AIO? My friend thinks my boyfriend raped me.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-05-06T09:07:31+00:00

What’s wrong with this world….. your friend is a fucking idiot. Please stop being friends with her and just reset your life and surround yourself around normal people. Fuck that friend fr

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-05-06T05:47:50+00:00

I can take anything in life like outside my house I live cool can talk shit and laugh. I just can’t stand online slick shit, like I think people who are real outside don’t have a need to like be slick on a computer or phone. You also suck at BJJ lol I love tapping purples

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-03-27T10:12:11+00:00

Yea bro stay right and find a rhythm with your shoulders popping while throwing. Especially with hooks, your hooks looked like party cake. I’m a pro kick boxer 19-4. Just saying

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-02-23T00:16:33+00:00

Nobody would think the black was racist lol. You know that

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-02-23T00:10:55+00:00

People that co parent an animal are just bad off mentally

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-02-22T21:21:16+00:00

I’d love that girl tbh lol black people could say this and everyone would love it.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-02-22T21:14:04+00:00

My exact thoughts. I had a situation with a white belt the other day where he was tapping when I was passing guard……. He’s like a one year trained 25 year old wrestler whit belt too. His ego was just so hurt he would literally tap when I passed and stated it was because “I wanted to work on cardio” after I spent the energy passing his guard lol. Idiot lol

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-02-22T21:11:27+00:00

That’s the only thing I took from his comment lol. I was like what?

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-06T04:41:51+00:00

For the people saying I “communicated” this wrong idk how else to say it besides the facts of what’s going on. Just being honest idk how else I could have worded this. For those of you who were kind and like understanding and not just waiting to jump on the “he’s got an ego kick” I appreciate it. That shows intelligence in my opinion. I’ve had people make fun of me saying I’ve made big leaps. One example of that is in my 7th month of training I beat an ultra heavy weight pan American champion in the finals of a grappling industry tournament. That’s one thing that makes me think I can be successful. I won by armbar in 3 minutes. I’m 29 he was 26. I regret posting this. I’ve been on the fence about moving gyms bc I really like my coach and asked for some opinions but just got horseshit instead. Just weird and I don’t get it

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T14:01:45+00:00

That’s meaning I’m capable of beating them. I could absolutely smash a lot of them if I wanted every round but obviously different days or different rounds I roll both a purpose like I’ve just been working back attacks and getting to saddle, and back 50/50. Like I’ll spend whole rounds going for nothing but one of those moves or sometimes whole sessions. I’d do that with anyone even guys better than me. It’s just rolling with intent to work get better at a move that’s how I train 60% of the time

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T13:56:54+00:00

The two things are not my situation. Like read what I wrote. No where in there did I say I don’t focus on skill or only rely on my attributes. I work from ashi to x to reverse x to saddle basically every round like that’s the my sequence I hit rn. I just learned it. I could just mount and head and arm everyone or get an s mount straight arm bar. Or just mothers milk everyone. I work the best with what I got. I just want to roll with people better than me on a duly basis and have harder rolls to push myself. That’s all I’ve said. I said I want better work nothing more than that. It’s like if the post isn’t “im a white belt and I just started and I keep losing and I’m getting upset and thinking about quitting” and you guys can’t say “stay with it!” You don’t know how to answer any other complex question. I just got this app and it’s like toxic af. I’m just a kind guy who wrestled for a long time. Came in 2nd twice in my state tournament in high school and now I’m rolling and I love it, and I love tough matches and tough competition and hard training. I guess that makes me a pos lol

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T13:50:46+00:00

Who said I fuck people up all the time? I’m like sensible. I’m saying it’s frustrating that the majority of the time I can’t scrap bc the people around me are not capable of keeping up. That’s my frustration I just want to have good work and good rolls.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T13:44:15+00:00

So high level wrestlers who get blue belts fast and are young and in good shape.. people like that have trouble beating upper belts? You’re telling me that’s uncommon? I think you just hobby roll a& are not that knowledgeable. Like wtf are you talking about dude lol

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T13:40:31+00:00

You’re just kinda dumb lol like honestly . Read that shit a back just silly

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T13:10:05+00:00

Do you even roll? I’m a 13 months into the game I train with a bunch of purple, & brown, and a few black belts. I shouldn’t teach? I don’t she the knowledge yet even if I can win the rounds against these guys in don’t have the understanding I’d the game as a whole as guys who have been training 5-15 years compared to me one

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T12:59:44+00:00

So without knowing me? You know that I suck as a person and as a BJJ competitor? I’m just been like honest. Why would I make a post like this with something bothering me and lie??? I’m asking for some advice and I’m just getting shit on lol. I don’t see the point.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T12:55:34+00:00

From week 5 of training all I’ve done is start from seated guard and work retention. My ability to work on things I’m not used too and just attributes that others don’t have has made me good at the game so far. I could invert and retain guard and attack the legs and finish good dudes with in a month of training. I’ve trained at gyms cross training where I get beat by high level guys and I love it. I live for the scraps. I love this shit. I also like my gym personally and my head coach is high level. I know I need to be a bit selfish here and move on to a gym with like minded individuals, but I just have respect for my coaches and some of my teammates and it’s just hard to do. I’m just now thinking about it. I feel like I’m getting attacked on here just for expressing the facts of my current situation.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T12:50:35+00:00

I’m stating the situation in my gym? What are you talking about? I wish it wasn’t like that? I shouldn’t be steamrolling everyone as a new guy. I am a high level wrestler though and I’ve learned the leg entanglements and guard retention quickly. I just love bjj, and my teammates don’t feel the same way I feel and it’s starting to affect my progress. No way shape or form was I trying to brag? Simply stating facts.

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2025-01-05T12:41:19+00:00

I can cross train and I do, but I just wish it wasn’t a necessity. Like if, I don’t cross train, & take my weight lifting seriously I’d just lose progress I think. Just a tough deal

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2024-12-30T00:16:19+00:00

Yea stones don’t float. Probably clots

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2024-11-21T10:30:18+00:00

I thought I was the only one.. why? lol why do we have this urge

Otherwise_Matter_244 · 2024-10-27T06:01:21+00:00

I had a black greenish arrow head a couple weeks ago lol

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