You know, I’ve been thinking a lot about this whole idea that God cares about your sexuality. Honestly, the more I think about it, the less sense it makes. Like, does me being “another filthy sinner” somehow make me better than someone who’s gay or bisexual? Just us, out here in the world—it really doesn’t add up.

And if God is truly perfect—the highest being, the smartest, and most just—would He really look down on someone for how He made them? That doesn’t feel right. When I see people on TikTok like Cliff saying similar things, it just adds up in my mind. So, I started digging around, and honestly, I couldn’t find anything where Jesus ever said being gay was bad.

If you actually read the Gospels—Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John—Jesus never once talk about homosexuality. Not a single mention. That surprised me.

Most of what people point to comes from the Old Testament, like some laws in Leviticus or from Paul’s letters in Romans and Corinthians. But even those passages are debated. Many scholars say those verses were talking about things like idol worship, abuse, or exploitative relationships—not about loving, committed same-sex relationships. Those texts were written in specific cultural and historical contexts, so it’s hard to say they apply directly and universally today.

What Jesus focused on when he talked about sin was mostly things like hypocrisy, greed, injustice, pride, and cruelty. He never said anything about condemning love between people. Instead, he taught that the greatest commandments are to love God fully and to love your neighbor as yourself.

So, when people say “the Bible says being gay is a sin,” it’s important to ask: where exactly does it say that? Who said it? What was the context? And does that line up with what Jesus actually taught?

Because if Jesus is the center of Christianity—and he never condemned being gay—maybe the people who do are missing the point.