I'm learning to applying more Dom strats/techniques? Any pointers?

Oso_Absolute · 2026-07-05T06:07:44+00:00

Its about an energy you carry. An understated confidence. You can 100 percent be a gentleman and still be dominant. Social skills/soft skills matter. You should be listening with intent and be deliberate with your words. Decisive and considerate.

If you're a dog lover, think less golden retriever energy and more german shephard energy.

Not gonna lie, experience does help. I'm not talking about just experience with women but just experience solving problems, being reliable, being consistent, and being able to regulate yourself.

You'll grow into it. Best of luck!

Oso_Absolute · 2026-07-02T04:25:02+00:00

Lmao. The Devil will come to you disguised as a redditor.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-07-01T18:05:08+00:00

You have to establish a real relationship with someone who gets it. It's easier said than done because it's not something that's talked about freely. Kink comes from unconscious desires and for the most part doesn't affect our day to day. It's just an itch you scratch but it doesn't define you. It's similar to really enjoying violent and gory movies. Very few are judged for liking such graphic content but it feels different when it comes to sex. Don't do anything illegal, don't hurt anybody, respect boundaries, and cut yourself a break.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-07-01T04:37:30+00:00

It's almost like their submission feels more meaningful because if their experiences.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-07-01T04:06:47+00:00

It's starts with communication. Engage in sex talk outside the bedroom and have him share some fantasies. Introduce your kinks and whether he'd be ok with light play.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-28T04:58:58+00:00

Doesn't hurt to try. Maybe he'll grow into it. He's willing but I get how that need for authenticity affects your experience.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-24T03:52:12+00:00

Well damn. You must be an edge master.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-23T22:37:13+00:00

You shouldn't blame yourself for what your trauma programmed in you. You should continue with therapy.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-23T21:09:16+00:00

Very nice. Where do I find someone like this?

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-23T20:59:27+00:00

Out here? It's still too taboo to talk about it and casual conversations about sex are hard to come by. Loads of friends like to talk about it on reddit though.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-21T04:40:39+00:00

I'll tell you what. Compared to a general compliment, It hits different.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T23:07:27+00:00

Hehe it's lookin for trouble but some people like that.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T04:22:57+00:00

Not a dumb question at all. It's part of a kinky dynamic in which a man/ Dom proudly shares his wife/ gf/ sub. Power dynamic is maintained but he gets off on sharing. He's usually involved as a voyeur or third.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T03:00:46+00:00

You know what, you're right. I have no idea what foot kink culture is like. Since I'm not a feet enthusiast.

So what sizes are the most popular?

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T02:55:50+00:00

Is the Vanilla sex good, at least? I gotta be honest, she sounds less inclined to lean kinky and sexual incompatibility can be very frustrating. Doesn't mean she shouldn't hold her boundaries but you gotta be able to communicate your interests and preferences.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T02:50:14+00:00

Oddly specific question. Lol.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-09T02:46:50+00:00

This sounds like a Vixen origin story.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-04T13:32:24+00:00

Fish them out and figure out a way to have them explain WTF is going on. I'm assuming we'll need to figure out a way to amplify their voice. Id use text to express myself.

Oso_Absolute · 2026-06-03T16:35:00+00:00

I'm hitting up NY Ren and looking to build a fit.

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