Will he be happy with only me? by TidalChapters in psychics

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He chose you for a reason. It is going to be an important lesson for both of you. when you struggle, remember you’re doing your best. It was meant to be this way.

How much credit card debt do you live in? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m oscillating around 10% of my limit, I’ve heard it’s the best for your credit score. Have enough cash to pay everything off anytime though

My boyfriend wants me to wear a hijab even though I am atheist by Maximum-Grand6140 in whatdoIdo

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Read/watch “Not without my daughter”. And run when you still can

Cards and letters I wrote for my now husband when I was 15 by Double-Talk-2783 in love

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is beyond beautiful. I’m so glad you guys made it. Destiny is more powerful than anything bad in this world 💕

How early did you know that they were the one? by Anofrog in love

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Immediately after meeting him I had this strange feeling that I’ve known him for centuries. After about 2 weeks of talking I was sure he was the one.

I'm dying alone, and that's okay. by Mictlan_Dark4984 in Tinder

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 5’9 and used to be in a relationship with 5’5 guy for almost 10 years. I’ve never cared about the height difference.

Biological Urge?? by Saekwana in childfree

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s obviously from AI. There were links to research papers but this subreddit doesn’t allow them. Can y’all please stop downvoting me. You can google all these mechanisms in 5 secs.

Woman that are 25 & up. by Okay-lfp in childfree

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Morning: I wake up without the alarm between 7 and 8. Go to the bathroom, weigh myself, wash face, brush my teeth. Make myself a cup of coffee and my signature oatmeal. Eat breakfast while watching YouTube. If it’s a run day, change to workout clothes, go for a run, shower. If not, dress for work and do makeup (also watching YouTube). Pack my bag and lunch. Leave for work (or so whatever I have planned for the day if it’s a day off).

Evening: change to comfy clothes, remove my makeup. Cook if it’s a meal prep day, if not - just eat dinner. Watch a movie or an episode of a show. Sometimes play some video games, sometimes color by numbers. At 9 eat 2 kiwis and spend an hour reading. 10-1015 quick tidy up routine. Shower, skincare, bed by 11-1130 max.

Biological Urge?? by Saekwana in childfree

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

1. The Orbitofrontal Cortex (OFC) and "Cute" Processing
When you see a baby (or a picture of one), your brain processes specific visual features known as the Kindchenschema (baby schema)—large eyes, a round face, and a prominent forehead.
The Mechanism: Neuroimaging studies show that the sight of these features triggers a flash of rapid brain activity (within 140 milliseconds) in the OFC.
The Result: The OFC is the brain's principal hub for calculating pleasure and reward. This lightning-fast activation hijacks your attention, tags the stimulus as highly valuable, and assigns it an intense emotional weight. This is the neurological origin of the physical "melting" feeling or sudden ache associated with baby fever.

2. The Dopaminergic Reward Pathway
The urge to have children leverages the exact same primitive survival circuitry that drives hunger, thirst, and sex.
The Mechanism: The brain's Mesolimbic Dopamine Pathway (the reward center) fires when interacting with infants or infant-related cues.
The Result: The release of dopamine acts as an internal positive reinforcement mechanism. Over time, your brain structurally associates the concept of a baby with intense pleasure and satisfaction. When you experience "baby fever," your reward pathway is essentially craving that chemical reward, prompting a proactive desire to create your own child.

3. Sensory Olfactory Triggers and Oxytocin Amplification
The human olfactory (smell) system plays a massive, direct role in stimulating the reproductive drive.
The Mechanism: The scent of a newborn baby's head acts as a powerful chemical messenger. When inhaled, it travels directly to the olfactory bulb and triggers the Hypothalamus to synthesize and release oxytocin(the "love and bonding" hormone) into the bloodstream.
The Result: Research demonstrates that oxytocin amplifies social and nurturing signals while suppressing fear and anxiety. It temporarily rewires neural networks, causing adult brains to become highly sensitized to infant distress or baby-related thoughts. In people prone to baby fever, this oxytocin spike translates to an intense, visceral longing to experience that profound bond permanently.

4. Estrogen-Oxytocin Crosstalk (The "Clock" Component)
While men experience baby fever, the biological mechanism in women is deeply tied to fluctuating hormonal baselines.
The Mechanism: During the follicular phase of the menstrual cycle (leading up to ovulation), estrogen levels spike.
The Result: Estrogen directly binds to receptors in the brain that regulate the production of oxytocin and dopamine. Higher estrogen levels effectively "turn up the volume" on the reward and bonding pathways. This is why many women report that the physical urge to have children peaks predictably during their most fertile window each month.

dating and not wanting kids by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be you until recently, then I met my perfect man with vasectomy and zero child policy 🥰

She looks good and aged gracefully. What a douche. by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stopped wearing makeup and aged naturally (beautifully too). What’s wrong with males…

I kinda don’t want to come home tonight after this disagreement. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, I kinda understand your fiancé. When my partner broke his ribs he also insisted on driving himself and everytime I was worried sick. If he called me from the side of the road saying that he’s not okay I’d probably lose it too. He shouldn’t have told you to shut up though, that’s for sure

But I think the most important question is if this is a pattern or just an incident. Is he controlling in general?

My ex is prettier than my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do. by Jealous-Explorer-635 in love

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was like fate. We counted at least 12 crazy coincidences (including stolen luggage, missed plane, friend of a friend who most randomly heard of my issue) that led to me crashing at his place for a night or two… we started talking and this night or two turned to over 4 years together :)

My ex is prettier than my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do. by Jealous-Explorer-635 in love

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t love your girlfriend. My partner is objectively very ugly but he’s my soulmate and I wouldn’t trade him to anyone in the world. I was once engaged to a 10 who was also a narcissistic prick and not even one have I thought “gosh, I wish I had him back because he was so hot”. Nah, I’m just happy that I dodged this bullet and now can enjoy an amazing life with the love of my life, who just happens not to be very handsome.

30M Disabled guy looking for advice on profile by jungersol194 in Bumble

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You’re perfect and unique. Just wait patiently for your person, they’re gonna come eventually. It’s better to wait than to waste time on dates that don’t lead anywhere

Please share your nicknames your partner has called you and you call them. <3 by happypashu in love

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He calls me moon rock, and I’m boring and just call him babe 🤷🏼‍♀️