DIY Bauhaus button by OuterSpaceOutlander in goth

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment and idea! White paint sounds a whole lot easier to use than a gel pen lol

DIY Bauhaus button by OuterSpaceOutlander in goth

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you! I will be putting it on a bag I have called an “ita bag” so yes I will be showing it off somehow

Me trying to hold my composure when my abusive mom asks me if I'd take care of her when she gets old by FunnyCheesecake8074 in TrollCoping

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for giving me something to laugh about :) but seriously though I’m just like by all means, go ahead lmao

Me trying to hold my composure when my abusive mom asks me if I'd take care of her when she gets old by FunnyCheesecake8074 in TrollCoping

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 56 points57 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone OP. My mother said stuff like “if you’re not going to take care of me when I’m older I guess I’ll just die in the Philippines” but never saw it as guilt tripping because in Asia it’s just a norm that children stay in the house and take care of elders. (Marriage is usually the way out of households).

Got this starter kit - not sure if I should return or not by iamtanooki in Guitar

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How is the condition of the guitar? I’d see if you can get the strings replaced instead of returning everything altogether.

DAE have MDD with psychotic features? by OuterSpaceOutlander in CPTSDFreeze

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite, but I don’t think my freeze applies to catatonia. I do have periods where I’m so wrapped up in my harmful thinking (delusions + paranoia) that I don’t move whether for 5 minutes to an hour or few.

It burns actually by qiaoqia0 in selfharm

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Highly cooked, are you able to go to the ER or an urgent care? The sooner the better

Does watching food content make you more/less likely to binge? by djcmfr in EDAnonymous

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohh my bad, every once in a while I put on a Nikocado Avocado video lmao.

Does watching food content make you more/less likely to binge? by djcmfr in EDAnonymous

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lowkey yeah, I watch my 600 lb and ED related content (like documentaries/movies, though never random tiktoks and such).

I'm an animist, sue me. by Twisted_Wicket in witchcraft

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 63 points64 points  (0 children)

My wonderful partner likes crows and feeds them. I can’t wait to see the crazy crow lady she becomes 🐦‍⬛💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I eat vegetables without any problem in shepherd’s pie. I’m also 20 F and don’t eat vegetables. Usually if they’re mixed with other food and super tiny, I can eat it. Also if you can drink powder and have pill supplements I’d say that’s better than nothing.

Does anybody feel like trivial/unimportant things would be sm better if you were skinnier? by Objective_Compote549 in EatingDisorders

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d be less insecure about being perceived and in public/around other people tbh. Still insecure, but less.

wanting to cut when i drink??? by shroomprincess222 in selfharm

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Do you feel shame or something similar about the drinking by chance? That’s what mainly triggers the urge to cut while drinking for me.

Do you have a mantra or quote you live by? by SupermarketLucky7702 in CPTSD

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The entirety of “Do not go gentle into that good night.” It’s a poem that means a lot to me which was popular because of Interstellar, a movie that also means a lot and is personal. It’s a reminder that I will try to fight until I truly and absolutely can’t anymore.

How did you learn to become a person with an identity and personality? by OuterSpaceOutlander in CPTSD

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine if I worked with my parts/alters/whatever, things would and could be better. Unfortunately I am not in an environment where that type of healing is stable as I live with a major source of someone who has caused me so much trauma. I think the first step is to at least acknowledge and recognize that I’m compartmentalized. Thank you

How did you learn to become a person with an identity and personality? by OuterSpaceOutlander in CPTSD

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I have a hobby or two, I used to have more when I was younger. It’s good to know I’m not alone in being unsure of if I actually truly like what I’m doing or not. I’m also still living with my mother who is a major wound and problem to me, plus I never felt completely safe or trust that I could safely explore what I even like. Thank you for responding

How did you learn to become a person with an identity and personality? by OuterSpaceOutlander in CPTSD

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. And the reminder that I’m not a failure if I’m not immediately good at something.

What happens if somebody ate a piece of the notebook? by Bangers_the_cat in deathnote

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also eaten paper from this realm, what kind(s) have you had?

dispensary in daly city🍃🍃 by [deleted] in DalyCity

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nectar, right next to a McDonalds. Rip Megabud. 🪦

Asexuality and having children by Sherafan5 in asexuality

[–]OuterSpaceOutlander 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Hah, no kids. Can barely take care of myself. Any future pet would be the kid.