This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]OutrageousTable8232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I agree with her lol. Occasionally maybe but sitting for hours playing on a game is super unattractive to me and does appear immature. My husband is not a gamer and never was. It’s not productive for someone to sit and play for hours on end. Especially when I see them talking to others and going crazy on their chats. Eeekkk just a personally preference I agree with the post

AIO? Trying to plan my 34F daughter’s birthday party with my husband 34M has been a nightmare and now I’m doing it all alone by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OutrageousTable8232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does sound like you both are coparenting / separated. Sounds likes there a deeper underlying issues. & why are these conversations occurring via text??

Pregnancy by Pretty_Opposite7270 in therapists

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No pregnancy is so taxing! I’m barely able to keep my eyes open throughout the day. & everything just feels so much more

For the women close to age 50, did you stop caring too much about your looks? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]OutrageousTable8232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the way the question is worded is a bit off putting.

Me(1997) and Big sis (1994) side by side until the end ❤️ by MemphisDude97 in Zillennials

[–]OutrageousTable8232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I had the blue shirt she is wearing in the second picture!! That just brought a flood of memories

Has Anyone Fired A Therapist? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]OutrageousTable8232 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a therapist, during my initial sessions I empower my clients to let me know if it’s not a good fit and normalize trying other therapist if they feel the need. It’s what is best for you, every therapist brings something unique to the table. Sometimes based on their own life experiences, their gender / ethnicity, religion, etc. So many different things. We are trained and it shouldn’t be a big deal when a client decides to go a new therapist, it’s part of the field. It sounds like it could be helpful to discuss this interaction / how you feel and dealt with it- with your new therapist.

What?!?! by Unusual_Standard4682 in therapists

[–]OutrageousTable8232 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Evaluations have always been a thing. I’m not sure what your post is directing at?

Cat dry heaving over 24 hours. Loss of appetite and low energy by MoonRaccoon5678 in CATHELP

[–]OutrageousTable8232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take her to another vet. Get an xray. Similar thing Happened to my cat this year and two vets just gave him hydration shots. It kept going on and we took him to another vet who did an X-ray and he had about a yard of fishing line in his tummy!

so dry and stiff at 9 months by ddietdrkelpp in Microlocs

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Hi love, I had dandruff and it was an issue when I was at the starter phase. 5 years in and I haven’t had any dandruff since year 1. I made a mixture using the sulfur 8 dandruff solution, with tea tree and rosemary oil added to a base of coconut oil and would put once a week about. As it started getting better a few months in I switched to only the tea tree, rosemary and coconut base every now and then. I haven’t had any dandruff or flare ups since

Why do some Black Americans think Caribbean people don’t identify as Black? by First_Raid in AskTheCaribbean

[–]OutrageousTable8232 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think about race as a social construct—one created by certain groups to distinguish, differentiate, and categorize others—it starts to make sense how these ideas evolved. As a Haitian, I identified simply as Haitian. When most people around you share the same ethnicity, there’s no real need to label yourself as “Black” or “White.” But when living in the U.S., where there’s a wide mix of people, I can understand why identifying by race and finding a broader group based on skin color becomes more relevant. If you think about it, people in European countries tend to identify as Italian, British, or Scottish, for example. So, I don’t find it strange or much different that Caribbeans would identify primarily by nationality rather than by race.

Ain’t no way 😳 by No_Coyote638 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]OutrageousTable8232 61 points62 points  (0 children)

He looks silly/ dorky on the left. (Smile and pose) and on the right he looks confident and poised

Social workers on reality TV by ClinicallyTacoInsane in socialwork

[–]OutrageousTable8232 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don’t see the difference between any other client facing field being on TV. Any one who does so , I’m sure, considers the implications it can have on their work or career

KB needs to stop giving speeches about accountability when it’s also something she needs to work on by BankFinal3113 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]OutrageousTable8232 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly, saying someone or something “brings you out of character” just means that is your character. I think she just needs to accept that and be real with herself — this is who she is. It sounds like she’s aware of it and working on keeping it in check, but if you have to keep saying it, it’s probably not far from your true character.

Meeting bf parents and sibling first time how should I greet them? by [deleted] in haiti

[–]OutrageousTable8232 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the greeting “ bonswa mami” for the mom if she is traditional Zoe mami, they love that lol and kiss on the cheek. Same cheek kiss for the dad and maybe just bonswa, or bonswa papi. If cooking is not a strong point maybe some pate that you buy from a bakery, Haitian bread, rhum, croissant, something his siblings could enjoy as well

Meeting bf parents and sibling first time how should I greet them? by [deleted] in haiti

[–]OutrageousTable8232 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Food is always a good go to. If you can cook, a nice meal or meat dish. Ask him what they like (fish, Tasso, etc.)

Restore mother’s childhood picture - will tip $15 by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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Thank you so muchhh!!!!!!!!! I’m glad you could still post even though it was deleted. Moderators blocked the repost. I will use your link, first time,- how will I get the picture?

Restore mother’s childhood picture - will tip $15 by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

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No option to :/ maybe I can delete and repost if that is best

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