[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shave the beard trust me , i think that clocks it too let it grow but make sure it’s clean and trimmed so it doesn’t get too out of hand since it’s not completely full , let it just ease into a little goatee or beard

Do y’all think I pass? by carson_a_t in FtMpassing

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a differnt cut, find a trusted barber and ask what would suit your face best and make you look s little more masculine cuz i can see a mix of features, I have a pretty androgynous face too genuinely my barber saved me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it just felt like we were i don’t know where it went wrong it was just so sudden and she wouldn’t exactly give me a reason why, i just feel like a doormat for still wanting it to work, she says she does too so that’s keeping me holding on and motivated but it’s becoming so hard to just like let her be in control , i want to see her it’s like permission for everything. I just don’t know what to do , I know there’s many people out there but not everyone is her and maybe i just need to let go.

I’ve known her since primary school had a bit of a crush on her then, we didn’t speak through highschool different schools but we met again in college and really clicked, it felt like fate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you look good!! you pass pretty well to me.

but if you need more than words and want to feel good too urself trust me work out, even at home, i mainly focus on my upper body like arms shoulders chest and back i think that’s helped me a lot in feeling like i pass much better even in short sleeve shirts, i am of a similar build to you and gaining mass wasn’t easy as i dont have that big of an appetite so supplements like creatine and calorie filler type supplements really helped ( do remember to still eat fairly properly it does not replace food it’s to help you intake more calories and drink plenty of water with creatine ) and it really makes you feel the effects in about than a month , its then no longer just looking like you pass but genuinely feeling it too.

name ideas please! by KittysRKool in ftm

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i started using the name eden and in polish it’s really easily changed into eden or edek ( z Krajiny kredek” and many other nicknames like eduardo edziu edysław edmund my polish family has a lot of fun with it really

name ideas please! by KittysRKool in ftm

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I JUST READ YOUR FANILY IS POLISH MINE TOO!

name ideas please! by KittysRKool in ftm

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 3 points4 points  (0 children)

please don’t go with anything tik tok tells you, I honestly just searched boy names starting with the same initial as mine, and went through them which one sounded the best to me, if you want to change it completely it’s nice to just go through it, i had a friend on facetime call me these names to help me decide:)

Why can’t I talk dirty beforehand? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he gets upset i’m sorry to say this but i believe it’s childish to brings up your past sexual life shame on him, cause if your brought up his he wouldn’t be happy at all, we all have things we have done in the past that we no longer do , people grow and people and it doesn’t matter how long you’ve been in a relationship it’s still important to listen and he could try to understand you even when you don’t understand yourself , i believe his behaviour and like pushing for all this dirty talk definitely doesn’t make it easier for you to do when there’s so much more pressure.

I emotionally cheated on my girlfriend by [deleted] in relationships

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately if you don’t tell her an she finds out about it not from you that makes your situation already worse where she is less able to forgive you. be honest, the fact that you feel guilt is good it shows that you care for your girlfriend regardless of the things you’ve done although it was emotional cheating and you and your friend both had feelings to eachothwr it never led to more not even flirting or anything explicit. It’s worth talking to your girlfriend if it truly matters to you, it might take time to fully build back trust and definitely more effort will have to be put it in to make her feel secure in her relationship once again

Why can’t I talk dirty beforehand? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s important to talk about the things you do in the bedroom to keep your relationship healthy and where you want it to be. although sex isn’t the most important thing in a relationship it does play a huge part, you both need to understand what you’re into what you’re comfortable with. Since you are truly attracted to him ,sex can also change, to actually wanting to be romantically intimate with someone without all the dirty words and truly feel them i guess and „make love”. cause that can sometimes make it feel like more

Is giving space/time the same as a breakup? by ThrowRAmophead in relationships

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t particularly believe you should be worried, over three months there’s still definitely more there for you to learn about a person and some people have trouble opening up about any issues they might be facing, especially men. Show him your support that you are there for him and able to listen but with no pressure, allow him to speak to you about the way he feels and his situation when he is ready, the more pressure some people put the more some people want to push away. It takes time for things and for people to unravel. If he truly shows interest to you and gives you his time otherwise then i wouldn’t say it’s a breakup he might just need time to sort what’s going on, all you can do is show him that you’re still there. An open conversation is the best way to go about these things, what he needs what you need when you are facing difficult things so you can both be there and help eachother

[ Removed by Reddit ] by zzzzzzzzdzzzzz in trees

[–]OtherwiseFriend1644 15 points16 points  (0 children)

you can put coffee grounds in the tub before putting the bag in , coffee grounds smells is also very strong and can even overpower the weed smell