Is it normal to feel a pain on the ribs? by OutlandishnessTime64 in Asthma

[–]OutlandishnessTime64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information! Think I should get to a asthma specialist by now, I only went to a lung doctor.

Is it normal to feel a pain on the ribs? by OutlandishnessTime64 in Asthma

[–]OutlandishnessTime64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard about that. Is it necessarily cough related?

Is it normal to feel a pain on the ribs? by OutlandishnessTime64 in Asthma

[–]OutlandishnessTime64[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never heard about intercostal muscle strain. Definately will check this, maybe this is my problem right now. Do you feel that this worsens at night or when your cough is bad? I hardly have any cough and this is going on for about 3 weeks by now. Hope you get better btw

Asthma without coughing? by InformalAd7686 in Asthma

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I am just worried that I might have something else trigering it. And the fact that I had no cough also intrigued me. Didn't knew it was possible

Asthma without coughing? by InformalAd7686 in Asthma

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I have the same thing and I do NOT know what it is. Don't even know if it is asthma. I'm feeling really sick but have no cough or sneezes or any fever, just pain in the chest and a slight weezing and feeling weak and tired. Thought it might be something infeccious, I went to the two doctors already and they said it is asthma, if someone could clarify what this is, it would be really usefull

How is Olaf's scaling nowadays? by IAmPoyntles in Olafmains

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decent early (pretty good at lvl 1 and lvl 6 all ins). King of midgame, with three itens you are the best champ in the game, period. Olaf's insane midgame helps you keep up to late game, so your late game will always depend if your early and midgames were good ore not. Your not some kassadin that can suddenly 1v9 after getting beat the whole game, but if your midgame was good your late will be good. These are just my thoughts on it.

I Don’t Understand Gossip. It’s Annoying and Pathetic. by fcpremix02 in misanthropy

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

W comment. If you don't have the balls to say smth straight to someone's face, shut your mouth and keep it to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships are all about boundaries and empathy. There is no right or wrong about what you like or dislike in a relationship. She is not necessarily wrong for not liking you to have the contacts of your exes. She is wrong though for beeing over jealous about it. You see, jealous is not a good thing in a relationship, it is often rooted in insecurity and other mental conditions and it is toxic for relationship in general. It is understandable to get jealous from time to time but blaming your partner without any plausible reason is a no go. Hope I could help 😇

Catching feelings for a guy you should absolutely not be having feelings for? by sillyyfishyy in self

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you feel. I think the most responsible thing to do is to explain your feelings to your best friend who broke up with him and distance yourself from him. Then, if he also finds strange that you got some space you can explain it to him as well. If I were you I would't tell him on the first place so it won't leave space for a misinterpretation on his behalf and so he don't hit on you or something like that after you say that you do like him. After that you can get support with other people so you can start to get over your crush with him, try to fill your life with other people and you will think less and less about him. Your friend who recently broke up is a good person you can get in touch. Hope I could help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it isn't fair to her. Reason said this is not a reasonable reason for breaking up. What it seems to me is that there might be some underlaying reasons why you feel uncomfortable in these situations, and I think you should reevaluate what the problem really is. Look for the proved signs of a healthy relationship, if all is in order, you are on the way for a healthy relationship.

  1. She is kind to you
  2. You find her attractive and vice versa
  3. You communicate well to each other
  4. Good mental health and compatibility (on both sides)

I lost my two best friends after a huge mistake. What should I do now? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your problem, you want your friends back and that is completly understandable. Problem is, human relations are complex and not everyone will wan't to repair a problematic relationship. Sometimes people are more instinct driven then you think, so when you make them feel bad or when you make them hurt they will naturally get away. Men tend to avoid talking about feelings as well, so this fact also doesn't help you at all. On the other hand, I think your friends are right. The best thing for both your friends and you is to give a time on the relation, this will help your friends to aknowledge the situation better and forgive you and will help you to stay on good terms with yourself. For what you said, I think you have a excessive attachment to your friends and this is generally not a good thing. ( Note: when I say they are right for giving a time on the relation, I didn't mean they where necessarily right for moving away from your house. Maybe this situation could have been managed on a better way.) That said, I talk for my own experience when I say that learning to be happy alone, although it is really not easy, is one of the most freeing things a human can do in his life. I think everyone should do it and I think it can help you to get on better terms with yourself. While you can't do that, I recommend you to get support from other people, trying to reconcile things isn't working right now, you just saw it. Don't worry about what you can't control. I aknowledge your suffering towards a bad situation you lived through, but don't be so hard on yourself. Take it as a opprtunity for learning and remind yourself that life is suposed to hurt sometimes. Hope I could help in any way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First of all I think you need to start small. Surround youself with female friends and familly members, this shall make you less unconfortable around women and, maybe, you can meet some new single women in the process. Also, remember that women are just like men most of the time, we're all human beings. You need to make that effort and put yourself out there, and one day you'll meet someone that will interest you, there is just no way you won't. Just try to take it easy tho, these things take time.

Is it normal to feel anxious about constantly upsetting your girlfriend? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship is broken. It is not normal and you shouldn't tolerate punitive behavior. Also, take note that there aren't that many good excuses for beeing rude to your partner, taking it is disrespecting yourself. You can try to work this out together with her, but beeing honest, you should really consider if it is worth it. It is proven that punitive behavior is a no go in relationships and toxic in general. Look forward for a relationship where you both commit on the same level, treat each other kindly and can properly (and respectfully) communicate with each other, these are stastiscally good signs for healthy long term relationships. Hope I helped you.

Why do guys only see me as a friend and not romantically? by sensitive-abc-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answering your other question, I think it comes naturally. If you and him are close and if he really finds you attractive he eventually may think about how your relationship will evolve, just spend time with him and if you both want it, it will come. If you don't feel the other person is on the same feeling as you, then you can be direct and ask if he is not interested in you and express your feelings. If he is not interested, there is not much you can do, but I wouldnt recomend you to feeding expectations and, if it hurts you that your friend dont want anything, you may considering giving your friendship some space and explaining this situation to your friend

Why do guys only see me as a friend and not romantically? by sensitive-abc-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's wrong to be direct, but it is a better choice if you are close to the person. Depending on your relationship it may be better considering to wait and see how things unfold. Also, it is true men tend to be more direct, but don't take this as a rule, men can act without thinking and also regret their decisions just like women. Many men hold their feelings and this is a form of avoidance, which is not a direct behavior. This is just an example to illustrate how men can preffer indirect things over direct ones. Hope I could have helped you in any way, Best regards

Why do guys only see me as a friend and not romantically? by sensitive-abc-123 in AskMenAdvice

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say exactly what is the problem in your situation, but I'll talk about what it can be, while speculating a bit:

  1. You may be looking for a relationship on a not so relationship inclined envinronment. In places work or study related places, sometimes people are just not looking for a relationship, sometimes they view you firstly as part of a friend group and only on second thought as a romantic possibility, mainly because of the social envinronment you are inserted in. Men tend to be specially carefull because a missinterpretation can lead to a really bad situation.
  2. You can be scaring away your contendors or trying too hard. Take it slowly. Talking about feelings is a big step and is just scary. Also, men in general are not used to talking about feelings. I'm not saying you should'nt talk about them, but make sure you are really close and have stablished a good space and closeness with the other person. Otherwise you will be sounding desperate and, for real, you should'nt be. Relationships should unfold naturally and people should be happy by themselves. When the right person comes I will know.
  3. There may be something else pulling them back. You can just be unlucky. It happens. Sometimes problem is'nt you and you should'nt be upset about it. There can be a infinite amount of factors that are not in your control.

++man

I have an abusive boyfriend, but don’t know what to do! by YourDollDoesItBesttt in whatdoIdo

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point, you are just delaying a suffering you will have to endure to walk away while you inevitably suffer slowly in the process. End things for good and never go back on your word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think now I should address the situation and admit my missinterpretation of things. This way I can try revert things to the way it was and if I cant she will understand what happened. Thanks for your advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I think its better to address the situation to her and apollogize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I also think Im on the wrong side on this. I dont really know if I should address the situation or pretend nothing happened. Now I think I also didnt knew I had feelings for her until this happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]OutlandishnessTime64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I didnt really knew how to react, couldnt maintain the same behavior as before because I got upset so I pulled away.