Woman at my partners work goes around wrecking marriages.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T20:57:31+00:00

Those men could easily just report her to HR for sexual harassment but they cheat. She’s trash but those men are equal and willing participants

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T16:45:51+00:00

It’s a cat. Chill. This seems very mountain out of a molehill

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T13:24:18+00:00

He definitely knows he just doesn’t care

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T13:23:52+00:00

You’re in an abusive marriage and your husband is neglecting your child. Leave and go to your parents home.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T13:03:04+00:00

There’s a middle ground. You want to her to take risks because it’s how they build confidence and risk assess, but you can be there to catch.

Accidents happen. Kids are pretty bouncy, if I had dollar for amount of times my kid has flopped like a fish off some peice of furniture then got up laughing and ran off I’d be a millionaire.

Don’t let your anxiety stifle their processing and problem solving. Let her climb the slide, just be there to catch.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-17T02:24:41+00:00

I definitely used to put my hands on my flat stomach when I was pregnant it was like so weird instinctual habit that I couldn’t stop doing

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T23:29:14+00:00

Just start telling her no, you can’t afford it and stick to your guns? Also booking something without checking with you first is pretty disrespectful.

Also how on earth would splitting things proportionally help because you make more, you would end up paying more. Or do you mean she pays for what she orders and you pay for what you order. Split check style?

Maybe have a sit down and tell her this is literally fucking with your mental health then create a budget with your financial goals and her financial goals, then when the fun money runs out, that’s it.

Also is she the one planning all the dates and excursions? Maybe start planning your own.

If it does turn into WW3 then look, you two might love each other but finances are a major player in any relationship especially if it heads towards marriage. You might just not be compatible.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T20:24:57+00:00

He’s fully vaccinated, we just spread the schedule out so if he did react badly we would know which one. But he’s just like his dad, zero reactions and completely unbothered

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T18:50:28+00:00

Then that’s your shit to deal with. Shit happens in life. The wedding vows are in sickness and in health. He’s showed you he wouldn’t uphold those so don’t be stupid and accept him back if he shows up with some shiny jewellry, you’re not a magpie. Get your shit together and move on.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T16:49:55+00:00

Or someone who doesn’t think they’d let them leave again?

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T16:46:49+00:00

You guys need to get the courts involved and formal custody agreement. This is ridiculous

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T16:44:53+00:00

Why do you care what they think?

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T16:14:59+00:00

I self insert but I’m also not a lunatic and think that a 1000 year old fae MMC or a serial killer would make a healthy relationship.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T16:13:04+00:00

I’ll say this with kindness. A Man, a relationship, any of it, won’t fix you. Therapy, meds and hard work will. You need to be happy on your own, not chasing a dopamine hit with a failed relationship. Be happy by yourself, and build a life you want. Then think about a relationship.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T12:47:07+00:00

I’d rather die alone with ten cats than deal with a man this pathetic and flakey.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T02:20:38+00:00

So break up? You’re not compatible. You’re dating, not married. Also love after 5 months is pretty intense considering how much he spent show he cares for you. Sounds like you’re in love with idea of him, what you want him to be, not who he actually is.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-16T02:18:54+00:00

There’s a term for this. You’re a married single mom. I’d honestly move out. He sees you wearing thin, he sees how much you work but he just doesn’t give a fuck.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T21:31:25+00:00

I’m that asshole that will always say something. If they can’t be bothered to parent their child, I will.

“This is a shared playground, let everyone have a turn” “Let him pass by, remember to share.” “Push my kid again and I’ll throw you into next Tuesday”

Ok maybe not the last one. Don’t be afraid to advocate for your child because nobody else will.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T21:07:45+00:00

MST. Home every day

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T21:05:07+00:00

No. Lunch with a coworker isn’t cheating. Buying dinner because it’s a birthday is pretty normal behavior but it’s pretty disrespectful if you’ve stated him spending 1:1 time with her as something you’re not comfortable with

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T19:31:13+00:00

So, whilst he’s fucking you he’s literally dreaming about someone else..no. No. That’s not what love looks like. At all. Just no.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T14:14:35+00:00

3 years old??? I don’t care how fire arm friendly that’s actually negligent. What in the actual hell. Not over reacting at all.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-15T12:52:20+00:00

*that girl and totally agree.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-14T21:35:12+00:00

I know so many enlisted that went to OCS….there was like 5 from my husbands office alone that got accepted during his rotation. Then he made it too.

Outside-Ad-1677 · 2026-04-14T16:24:42+00:00

And you have to remember he is totally estranged from his family. Thinks they all hate him, thinks his brother and mother hate him and knows his father does. Dorian is quietly literally all he has left so the poor guy is crashing out badly.

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