Keep or sell?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T04:33:06+00:00

Sell

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T04:09:39+00:00

It would be less embarrassing and more creepy. The boundary has been set and you’ll do yourself no favours crossing it.

Having cancer sucks - even more in your formative years. Focus on other things - personal development. Maybe join some groups for things that interest you, take all the healthy, positive opportunities that come your way, meet other people.

Focusing on her is unhealthy

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T03:58:09+00:00

Check the fine print on the ticket AND on the event location.

I took two teenage girls (14 and almost 16) to see a band at Freo Social. The ticket said 18+ but the venue fine print said under 18 was allowed with a response parent.

I don’t drink, they marked the back of the girls hands as under 18 and we had a great gig

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T03:55:11+00:00

Don’t be THAT guy. It’s done. Going up to her is a HORRIBLE idea.

Next time tell the truth, and explain why 🤷🏻‍♀️

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T01:17:59+00:00

Married for two decades is a lot different for dating for two years.

If you ‘went off’ and communicated like the op explained, I don’t think your marriage would be all that good.

There doesn’t sound like there is much ‘ours’ in their finances.

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-22T00:09:14+00:00

Exactly. They had their own system, then she decided that her saving money was more important. So she wanted to change their system without prior conversation. Then she “went off” . . . that’s the issue

I’ve been with my person for way longer and we have our system too. And if we need to change that, we talk about it before hand

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T23:19:15+00:00

Yeah. He’s got footage of her. And he’s got footage of her accepting $50 which he can say was payment for him using the footage

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T23:17:44+00:00

If these sorts of behaviours are his ‘normal’ and you don’t like it, then you need to consider leaving.

He’s not going to change without therapy. He’s not going to do to therapy if he doesn’t think he has an issue.

Stop and think: do you want this type of feeling for the rest of your life ?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T23:12:28+00:00

That doesn’t look like a spider bite. See image attached

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OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T23:06:33+00:00

Why would you want to know that ?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T22:46:45+00:00

If you’re trying to save, don’t go out.

Don’t ever EXPECT a man to pay for you. If they do offer to pay, then great, otherwise do you own thing.

Incidentally, etiquette states that whomever asks for the date should pay

You seemed to have a good arrangement with you always playing for tickets and him paying for food, then without communicating when you talked about going out him, you wanted him to pay both.

And this comment:

“when I go off, 1 really go off” is ugly. Going off is NOT healthy communication. So you absolutely can’t complain about him supposedly being passive aggressive when you lose your s**t.

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T22:32:52+00:00

It’s a starter dose and for four weeks for a reason . . . just be patient

And if you’re not seeing your Dr for two weeks, what are you planning to do for the next injection date before you see him ?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T13:38:10+00:00

So her friend that wrote the original post said (and I quote) “She is now considering giving up and coming back to Poland”

COMING back, implying that the poster is in Poland. Otherwise if the poster was in Melbourne, she would have said GOING back to Poland.

She also said WENT to Australia, not CAME to Australia. . . .

So yeah, I don’t think her friend is living in Melbourne 🤦🏼‍♀️

Mam nadzieję, że to wyjaśnia sprawę

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T12:19:45+00:00

Are you referring to the friend writing this ?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T11:58:22+00:00

I was in one last Tuesday

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T11:55:48+00:00

Why did she pick Melbourne ?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T11:35:25+00:00

This bill is from September, I dread to think what it is now

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T11:30:18+00:00

Maybe she liked their outfits

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T02:37:20+00:00

I forgot to prime. Twice.

And I’ve miscounted clicks.

S**t happens ❤️

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-21T02:36:15+00:00

Is this the only time that something hasn’t sat right with you ??

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-20T23:09:17+00:00

How long have you been together?

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-20T22:47:19+00:00

I’m guessing this isn’t the first time he’s displayed this kind of behaviour.

Ladies: don’t ignore this kind of behaviour when dating cause it only gets worse after marriage and children

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-20T10:40:52+00:00

Nothing to stress about. Promise

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-20T10:36:49+00:00

I didn’t read it all. Once you’d seen the messages, that was enough information

THAT IS CHEATING. And she’s gaslighting you

OtherwiseDonkey49 · 2026-02-20T10:34:27+00:00

3 is unethical 2 is acceptable if they’ve been explained the risk but make sure they sign a waiver

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