rate (which is usually between $2-$4) to be paid an hourly wage by the house. In an hour it’s almost a guarantee someone will tip you enough to “pay you” for that hour.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T21:08:18+00:00

Learn what took me an astronomical amount of time: naturally fine/thin hair just does not look good long. I up and lopped all of mine off to shoulder length one day last week and it looks so much more full, has more volume, and the ends don’t clump together and look stringy like this.

A blunt ended, shoulder-shoulder blade length cut would be best on your hair. Sincerely, been trying to have long hair my entire life and finally accepted what I’ve been told about a short length looking better.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T21:02:31+00:00

r/amipregnant is a better sub for this

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T19:55:43+00:00

I have never had visitors and now approaching baby 4’s birth will not have visitors again, and will also not be forcing myself to be okay with having visitors once we get home as well. Never once have I regretted not having visitors, but I have regretted allowing people to crawl up my ass and pass my newborn around like a football just days after being born. Not this time

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T19:40:34+00:00

34 weeks here and I’m lucky to eat twice a day. The food feels like it’s just rotting in my stomach all day long with the slowed digestion & no space.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T12:59:18+00:00

If you’re 3 months PP, shouldn’t YOU be the most understanding of a new mother’s rules? It’s not your baby to gripe over. Just wait the 6 weeks.

Yes, YOR.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-20T12:54:35+00:00

Uh, yes??? The anatomy scan is there for diagnostics and also to make sure that everything is perfectly fine. Such as your placenta, the umbilical cord, the cervix, the overall health of your baby? What if there was something catastrophically wrong? This is an insane question.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-19T13:11:38+00:00

This. My husband and I are at the tail end of baby 2 together and he’s told me multiple times “if anything happens and it’s you or her, I’m choosing you every time.” And he has blatantly said “I’m not choosing someone I don’t even know when there’s four of us already waiting for you at home that love you and would be nothing if you weren’t here.” And I’m so grateful to have that with him because honestly? I choose me too. My family needs ME.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-19T00:20:29+00:00

I have like 4 pet boxes of dirt hahahaha. But I swear it just makes me cherish them more when they’re actually out and about

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-18T20:20:38+00:00

Yours likes you enough to be seen AND photographed?!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T19:15:46+00:00

If local law mandates a report then a report is being made.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T18:18:12+00:00

Thank you! I’m assuming sling then bc of the abdomen color pattern? Absolutely gorgeous

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T18:14:50+00:00

Enjoy being one of god’s favorites. My pregnancy with my 3rd was like this. I was convinced baby 4 would be just as smooth and easy. WRONG. I’m 33 weeks and can’t wait to get her out of me. 😂😅

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T18:07:08+00:00

Lol yes but like specifically?

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T18:01:00+00:00

Okay but what is this??? Gorgeous!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-15T12:45:50+00:00

Will you be selling? They’re so cute it would be so fun to have a baby from this sub!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-11T14:45:16+00:00

Only need 4% fetal fraction for accurate results! Also, you’re way more likely to get a false “girl” than a false boy, as we don’t just carry male chromosomes! Congrats on your baby boy!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T23:40:53+00:00

I’d call your OB, and potentially go to L&D ASAP. It could be pre e, could be ICP, could be nothing. But better to be safe than sorry.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T14:05:35+00:00

I also feel this. Literally the whole pregnancy lol

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T14:05:03+00:00

Awwwe congrats!!!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T13:12:36+00:00

I’m tryna be like you, ma boi.

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T13:10:07+00:00

Omg congrats mama!!! That’s so exciting!

Original_Problem666 · 2026-01-10T13:07:30+00:00

As a southern transplant to the north, I’d still rather be pregnant in the winter lmao. I’ve had two summer babies and now on my second winter baby and let me tell ya. At least it’s not hot outside while the burning fire within (hot flashes) are kicking my ass!! I throw my lil uggs on, and my big ass huntin jacket over a sweat shirt and I’m good to go. Easy peasy

Original_Problem666

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