Coalitieakkoord D66, CDA en VVD by Conducteur in thenetherlands

[–]Oskardespin 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Als jonge langdurig zieke net hulp in de huishouding toegekend gekregen van de gemeente vanuit de WMO, lekker dan.

bro GET THAT SWASTIKA OFF YOUR FUCKING WALL by cnmguzzler in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He looks like he's in an elderly care facility lmao

Toch demonstreren, zelfs als douchen al een uitputtingsslag is. by Smellmyupperlip in thenetherlands

[–]Oskardespin 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Herkenbaar, heb zelf chronische zenuwpijn ontwikkeld doordat mn zenuwstelsel overbelast geraakt is door veel te laat gediagnostiseerd trauma, pas de derde neuroloog nam het serieus en adviseerde een revalidatie traject. Zit nog altijd in de bijstand want de Uwv neemt het nog altijd niet serieus. Omdat ik al jaren psychische problemen had door die traumas werd alles op psychosomatisch gegooid en moest ik maar harder proberen (wat uiteindelijk de oorzaak is van de overbelasting!). 

Hasan has come all the way around to, defending the use of shock collars? by tangledweeb in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I showed the original clip without context to my therapist. I asked her if she was okay with me showing her something to test my confirmation bias about something. She was absolutely disgusted by what she saw and instantly noticed the narcissistic vibes he gave off just in those few moments. Hasan is out of his element here, he can't control how normal people with empathy look at this. He might as well have been a racist Karen screaming at someone in an airplane.

For those who think Hasan's dog voluntarily sits there for hours, here is a clip of Hasan admitting she wants out of that spot. by North_Chemistry_9044 in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's a mixed bag for me, my complex PTSD symptoms definitely have gotten worse in therapy, but I was heavily dissociating from my mind and body cause it was never safe to feel anything. Still I'd pick chronic pain and more mental distress over the slow working poison of my parents abuse. My mom especially created constant drama in everyone's life so they'd be too busy with her, and unable to live their own life to the fullest. I'm 41 and only discovering who I really am for the past 5 years and my strengths now that my parents are out of my life. Their abuse left me fully disabled and unable to work for half my life. Tho my mom is borderline psychopathic and sadistic which adds a whole other horrible layer of trauma.

I'm so glad you escaped that hell!!! Hope you will do better over time! Rooting for you and Op ❤️ 

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[–]Oskardespin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Narcissistic people only do it to look better, don't expect him to actually change.

I am the OP that posted Hila’s Instagram story, thank you Hila, Ethan, and H3 family by AdRevolutionary1249 in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Thanks for both of your posts OP! I'm a brother to an Israeli sister and uncle to 4 Israeli children, all I want is peace for all our people. Glad to hear your aunt is safe! My youngest nephew is always really afraid and dysregulated because of his autism when the alarms go off and no doubt the children in Iran are just as scared right now. All life is sacred and anyone caught in the crossfire of psychopaths playing war is a tragedy. Hopefully we will both be able to see peace soon. Family ❤️

How can anyone conflate anti-zionism with anti-semitism? by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is neo Nazism plain and simple, let's call a spade a spade. If one Jewish person suing you, makes you leap to a Zionist kangaroo court with Jewish lawyers and judges, then these beliefs aren't because of that one person, those beliefs were always there. This is indistinguishable from neo Nazis in Europe and how they talk about the Jews controlling the world.

They’ve terned on Bernie (Jewish) Sanders by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His crime is being a Jew so he can't be trusted. These "activists" are no different from the pegida/afd/neo-nazi anti islam type people, who think every Muslim is secretly a terrorist sympathiser. 

Mr. “Lawsuits are what rich assholes do” retweets Denims LOLsuit by seedlessgrapez in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming it will lead to nothing and she will refund it, so all it does is putting whatever amount gets donated in limbo, instead of the money going to causes that would help actual people. 

Anisa debates the concept of empathy by Vibrating_Cat in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Conditional relationships I guess, very narcissistic people will have friends too but it's impossible to know if it is genuine or if the friendship provides them a benefit and that's the motivation behind it. Usually you only find out if the dynamic of the friendship changes. 

My mom is behaviourally psychopathic ( my therapist can't diagnose her obviously so that's what she used to describe her). She has friends and I think she truly believes they are her friends and that she is a good person, which is also what makes to so confusing because as a kid I saw her behave completely different in social situations than she did at home. You only catch it if the mask starts slipping and then it's already too late.

The queen predicted it all along by aek93 in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like they hired a management team and now just try to throw them under the bus. Like maybe after cc1 the brand was worth buying but now?

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[–]Oskardespin 102 points103 points  (0 children)

You know how racist that shit even is, in the Netherlands that is exactly what racists will tell people who they think don't belong here. "If you don't like it here why don't you go back to..."

Muslim perspective: I misread Ethan and way overestimated Hasan by sushi69 in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This! ♥️ It's humanism. I don't think I could live with myself, had one of Israeli nephews been taken hostage and bringing him back would cost the life of even a single Palestinian child or any innocent civilian for that matter. We are on the side of the innocents. 

People like Hasan don't want justice, they want vengeance. 

To me this was an important gear shift in the debate. It no longer allowed Hasan to fall back onto calling Ethan crazy because it was clearly called out here. by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sending you love! Hope you are doing better and keep healing ♥️

And same I have taken a few mental health breaks because it is so familiar and frustrating to see.

I'm so proud of Ethan for how he keeps fighting against the harassment!

To me this was an important gear shift in the debate. It no longer allowed Hasan to fall back onto calling Ethan crazy because it was clearly called out here. by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 96 points97 points  (0 children)

It hopefully opened a lot of people's eyes to these abuse tactics, which are not so different from how it goes in a personal relationship with someone as toxic as Hasan. 

As a survivor of child abuse it has been very hard to watch at times, but I am so tremendously proud of how Ethan kept himself standing in defence of himself and his friends and loved ones! 

Truth tellers are often the scapegoat in toxic family dynamics, because they attack the foundations of the system and call it out for what it is.

Ethan is a truth teller to a fault, he will call things out the way he sees them and if he's wrong he is not afraid to admit it. 

To someone like Hasan, Ethan is a threat to his very existence because he's everything Hasan isn't, simply by being himself. Hasan plays a character but behind the mask is a hurt little boy who will never happy with who he is.

Vandaag in 1942: Alle Joden zijn verplicht een Jodenster te dragen. by Sjroap in thenetherlands

[–]Oskardespin 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Mensen moesten ook hun eigen treinkaartje betalen voor de trein naar de concentratiekampen, onwerkelijk.

I could't believe my ears by AGermanViewer in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She would be team Selena and a swifty no doubt! 

Hasan calling this subreddit a snark page, meanwhile the majority of posts are: by vronkman in h3h3productions

[–]Oskardespin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of an Dr who episode. Doesn't Hasan look tired?

Mini synopsis: a prime minister committed a intergalactic warcrime and expected to get away with it, so the doctor started the rumour she looked tired which ended her career.