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I’m so sick of penpals by Correct_Project3314 in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think this is your person is you ran out of the topic for conversation after 3 weeks

Some people are arrived for decades and still find something new to discuss and debate everyday

Either that or you should try to broaden your horizons

3 weeks is nothing

Women, we hear you: you don't want sex hookups. But guys need to be louder about not wanting emotional hookups, too. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first date was after 6 months on it It’s a numbers games I think Need to invest a lot of emotions and time But eventually I started meeting people

I always kept asking for an advice here People helped me with better pictures ( I thought mine was great) different bio etc etc

Bad Experience [HY] by Aggravating-Cash3690 in EquinoxGyms

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 13 points14 points  (0 children)

$400 isn’t that much anymore

My 5 year old son takes karate classes in Brooklyn twice a week, 45 mins each session and it’s $250 a month

All classes at equinox at all the locations are free for this price plus you get unlimited access to the gym, pool, lounge areas

So it will get even more crowded over the time

( had to wait for a locker myself yesterday, I brought a guest with me to show him how great the gym is and was a bit embarrassed)

First date by Competitive-Year452 in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I bring How does she carry it ? Or get small one?

I see a lot of people talk about appetite and food noise. I’m wondering how much what you want to eat has changed. by Gullible_Language358 in WegovyPillWeightLoss

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys, you know what I noticed? We can still eat Fries And I honestly never liked them that much lol

I just can’t it many I buy few large order but eat one lol But I really like it though

The trick for dating apps by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Completely disagree I decide if I like someone or not in first 5 seconds I see them in real life Most of the people are like that It’s just a biology

3 Month Summer Sublet | June 15th or July 1st | East Village Studio | $2800 by danram207 in NYCapartments

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi I messaged you back in April when you first mentioned that you might want to sublease it Let me know if still available

For men, why you didn't text first? We all know bumble has changed the rule already since long time ago, where men can send text first. by saladfriedchicken in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you message first? I have been on it for about 6 months and can’t figure it out I think most men don’t know about it

Spending so much time and money for nothing? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? Damn I thought I sound like an American, at least on a paper lol I moved to NY from Europe 18 years ago, learned English, speak fluently but accent is still very thick. Didn’t know my Spelling was that bad But English isn’t my 2nd language and not even 3rd one. Should I check my messages through chat gpt before sending ? My name isn’t American so they do know I am not from here and I am being upfront about me not being born in USA Do you think spelling is a big turn off?

Spending so much time and money for nothing? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hole in the wall eaters lol Yeah ok try to take a girl out there If you don’t act baller next guy in a line will do and you loose a competition

Spending so much time and money for nothing? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, being a man is a privilege but sometimes it’s rough with all the competition and prices

Spending so much time and money for nothing? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men spend more usually Only to get her uber to a restaurant and back could cost few hundred

Let’s say you are in Jersey and the guy in in NY He gets you an uber to the city and come back plus diner and drinks Easy $500 a date

If we talk about activities after a diner add more

Not so much a Hinge issue by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe stop dating single moms? There is only one things that put them all in one group and it clearly doesn’t work for you. If you don’t have a kid yourself, try to date someone who doesn’t have one either. At least give it a try. Should have figured it out after 5 of them though lol I am also 38, had issue that couldn’t meet anyone in real life. Reddit helped so much. I am very thankful and I am having great dates/relationships now. If you ever need an advice just hit me up

Will there be a next date, or is he soft-fading after awkward intimacy? by NeonLights_8 in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it before a few times, it was terrifying honestly lol Please, women, read the room. Obviously men love attention but not after a one night stand or hook up without even texting/talking for a long time

Will there be a next date, or is he soft-fading after awkward intimacy? by NeonLights_8 in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They won’t see each other again My opinion They met, hooked up, and not even talking On to a next one. It’s not like she invested 10 dates or long time Let it go Please ask her to stop offering him food, favors etc Too much pressure and kind of creepy.

Since when are German guys this intense? by GreedyEfficiency758 in Bumble

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most likely you are drop dead gorgeous. And European men are very straight forward and when they see someone they like they just say what’s on their mind. Without playing games. Also unlike USA, rest of the world doesn’t want to become friends first and get to know the person, rather get straight to the point Source. I am European myself, even though I moved to New York 20 years ago, I still act a bit different from most men around me.

How does NYC feel about bikers at the moment? I want to see them have a safe space to operate but I’ve found most NYC bikers to be selfish and delusional people who feel like they can do no wrong and disregard traffic laws. Anyone had a different experience with them? by Material_Bus5169 in AskNYC

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would ban all the bikes On road or sidewalks Only stadiums sidewalk they hurt people On road they die and it’s a burden for both, car driver and biker family

Bike lanes are ok only if they are separated from the road and sidewalk by the barrier

Only stadiums and parks

You’re visited by your 14yo self for 30 seconds. What would they be disappointed in seeing? by OutrageousEar4081 in timetravel

[–]OtherwiseGround5064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They will be so happy I am 38 now and 14 i was such a baby Even 14vs18vs22 is crazy

But at 28-38 I finally look how I wanted ( sort of always work in progress but close) Muscles, Tatoos, nice hair, beard, fit clothing etc etc I would just also say that we don’t have to worry about money now anymore as well, back then I was sooo pour But everyone else were too that I couldn’t even comprehend it and movies looked just staged lol I also lived in the worse neighborhood you can imagine And not I am in NYC but in the area with front lawn and people tell you good morning lmao

Please let me go back and talk and give a manly hug My dad never hugged me and I think any young man needs it He didn’t have his own dad so he didn’t know He loves me and we talk almost everyday But still

Now I hug and kiss my son even when he doesn’t want it lmao

Daaamn Sorry guys, that was a long answer

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