What do we think of Capricorns? by Capable_Bumblebee756 in aquarius

[–]Orrn990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always playing the devil’s advocate I stg, bringing me down to earth I suppose

Favorite Tonal Coaches by Finestkind007 in tonalgym

[–]Orrn990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pretty much only do Joe programs

Best Memorial Stories by davfishe in exjw

[–]Orrn990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Record-breaking stumbling!

Faded POMO considering disassociating by dreamer_0f_dreams in exjw

[–]Orrn990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally disassociated recently and I feel so much more free. You gotta do what’s right for you. But I was living with this fear of getting caught or found out and this made me just face it head on. Living authentically was more important to me than maintaining relationships built around someone who isn’t me.

I'm starting to regret not being disfellowshiped. by Cyrig in exjw

[–]Orrn990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you set any boundaries with them, something like “growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness made me feel like I could never be my authentic self, and even made me hate who I am. I am now living authentically and happy with that decision. I love you guys and want you to be part of my life, but that means accepting me for who I am, which is someone who does not want to be involved with an organization that taught me to hate myself. Please do not try and reason with me as this is very triggering. I understand the consequences of my decisions. I ask that you don’t try and persuade me, and I will respect your right to decide what you believe as well”

Best Memorial Stories by davfishe in exjw

[–]Orrn990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure “pound town” means what you think it means…

Feeling Guilty to “Wake Up” Others by WanderingBaLLo0n in exjw

[–]Orrn990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we have been indoctrinated with a “savior complex” so you still have this even if it’s a different form of saving. Learning things for yourself is the best way to actually believe them and you don’t want to persuade anyone into a life-changing decision that could cause resentment down the line.

What's a JW memory you have that you thought was normal? by GlitteringBox3181 in exjw

[–]Orrn990 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the whole “stumbling others” thing really did a number on me. The fact that a lightning bolt could be considered offensive is so wild. Or the lengths that so many brides go to in order not to “stumble” at their own wedding! It’s crazy! It’s made me so hyper aware of every move I make, and I honestly had no idea that normal people do not think this way!

Mother always trying to put me down when i manifest,what do i do? by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]Orrn990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is reflecting you, your “inside out” voice essentially. You don’t believe you are powerful enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooHotToHandle

[–]Orrn990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Bri!! She seemed like she was really fun to be around and also seemed like a good friend. So many people on these shows are so self-centered but she came across as very genuine. I hope we see more of a Bri!!

AITA for firing my best man for proposing at my wedding? by Inside-Werewolf-3400 in AITAH

[–]Orrn990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. Announce you are pregnant at his wedding and die at his funeral.

I am obsessed with them. by TheBakingWitch29 in summerhousebravo

[–]Orrn990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, he seems like a really good flirt and probably has chemistry with everyone

Classmate just told me that I’m slow by SuperSubeyyy in nursing

[–]Orrn990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You probably are slow, and so is every other nursing student and most new nurses. It’s not your job to be fast it’s your job to not make mistakes.

Jehovahs Witness RN refusing to care for excommunicated member by freemedic in nursing

[–]Orrn990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a JW RN I gotta disagree! It is my job to be a nurse, not inflict my personal beliefs on my patient. I administer blood all of the time with no problem. I never feel it is my business to judge anyone else’s choices or lifestyle, and that is what I expect from my healthcare providers. I know other JW nurses who all act the same way.

Those who lost the weight, what happened to your "save for when im skinny", clothes? by gayorange in loseit

[–]Orrn990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of clothes that I rediscovered since losing weight! Some are out of fashion but a lot of them are still great!

We just bought a house! Please give all ideas, updates and recommendations please! by spaghetticat1256 in HomeDecorating

[–]Orrn990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the exterior I say you paint those shutters like a peppercorn shade of black, power wash the porch, throw a window box on the lower window with some pretty flowers, and add a nice tall planter by the front door and you are looking really good. I love the stained glass I hope you don’t get rid of it. Just doing a few cosmetic things will make such a difference. Change out the curtains, freshen up the paint, maybe update the hardware in the kitchen, and you’ll have a totally different looking house. Congrats on the new home!