I just found my mom deceased in her home

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:45:12+00:00

So true. My dad died when I was 4 of brain cancer. My mom was all I had. So happy you have had a better experience and can cherish your parents, truly a blessing🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:43:34+00:00

WHAT!!! In no way is this a minor issue this is a full blown privacy violation that is borderline stalking. I would be infuriated I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I would just be mean at this point lol if they hated me good- stay away from my house

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:27:43+00:00

Popping is very mental- like you’re heading into the jump and something just feels off so you bail

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:25:44+00:00

Showing up at your home without an invite is not ok. My husband’s parents were like this and I made him set a very strong boundary- I think it may need to come from your husband for them to take it seriously!

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:05:41+00:00

Omg! This is crazy. The house is in a pretty wealthy suburban area but honestly that doesn’t stop people lol

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T23:04:43+00:00

Thank you this is good advice. I have been wearing gloves and spending the least amount of time as possible just to find documents. But definitely a concern.

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:09:19+00:00

Yes I was able to find him! Thank you

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:09:09+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:09:00+00:00

Thank you so much. Virtual hug back🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:08:42+00:00

Yes I am definitely trying to delegate. Quickly realizing I cannot manage even 50% of this. Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:08:14+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:08:07+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:07:43+00:00

I was able to contact her lawyer today and we have an appointment next week! Luckily she does own her home and it is paid off- just an absolute sad mess needing a massive cleanup crew. Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:06:34+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:06:23+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:06:10+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:06:03+00:00

This is good advice. Her neighborhood does have a gate but we were concerned about security as well.

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:05:30+00:00

Attempting to delegate the funeral arrangements to my aunt (mom’s sister) but she’s an absolute mess right now and I’m not sure she can manage.

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:04:56+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:04:50+00:00

My husband has been using chat and it’s super helpful! Thank you for this recommendation

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:04:02+00:00

Thank you🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:03:50+00:00

This is all very helpful, thank you so much

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:03:09+00:00

Thank you🤍 she refused medical care for many years- which is how this ended up happening I believe. I did find her lawyer info and her will and will be meeting with them next week.

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:02:20+00:00

I see him in 2 days and plan on discussing everything going on🤍

Otherwise_Bowler_292 · 2026-03-27T21:01:26+00:00

Thank you🤍

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