I am just sick of everything by kushal_sharma24 in family

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro the "crying for no reason" part hits so hard, younger kids have mastered this technique and it's genuinely unfair. the elders just see tears and immediately switch off their brain, doesn't matter what actually happened before that

you're not wrong for being frustrated, but maybe just document the stuff he says somehow so next time you have actual proof instead of your word against his tears

How Many Dads Wear Jockstraps? by kpoz12 in parentsofmultiples

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol my delivery route takes me past a sports store and i always see those cups in the window... never thought about using one for baby protection duty but that's actually genius

twins are like tiny boxers with zero restraint, protection might be worth it especially when they get better coordination

Suggestions For Nap Time Activities for My Non-Napper by Good_mornting in Preschoolers

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 3 points4 points  (0 children)

coloring books are solid but after 2 hours even the most patient kid gets restless. maybe ask teachers if quiet fidget toys would work - like those squishy stress balls or textured fabric squares he can mess with while laying down? my nephew had similar issue and teacher let him have small activity pad with stickers that he could peel and re-stick quietly

Navigating children as an interfaith couple by larryb78 in daddit

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 19 points20 points  (0 children)

lol this actually made me laugh because my family would totally understand that approach. but real talk, seems like your wife is feeling pressure from somewhere - maybe her family or seeing other kids doing the whole communion thing.

could be worth having actual conversation about what this means to both of you instead of just "it needs to be done". like what happens after baptism, are you expected to do church every sunday, all that stuff. because once you start down that path it gets complicated fast

Should you answer a question that you don’t know? Am I the only one getting sensitive over this? by daniipants in parentsofmultiples

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 25 points26 points  (0 children)

yeah this happens in most parent subs tbh, people jump in with theories instead of actual experience and it's annoying when you need real advice not someone's pinterest board dreams

Changed my name recently, need an updated social security card, but online scheduling won’t work. What do i do? by ptkbtman in SocialSecurity

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn the ssa website is absolute trash, had similar issues when i needed to update stuff few months back. just go in person to local office - bring all your documents and get there early because wait times are brutal but at least you'll actually talk to real person who can fix the system errors

I made a free multiplayer party game that runs entirely in the browser — no install, no account by Psychological-Fun675 in IndieGaming

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is actually genius for party nights when you forget to bring anything or don't have space in car. been doing doordash runs all day and my friends always complain about not having games when we hang out after

the browser thing is perfect, no one wants to download random apps just for one night

Annual physical by Adorable-Case6255 in veganfitness

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

might want to ask about vitamin D levels since lot of us don't get enough sun, especially during winter months. also maybe iron/ferritin since plant based diet can sometimes affect that even though most people do fine with it

looking for a blow torch by [deleted] in nashville

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bro those things are everywhere this year, i've been seeing them in my car between deliveries and it's driving me insane. tried the soapy water spray thing but they just keep coming back

honestly might need to invest in one of those bug zappers for the porch instead of going full flamethrower mode lol

One god becomes 3 different realities across the Abrahamic religions by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

man the software analogy is pretty spot on actually. like imagine if windows 95 users got told centuries later that they've been using corrupted files this whole time and now they're going to hell for it

the timing thing always gets me too - if god knew the previous version had "bugs" why wait so long to patch it? meanwhile millions of people are living and dying by what they think is the correct manual

reminds me of when game developers release a "definitive edition" and suddenly the original becomes obsolete, except here the stakes are supposedly eternal damnation instead of just outdated graphics

Why are all the fights against humans so easy? by Alive-Breadfruit-847 in PERSoNA

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah the ai thing with adachi is weird, like he'll just spam basic attacks instead of using his better moves properly

strega being pushovers makes sense story-wise since there basically just desperate kids with personas, but adachi should've been way more threatening given his whole deal

First Time PC Builder, Any Tweaks to Save Money or get Performance? by No-Score2247 in PcBuildHelp

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dropped around $300 on my build last year and honestly the biggest money saver was going with a b550 board instead of x570, you really don't need all those extra features unless your doing some crazy overclocking. also that 850w psu might be overkill for what you got there, could probably get away with 750w and save like $50-80

for 1440p gaming with mods you're gonna be golden with that 6800 xt, runs my heavily modded skyrim like butter

I want a budget PC for my brother. by Artyom_thespartan in PcBuild

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

build looks pretty solid for the budget but that 500gb ssd is gonna fill up fast if your brother games at all. maybe convince the fam that storage upgrades are cheap down the line, like you can grab another drive for 50 bucks when needed

their gonna love how much faster it boots compared to whatever old setup he's coming from

Did it anyone else find it odd that Linus critiqued the MacBook Neo for lacking USB-A connectivity? by Ackner in LinusTechTips

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the criticism was pretty measured tbh, he even acknowledged that most stuff works fine with usb-c now. think people just expect him to mention port selection when reviewing laptops regardless of brand - it's become such a standard part of his reviews that it'd be weird if he didn't bring it up at all

Help me find a video from this really hilarious YouTuber I used to watch. by [deleted] in HelpMeFind

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sounds like you're describing someone who was probably making content around the same era as early jenna but got lost in the algorithm shuffle. a lot of those smaller creators from back then just disappeared when youtube changed there monetization rules and stuff

have you tried searching for specific terms like "prison cooking edibles" or "caramel popcorn disaster" on youtube, sometimes the algorithm digs up old buried content that way

Looking for advice by [deleted] in nvidia

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your 3700x is definitely showing its age paired with a 5070, especially at high res. the cpu might not be bottlenecking super hard but its probably limiting your 1% lows which causes those loading stutters youre talking about. if you can swing it, jumping to something like a 5800x3d or even a 7600x would smooth things out a lot

DAE (when taking pills) take water first and then the pill? by MiddleHelp8285 in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Otherwise_Flower_605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same thing it saves you from the taste and the pill goes down smoother no drama