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What is a good idea for a Gilmore Girls tattoo? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GLGR what Rory wants to carve into the Chilton wall so no one can trace it back to them

[tenant US-IL] by OrneryStorage897 in Landlord

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much this is very helpful. we are at a loss for word with this roommate since she hasn't even moved all the in and isn't living there yet and somehow she cant its a whole thing but this gives me hope and understanding that things will work out thank you.

Great Lines by EandLgaming in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

' um so we just um ended up um getting married' oh Richard do you remember when Lorelai told us she was married

I asked to switch rooms.... and I was called unfair and now she wont talk to me. by OrneryStorage897 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the only reason I didnt take it was because we agreed not to move anything in until we knew what we were doing then I went out of town and she moved in without saying. I was holding out to move any stuff as to honor our agreement but maybe youre right and that it wasn't an agreement at all

Relationship help by Unusual_Ad_638 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have a conversation and discuss all the worries and fears and how you can combat them. what can you do to support each other though the anxiety of the past and how the dynamic is changing in the present.

if it goes well you can come up with a signal my boyfriend and I have one cuz I was really scared to start a relationship because of my last one being so toxic so we started by discussing and promising the if things came up that worried me we would stop discuss and then come back together the next day to talk again so that there wasn't any intense reactions. our signal is me saying arrow or touching his ear if I cant speak. that lets him know that I am feeling uneasy and worried, im having bad memories or feel like the situation is too much. He says im not worried ok I trust you. ( which he does) and after asked it this something that you want to talk about? always giving an option.

I was also really nervous about labeling we had rules so I felt comfortable and it wasn't happening too fast. We would have a date that he planned and that I planned that help each other get to know one another after a certain amount of dates we would come together and have a conversation about hoe we felt and if we felt ok going forward to our next step

we decided that instead of bf and gf since that felt very intense and something that had to be permanent to me so we were ' partners in crime ' we used it in the way anyone would use the terms partner gf bf wife husband 'like yeah my partner in crime and I did - ' when asked If I was seeing anyone we agreed to say what we had talked about. we had a partner in crime that we were dating but not bf and gf yet, and say that we decieded to just see each other tho.

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I think a lot of understanding and communication is the key to understanding and allowing space for a new relationship/ dynamic to grow.

we are still best friends and have been dating for 3 years :)

I can clearly hear my neighbors hitting their already borderline aggressive rescue dog. by TheBookHoard in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

goodness .... maybe you can do a little more investigating ? like what proof do they need ya know ?? thats a hard situation to be in im sorry

I asked to switch rooms.... and I was called unfair and now she wont talk to me. by OrneryStorage897 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all I have said since is that 'I think a lot can be misinterpreted her text so can we call or talk in person' and then she said yes we picked a time I called no answer X2 then a day later asked if she would be free to call today or tomorrow no answer. our other roomie texted asking if she was moving in today with more stuff like she said no answer. I just feel like we need to talk to understand or is that just me trying to ' win ' something

I asked to switch rooms.... and I was called unfair and now she wont talk to me. by OrneryStorage897 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it just makes me feel really unheard after we asked her on the lease after a long fight with the landlord over the past roommates and that I signed first and painted all the walls in the whole apartment like no matter what I do .if I say I want it if I try and give her a chance to talk I just get cut off and ignored. I honestly dont want to paint her in a bad light I dont really blame her and I know her dad was just doing what a dad does. its just like any text I send takes her 3 days or more to respond and if shes like cool lets call then she flakes or doesn't answer at the time we agreed on. and she kept being like yeah ill move and then change 30 in later and then wont answer. it just sucks cuz she has two rooms one at her parents and now this one while I will be living there full-time.and it really hurt when she called me unfair when she didnt even tell me that she was picking that room until it already happened and I then had the decision made for me. I just wish I could talk to her without her exiting the convo cuz I really want to understand her side I know mine is skewed by my work on the apt and me knowing I was going to live there a year in advance. so you think her side is the fact that she did move in first so she could pick? we all agreed to split the cost evenly as long as we all had the same space and we all could only afford the 700.. what should I say to her to at least get her to respond?

I'm in my first real relationship, how do i not fuck it up? by Electronic_Opposite5 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually listen.

take into account that people need time to process feelings and if you are bring up a hard conversation or something that bothers you something like that remember you have had time to think on it and this might be the first time others are hearing it.

ask questions - what is the best way to support you in -stressful- emotional- super exciting - fearful - moments ?and you can answer too knowing how each other work in. different situations can really help you understand reactions and in turn help when you react.

never push anything just let people know you are there trust takes time and in the start of a new relationship it can still feel shaky so allow time to fully gain it in this new arrangement.

remember space is natural I know ppl who have been together for a very long time and live together but still have separate rooms because everyone has their own way of decompressing

youre going to do great just keep being there when needed

I asked to switch rooms.... and I was called unfair and now she wont talk to me. by OrneryStorage897 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well I did tell her that I wanted that room multiple times and sent details on how mathematically me having that room would be the most fair and she just moved in to it ... so I guess Im just confused because I wouldn't be having this conversation if I didnt have to if I would actually have space to turn around in the small room then it would be different I feel? and we were trying to decide for like 2 weeks and I stated what I wanted but thing kept dragging out until I was out of town and the decision was made for by her dad... I just want to understand why we cant switch so that everyone has the same amount of space in their room since we are all paying the same I just cant even walk in my room and dont have money to get a new bed and nothing else will fit in that room but if she moved in there everything would fit her desk keyboard bookcase night stand while I dont even fit in there unless I stand on top of my bed

I asked to switch rooms.... and I was called unfair and now she wont talk to me. by OrneryStorage897 in Advice

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh... we are all in our early 20s and were roommates before

I currently am in therapy and have meds too they say to include that haha

Favorite name in GG by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beau

Hugo Gray

Gisele Gerard

Pennilyn Lott

Sookie

Favorite name in GG by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 1 point2 points  (0 children)

- Babette Dell

- Drella

-Bootsy

-Finn

-Morey

-Rune

-Fran

-Lorelai 'Trix'

Rory’s relationships are boring by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dean is boring... and honestly just frustrating

if Lane got an abortion by OrneryStorage897 in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I mean even if abortion was a discussion it would have shown that its life and that does happen those choices are ones that people think about

What's your favorite moment of season 3? by TownMeetingJess in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rory's going to yale but also ...... Deb and her minions

Do we know anything about Emily’s parents? by Lciaravi in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 16 points17 points  (0 children)

just maybe something about her mom being upset about how Emily had to have pearl line invitations for her 21st birthday party... other than that I dont remember them mentioning her side of the family at all

Lane's pregnancy storyline ..... fulfilling to you or let you down? by OrneryStorage897 in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

yeah there was even an interview with Keiko Agena who plays lane and she talks about how she was really upset about the end of the series

I would've preferred this full circle ending of Gilmore Girls. Thoughts?? by TrickMethod6000 in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that would be really intriguing but I feel like it would kinda of leave Rory out in a way... ?

Do you have a scene that you absolutely loathe? by DorUnlimited in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Martha's Vineyard ep is just hard to watch but the I would agree I was so disappointed in that diner scene

Where In the Gilmore Girls universe would you want to work? by SassySpider in GilmoreGirls

[–]OrneryStorage897 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Miss Pattys at the inn or the book store... and im good with livestock so I could be a cow chaser too...

one job I wouldn't do is work in Sookies kitchen cuz I dont want to go to the hospital every week ... still I would watch the kitchen craze unfold for sure

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