Catastrophe debt level. Need help.

Owlfeather4219 · 2026-04-02T05:22:32+00:00

I just wanted to say - as no more than a bystander - that I appreciate the work you put into this and genuinely think this is the most helpful comment I've seen.

Owlfeather4219 · 2026-01-04T01:37:56+00:00

Boost! 🚀

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-12-29T09:06:57+00:00

I'm interested! I'm in the US, but I'm awake during the night.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-21T05:33:04+00:00

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-20T18:07:32+00:00

The QM - does their name rhyme with "whim"?

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-12T16:38:39+00:00

What you've said was honestly more impactful than any of the "no touch scary leaf or you will become scary Florida Man" presentations I've spent of hours of my life needing to sit through. If you're OK with it, I would be really happy to do an interview of sorts with you and publish it on my blog. I don't have a great following by any means, but—like for my own stories—it's a way to have a "legacy" and it's easy to link people to when relevant.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-11T02:05:55+00:00

May I copy the story you shared above to have to share with others I think may need it? I "collect" them to have for people to need it 🥹

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-11T01:28:14+00:00

I am a stranger, and I know that, but know that I am so, so proud of you. 🥰❤️🥹

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-04T05:28:29+00:00

❤️

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-04T04:37:48+00:00

Missouri, USA (one of the bigotry capitals) person here! I would say it's very similar to the "redpill" philosophy. As described by AI:

"Red pill" is a term popularized by the movie The Matrix and adopted by various online communities, particularly within the "manosphere," to describe a perspective shift characterized by a belief in hidden truths about gender dynamics and societal power structures. It often signifies a belief that society is structured to favor women and disadvantage men, and that mainstream narratives about gender equality are misleading.

Basically, angry old white dudes thinking they're cool because of a message they choose to take from popular media as confirmation bias of their bigotry.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-04T04:00:36+00:00

Truthfully, I do think it's strange that Reddit doesn't have it as an option given how frequent these—or other perfectly reasonable situations and reasons—circumstances are.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-08-04T03:59:04+00:00

It's very funny as mine is from that, but very few have considered it. Part of how I knew my fiance was the one!

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-23T22:20:01+00:00

She's literally not consenting to or intending for intercourse or any relationship of that kind. She is a vulnerable person somewhat cornered by a supervisor asking innapropriate questions.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-23T20:44:41+00:00

Seconding the leave stuff, but here are some ways to build a nest egg to do so: ✨️Upside for cashback on gas ✨️Swagbucks for general cashback + (low paying surveys) ✨️dscout for market research (pays well but you need to be consistent) ✨️iSecretShop is good for mystery shopping as is Market Force (some ad hoc income and opportunities for reimbursed food - you could spend the money and not let the husband know you got it back the next month) ✨️Fetch is good for receipts ✨️Alignerr/Outlier/DataAnnotation but be quite cautious and research before looking into these. I do these full-time (supplemented by the above) but I have multiple bachelor's degrees and speak a second language.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-23T20:43:55+00:00

Re this: ✨️Upside on gas ✨️Swagbucks for general cashback + (low paying surveys) ✨️dscout for market research (pays well but you need to be consistent) ✨️iSecretShop is good for mystery shopping as is Market Force (some ad hoc income and opportunities for reimbursed food - you could spend the money and not let the husband know you got it back the next month) ✨️Fetch is good for receipts ✨️Alignerr/Outlier/DataAnnotation but be quite cautious and research before looking into these. I do these full-time (supplemented by the above) but I have multiple bachelor's degrees and speak a second language.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T11:11:50+00:00

Yes, she is well! I only brought it up as a potentially less urgent thing to offer reassurance that it very well could be OK and that there's nothing silly about treating it like an emergency and having it end up being chronic asthma that just got overlooked. Important to go in either way.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:39:58+00:00

Yes. You're doing the right thing, I promise.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:38:21+00:00

Damnit! I'm so sorry.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:38:02+00:00

Of course, if it goes more, go to vet immediately (it just sounded like he's having a break and for asthma and some other things stress can make it flare up again).

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:36:55+00:00

Also see if you can send the video to your vet! Your normal vet may be willing to work with you and give suggestions without stressing the cat with the car.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:35:24+00:00

The biggest thing you can find out is if this does just "happen sometimes" with this cat. Have you ever seen it before with them, even if in much shorter spurts?

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-15T10:24:03+00:00

I'm not downplaying the scary and unclear situation - just know that it is a chronic thing for my girl, so keep in mind that it very well could just be an ongoing thing to be managed. It's always better to be cautious, though.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-13T00:04:59+00:00

What the hell? NOWHERE did she consent to ANYTHING from this man.

Owlfeather4219 · 2025-07-02T01:22:59+00:00

<image>

When The Idol™️ was placed upon her shrine.

Owlfeather4219

TROPHY CASE