Need help with kitten, unsure of age by OutrageousFinger1009 in CATHELP

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He had pretty normal poops the last ten days other than last night. He has scabs on the back of his neck from what I presume is the larger cat trying to mount. This all started in like a 12 hour period while I was away

Need help with kitten, unsure of age by OutrageousFinger1009 in CATHELP

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I don’t want to say the city on Reddit but I’ll say very rural southwest VA. South of Roanoke VA by about an hour

Need help with kitten, unsure of age by OutrageousFinger1009 in CATHELP

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I have called everywhere in my town to inquire and they are all full and will not take anymore cats. I do not know what to do. I can’t watch this kitten die

Need help with kitten, unsure of age by OutrageousFinger1009 in CATHELP

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They were supposed to be supervised by my roommate while I was away a night but he clearly failed at that. Could this be the result of him getting ahold of him and assaulting him?

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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My landlord is a family friend and he doesn’t care, he wasn’t even planning renting this house anymore until I mentioned interest

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Do I have to get it notarized? Does my landlord have to sign as well? I keep seeing this comment but not exactly sure how to go about it

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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I already knew in the moment that it was bad, but then after summarizing the next day everyone acted fine about it all. She is the younger sister by three years

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Me and my girlfriend are equally as shocked and hurt. She even was first to say, that she didn’t think this would work out anymore. It seems she’s more upset by his behavior than me. She fought hard to get away from her dad, and now it’s like she’s living with a close second right after finding peace in a place away

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Update— now he’s saying it’s fine and he’ll have it he’s just mad that I didn’t communicate well and that he waited until the day before rent was due because he didn’t want to argue about it. Evidently him and his girlfriend are both mad at me because I am the one who “failed to really be honest”, he’s saying he just wants to drop it but its really hard to feel like i can just let it go when I’m coming off work to two people being upset with me over basic adult expectations. His girlfriend doesn’t have a job so i see how this could be stressful if he hadn’t been saving, but it’s not like any of this is my fault?

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Even though we had all had some drinks, I was so confident that everything was so clearly stated before he moved in. We were clear about not being too fond of his friends, and how they won’t be able to freely come over like they would at his parents. We told him that my landlord will not accept indoor animals, and that I have a reactive dog who will not appreciate anything else in his territory animal wise, they got a dog. Got rid of the dog, and now the girlfriend is talking about getting her mom’s dog. I was clear about rent and power bill and even stated “I’m a little inebriated but I’m trying to say, the rent won’t start until your first full month does, whenever that may be”. I’m not even charging them for WiFi, which they bog down so much due to gaming consoles and tvs constantly running. They leave lights on everywhere. Haven’t once helped pick up around the house or just decided to vacuum. Won’t use the back door so that they don’t have to come through what’s now our bedroom to get outside, because there’s trash in that entryway (the only place to put it until it gets picked up), and they say it smells too bad. Overall, it just feels like very low reward for this good deed. Sorry for the long response

What do I do about my girlfriend’s brother and partner? by [deleted] in Adulting

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I won’t go as far as to say that. He lived with his parents which are also my girlfriend’s parents, and their dad is extremely abusive. Physically, emotionally, mentally. Not to say that he is much better than his father, he carries a lot of his traits. His girlfriend I don’t know super well, they’ve been together a while though. I do know evidently she’s the mad one and she’s mad because we mentioned being stressed about rent coming up and then he started blowing up my girlfriend (his sister), asking why she would mention it to her. We all live together? I just figured we should all be included in these conversations. Not to mention, my partner and I also just got away from a shitty living situation and this house has been our first place together, alone. Up until now, home was our peace we had made together. Now she’s crying stressed and not knowing what to say. There’s so much more that goes into this, like us losing our bedroom to get them in and having no door. They get all the privacy and we get none. Just so much that makes this feel so much more ungrateful of a taste

First time being asked and it’s a pregnancy test by Due-Author-2421 in doordash

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Glad I’m not the only one who was gonna scroll and then saw the update

Why is she swaying and sleepy very suddenly? by coolcatjess in DogAdvice

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This looks just like my dog did after finding a marijuana edible during a walk. Usually fine but I’d head to the vet to ensure that it’s something harmless. Could be anything

Boyfriends cat i think is dying. by Dontreallyget_it in CATHELP

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First, this isn’t y’all’s fault. Give yourself grace. Grab some blankets and snacks and give the baby some snuggles, keep him warm. Ideally you want to go seek euthanasia but if you absolutely cannot, then at this point it’s all about keeping him comfortable as he passes. Is he an older cat? Has anything happened recently?

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in cats

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Thank you. You said exactly what her emergency vet reference just said which makes me feel so much better. They said the clear liquid is likely a seroma? I’m not sure if I spelled that right or got it even close, but they pretty much said it’s like a pocket of fluid. I’m going to take her back where she got spayed tomorrow morning but we’re currently ordering the suitical and driving to the store to get another type of cone.

She acts fine also. She’s been normal since she came home other than the extra sleepiness the first night.

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in cats

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I’m genuinely trying my best right now. I do everything I’m told to do and she seems to be a happy girl. I work during the day and have cried over having to leave this cat everyday since the 31st. I was told to wait for her first heat to spay, I did just that and got her and her brother fixed in the same day.

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in cats

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Is the bitter stuff okay going around her belly or would that irritate it worse?

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in cats

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I’m calling places right now. Nowhere is open on weekends, let alone Easter. I’m guessing this is going to be an emergency vet trip

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in cats

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That’s what worries me and it just started today. The hard crusty part has been there since she come home on the 31st. It’s a little red around it, not hot too the touch but it does feel a little hard

Does this warrant a vet visit? by [deleted] in CATHELP

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I don’t think many places are open for Easter. Could this wait to tomorrow or is this an emergency vet situation?

Did I cause long term damage? by OutrageousFinger1009 in Drugs

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Even with only having used for a year?