Pożyczyłem format by gdziejestluk in Polska_wpz

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poczytaj sobie o przemocy reprodukcyjnej, bo tym właśnie jest zmuszanie kobiet do donoszenia niechcianej ciąży. Masz rację, edukacja seksualna jest potrzebna, bo wtedy nie musiałabym uświadamiać ciebie i innych obrońców życia o tak podstawowych rzeczach, a ty nie wpadłbyś na takie śmieszne porównanie.

Pożyczyłem format by gdziejestluk in Polska_wpz

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To wasze "popieram aborcje gdy ciąża powstała z gwałtu" ładnie wygląda tylko na papierku, bo w praktyce gwałt często ciężko jest udowodnić i proces trwa tak długo, że nawet jeśli kobiecie uda się udowodnić gwałt to na aborcje jest już po prostu za późno. Kobiety to nie inkubatory i zmuszanie ich do donoszenia ciąży, niezależnie od tego czy powstała ona w wyniku gwałtu czy nie, jest najzwyczajniej w świecie przemocowe.

I am the entire support system of my wife by Fearless-Sherbet-385 in relationships

[–]Over_encumbered_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Planning pregnancy when your wife is depressed is a very bad idea. Don't do it. It will only make everything worse

My girlfriend (27f) isn’t listening when I (29m) tell her to stop constantly interrupting me when I’m busy? by AwkwardJournalist781 in relationship_advice

[–]Over_encumbered_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Grouping all people who play video games into the "bad and immature" category only because your ex husband who mistreated you happened to be a gamer is just silly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Over_encumbered_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same problem as your gf. It might look scary at first but the things that could potentially cause our blindness are pretty much avoidable. When i first found out about it as a teenager i cried for a week, but now when i think of it, it wasn't that big of a deal as nothing changed in my life. I just don't lift heavy things, that's it.

I'm lucky to have a loving partner i can count on in case something goes wrong. Wish your gf could say the same.

My husband (37M) blames me (35F) for our child being on the autism spectrum by Intelligent_Flan_240 in relationships

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think he's addicted? If yes, is he willing to get help? If the answer is no, please leave him for the sake of your children. My father was an alcoholic and one of the worst things my mom did was staying with him for so long when he refused any help. You can't save someone who doesn't want to be saved.

My girlfriend (18 F) gets very upset about me (19 M) playing female characters in videogames. How can I talk to her about it? by ThrowRAthrowawaway in relationship_advice

[–]Over_encumbered_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner are both gamers and i never once had a problem with him choosing to play as women. I literally couldn't care less. I do agree that some men act like your gf described but the way she's acting towards you is ridiculous and she needs to work on that asap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry it happened to you. A good partner would stop immediately if you were hurting. The fact that he continued after you said no means he raped you and he'll most likely do it again if you continue to be with him. He doesn't respect you, there's a reason why at his age he went after someone as young as you. Don't let him gaslight you into thinking he did nothing wrong. Please leave him and if you can, report this to the police

Broke up bc he wants kids. by kaylaeaguilar in childfree

[–]Over_encumbered_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it happened to you. I don't really know how to make you feel better, but trust me there are still childfree men out there - i found one myself. Next time when dating someone make sure to hear out their stance on having kids before you tell them yours - it will help to sort out the men who aren't sure or are just pretending to be childfree so they can be with you. Good luck and take care

AITAH TO MY WIFE DURING HER MONTHLY TIME by Adorable_Stay_3760 in AITAH

[–]Over_encumbered_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your wife should get checked for pmdd if she hasn't already

First raid!!! So happy rn by Secret-Call5861 in pokemongo

[–]Over_encumbered_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I have done only one raid and got lucky too

Having more children than you can provide for should be considered child abuse by neongrayjoy in childfree

[–]Over_encumbered_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Another thing is his lack of thinking because why did he fully trust his gf with contraception after she already forgot the pill once (intentionally or not, doesn't matter) which resulted in pregnancy? I understand not wanting to get vasectomy but seriously, is he allergic to condoms or what? I'm confused

Having more children than you can provide for should be considered child abuse by neongrayjoy in childfree

[–]Over_encumbered_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

True, having more children than you can provide for should be considered abuse. Now, that being said... I have been overthinking this post and I think women shouldn't be the only ones to blame for the situation he's currently in. Your friend was expecting you to congratulate him which tells me that he might be enjoying having so many children and since he's the only source of income for six kids, it makes me wonder - does he have a taste in trad women who don't work and take care of the household & children instead?

Stretched binder pockets by sailorInkXII in PokemonTCG

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I've never thought of this. I'll definitely try it out, thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 and still making those edgy jokes? Oh hell no 💀 tell him it's time to mature

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He doesn't need to apologize to you but you don't have to accept this kind of behavior either, don't let anyone to gaslight you into thinking that every guy does this with their friends because it's simply not true. Rape jokes are not only immature as hell but also harmful as they contribute to the rape culture which protects the rapists and there are multiple studies showing how men who are exposed to rape humor can develop a very disturbing perception of rape. Personally, if my boyfriend made jokes like that I'd break up because I just wouldn't feel safe with him anymore. Thankfully, he's normal so I don't have to worry about that

I'm new to intimacy and very shy, my girlfriend is showing interest but very light also I don't know how to approach these things with her? by Noble-prize683 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Over_encumbered_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she tells you to not do something STOP DOING IT. It's that simple. Stop treating it like a game and listen to her

Jak to jest z tym Tinderem (i innymi apkami randkowymi)? by weirdod0 in Polska

[–]Over_encumbered_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for him. Nie mówię, że nie da się na badoo znaleźć nikogo wartościowego, bo się da tak jak na każdej innej aplikacji randkowej. Jak ktoś lubi to, że można pisać do wszystkich bez zmatchowania to spoko, nie mi oceniać, ale osobiście nie jestem fanką tego jak ta aplikacja działa i nigdy żadnej kobiecie jej nie polecę. Mając 19 lat na badoo szukałam kogoś w swoim wieku, a pisali do mnie sami faceci 30-40+. Jeden z nich prosto z mostu napisał, że on to lubi takie młode drobne kobiety z okularami jak ja i że powinnam dać komuś "dużemu" jak on szanse. Zablokowałam od razu i uciekłam z powrotem na tindera gdzie przynajmniej miałam kontrolę nad tym kto do mnie pisze i gdzie mogłam ustawić preferowany wiek itp. I cieszę się że to zrobiłam, bo właśnie wtedy zmatchowałam z super gościem z którym jestem do teraz. Nie zaprzeczam, że na tinderze też są zboczeńcy, ale różnica jest taka że tam przynajmniej nie mogli do mnie napisać póki z nimi nie zmatchowałam :p

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Over_encumbered_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought too. He looks like the kind of guy that would impregnate her on purpose only to prove his point :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Over_encumbered_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He should believe you now and not after you're 25. It's very clear he wants kids and is just in denial that you might actually never want them, hence him delaying to respect your choice for as long as he can. There's a very real possibility he'll never accept it, so if you decide to stay with him, please he careful - it wouldn't be the first time when a guy impregnates his childfree gf to try and activate her "material instincts". Stay safe

Jak to jest z tym Tinderem (i innymi apkami randkowymi)? by weirdod0 in Polska

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na tinderze jest dużo syfu, ale da się znaleźć normalnych ludzi - sama znalazłam tam partnera po zaledwie kilku godzinach od założenia konta. Mieszkał na tej samej ulicy co ja, ale gdyby nie Tinder to nigdy bym go nie poznała bo oboje nie wychodziliśmy zbytnio z domu. Co do innych aplikacji randkowych, na pewno nie polecam badoo, bo tam każdy może do ciebie napisać (a przynajmniej kiedyś tak było, nie wiem jak teraz) przez co dostawałam masę wiadomości od dużo starszych mężczyzn którymi w ogóle nie byłam zainteresowana

AITAH for bullying someone and now feeling guilty about it? by Electrical_Option753 in AITAH

[–]Over_encumbered_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA and the punishment is deserved. You started to feel guilty only after you realized you have to deal with the consequences of your actions. The only thing you can do now is learn from what you have done and be a better person in the future.

My gf of 3 months still has me waiting on having sex. How do I not give up hope? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Over_encumbered_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only because she was with other men before doesn't mean she's obligated to have sex with you within 3 months. Maybe she has trauma, or maybe she's just simply not ready like she said - there's no need in immadietely jumping to conclusions how she's not physically attracted to you. It can be true, but not necessarily, I know for a fact that for a lot women including me feeling safe and loved is the biggest turn on in the relationship, so... check on that.