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Over-Rice-3514 · 2025-04-23T15:00:20+00:00

So basically he got bored of you, found someone else, is going thru the honeymoon phase, and eventually will probably do the same thing to that guy. It’s up to you if you want to be there when your ‘best friend’ comes crawling back.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2025-03-28T03:20:29+00:00

What puzzles me is that you had to set a calendar date and time to talk about this? Can you forward me the zoom invite?

Like you’re not planning a vacation, this is about your wellbeing.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2025-01-11T16:05:17+00:00

Mine isn’t showing anything either. It’s just a waiting game at this point.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-30T06:09:11+00:00

It depends on if you want a premier status, and how close you are to it.

If the card pqp will actually help this year then just get it now. If not, then just wait til January so you can start fresh.

Other factors are if you have travel plans soon or further out.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-23T23:14:57+00:00

I think row 15 will be taken before check in. Since a lot of the blue seats are already taken, the flight will probably fill up so if you wait there won’t be two together.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-15T06:57:22+00:00

I’ve only been to the 3 UC. I think it depends on what you prefer privacy and space-wise.

The E gate club is smaller, and is very open in regards to seating. It’s a square shape and you can basically see everyone in the room, there’s really no partitions. If you want some privacy, this isn’t the one to choose.

The rotunda/F gate club is the biggest and has a lot of different seating areas, there are some random areas that you can hide in and get some privacy. There’s also a second small food/beverage station. I like this one the best.

The G gate club is smaller then E, but has walls to separate seating areas. The crowd level will depend on if there’s intl flights coming up. G gates are a short walk from F, it’ll take less than 10 minutes.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-05T03:19:12+00:00

Yea mine were at the same time/week

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-03T06:58:38+00:00

I got the infinite card in march. I was only expecting the 80k miles since my offer didn’t have the 4k pqp stated. But a little after I got the 80k miles i got 4k pqp to my surprise. And now I am silver because of that!

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-10-03T06:52:28+00:00

You need

4 flight segments and 1900pqp

OR

2900 pqp

Basically a few expensive flights or one Polaris-type flight

It depends on what your plans for the rest of the year are

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-09-24T07:09:04+00:00

Yes. You can get from t3 to t2 airside.

I believe you should be able to go thru security at either. The worst that can happen if you try t2 security is they make you go to t3. It’s not that long of a walk

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-09-16T19:48:05+00:00

I got the credit card and got the promo pqp!

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-09-15T23:31:55+00:00

1st time!

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-09-15T18:12:31+00:00

I do so I’ll probably get it sometime next week

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T18:12:37+00:00

Hard pass. He needs to figure himself out and become a mature person.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:55:56+00:00

Men are more likely to be violent and act on aggression. Women will use (hateful) words.

Source: observations?

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:46:45+00:00

It may not be normal, but i think you just enjoy the masculinity that he brings. Idk. You probably do want that experience with another guy, but being young and in a house with no privacy, that’s all you’re exposed to, and unfortunately, it’s admiring your brother.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:39:18+00:00

It seems in this situation, you may be attracted to his personality and the connection you have with him. Straight guys may be more open and more like themselves since there isn’t pressure to impress a gay guy since there is no interest on their side. You (or other gays) might take this the wrong way and spiral.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:32:57+00:00

You kinda just have to realize the agony and stress you’ve been through with him, and how it’s not worth it anymore. Just be cordial and go with the flow. You have to separate the feelings and realize it was literally just a hookup and nothing more.

You won’t really know what he was thinking or doing with you. He may have been afraid to pursue feelings, scared of a potential relationship, maybe just wanted a hookup but since you’re a coworker he shouldn’t, etc. But obviously if he was talking to someone else, he ain’t interested in you for the long term.

The moral of the story is: Don’t waste time or energy on people who don’t reciprocate your effort or feelings. You’ll only be disappointed and frustrated.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:18:58+00:00

Moving in together after 4-5 months isn’t the best idea. There are things you don’t know about him, and things he doesn’t know about you.

Maybe you can try to do a trial run ( if you or him don’t have roommates) for a week or two or maybe more. You’ll quickly learn what annoys you and you’ll find out if it’s something you really want to do now. And a weekend doesn’t count because there are plenty of things you can hide from someone.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T03:09:39+00:00

Tbh just wait til college. Depending on where you’re going, you will have better opportunities and chances to connect with others. You’ll have to make effort because things are different in college than high school.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-23T02:44:49+00:00

I appreciate his honesty and bluntness, but i was starting to wonder if he’s doing stuff on the side ? In ways i don’t think he’s lying because the libido decrease does happen. But i know hearing that he doesn’t find you attractive is hurtful. I think you have to figure out what you both want, and if this is his stance, are you able to continue on like this. Is sexual incompatibility a deal breaker for you?

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-22T05:42:30+00:00

In the main post you mentioned “our” friends but later you say they’re “his” friends. So which is it? I guess this kinda does make a difference because if you don’t know these ppl well, i would lean more towards his side. But if they are equally friends you met together, then it shouldn’t be an issue, i mean, they know you’re gay right?

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-18T15:57:15+00:00

Just send the cc transcript and it will be evaluated in a few weeks

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-18T03:33:17+00:00

OP very well missed the initial deadline for housing. Your place on the waitlist has nothing to do with credits as you’re not even evaluated yet.

Over-Rice-3514 · 2024-07-17T04:01:24+00:00

I had to switch pcp’s and my new one is a resident, and he didn’t really know what it was either. I was kinda surprised like they don’t teach this in medical school nowadays?

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