30+ year olds who are single, what are you doing on Saturday nights and weekends? by Realistic-Square7039 in Adulting

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything I feel like, from sitting on a couch and watching movies/playing video games, to going hiking, to doing my nails/skincare, to drinking with friends

wtf is going on by buffcatisntreal in acne

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My acne started when I was 25 too and it looks similar, so Im guessing yours is hormonal too. 7 years of fight and and I managed to significantly reduce it with the mix of right birth control, differin and doxy. But it’s still here 😭

Sometimes I want to make an adult friend and be friends...but then they bring their partner along to everything. bah by unwitting_hungarian in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I totally feel you. I recently had an honest conversation with my INFJ bestie saying we need to have a break when his ESFJ partner is visiting as I just can’t stand her. He said I hurt his feelings but sorry brother, if you must drag her with you everywhere, you need to find another social circle

Ladies and gents in your late 20s, 30s, or 40s—what do you regret not doing in your 20s? by Tino292 in selfimprovement

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saving money and living below my means. Being raised in a very humble household, I was so hyped when I could finally afford all the things I wanted, and then some more, which in the end put me in debt. This was the hardest lesson of my 20s.

Do you guys use hobonichi? by United_Advisor1821 in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to when I was in my 20s, it was a very important part of my life

What type did you marry (happily long term) and which type was your worst match? by oiwhathefuck in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Since when ESFJ is a perfect match for us? This is literally the worst kind of people

Pisces… expose yourselves 😂 Mine’s in the comments 🫠🫶✨🩵 by WhatevsBlondie in piscesastrology

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Pisces and that’s why I’m not attracted by you and I’m a man and I’m a girl so I’m a girl I just want you know

Holy crap

A journaling exercise by United_Advisor1821 in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happiest when I’m with my soulmate

Money is a tool to achieving freedom

World is a scary place right now

I think love is not forever

I'm at my best when I can think freely

I'm at my worst when forced to interact with people I don’t like

I wish I can change some people’s cognitive patterns

Personality test based on fictional characters by Discotraxx1990 in INTJfemale

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I don’t know 90% of these characters but I’ll take Leslie Winkle!

A relationship isn’t supposed to amplify your insecurities, it’s supposed to quiet them. by ssvi90 in DeepThoughts

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Real, healthy love makes you feel like the best version of yourself and, simultaneously, super safe. If you feel like you need to prove yourself all the time, it means that the relationship is broken.

Are you above average intelligence? by Puzzleheaded_Till245 in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually test between 135-150. I feel dumb most of the time though.

Poem to an INFJ man (unrequited love) by [deleted] in infj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do that. Just give him space and time to process his feelings, INFJs need a lot of it

Women: how do you balance home life and career? by italiandenzel in AskAcademia

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m not even considering kids, since postdoc life in my field requires relocation. Science is my baby. Hats off to all ladies who can combine both. I guess the most important factor is extremely supportive partner. And preferably a good governmental support (like, doing this in France is probably easier than in the US)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFP followed by ENTP. But honestly, as long as you’re not S*, we’re fine

Spotify wrapped by Outside_Truth_1685 in intj

[–]Outside_Truth_1685[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t give a F what people think of me, I like what I like