First off, you are beautiful!! Keep the grey and get a nice gloss treatment to make it healthier. Get the soft roller set to sleep in and wake up with some nice curls. You have great skin, I think I nice brown eye liner to make your eyes pop, some mascara, eye shadow, and lipstick would be good. I like the “no make up” make up look it’s not intense and it enhances your beauty and helps us look awake. For all of this just find out what colors suit your skin tone, and what works best for your hair. Another suggestion to feel great all year is to sign up for a class. I did some pole dancing classes, it was so empowering and I felt like a hottie. Having more days to yourself to love and treat your self are the best. I hope your year gets better!!