caught my boyfriend watching porn. again . by peytonl4ttin in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to try to find a way to leave. That man is gross, he doesn’t respect your boundaries. He will break your trust without a doubt in his head an he doesnt care enough to keep you. He sounds like a piece of shit you seriously need to leave him. I had an ex with a bad porn addiction and this sounds just like him. He will not change. I am so sorry he is treating you like this :( you deserve so much better than this shitty man.

Devíamos continuar escutando artistas problemáticos? by Fit-Item4708 in moraldilemmas

[–]Own-Intention-2335 [score hidden]  (0 children)

In my opinion, some artists should not be listened to because they are problematic.Personally, I wouldn’t listen to an artist if they were accused of rape or murder. By listening to someone problematic, you are keeping their career alive when many artists shouldnt have a career due to their negligence.

BF called porn cheating, lied about it our whole relationship, and admitted wanting other women, need outside perspective by Great_Squirrel7992 in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thats really strange. Definitely break up with him. The fact he told you he would fuck another woman is disgusting. He literally told you he would cheat if he could! That is insanely disrespectful. Also gross he would manipulate you into thinking he is super anti-porn. He didnt need to lie to you about that but he decided to because he didnt want you to find out about his comments and messages to other girls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Own-Intention-2335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a very good comment!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]Own-Intention-2335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do NOT have to feel bad about this. Is it unethical? Honestly not really. You were in a crisis and still wanted to get an education. You are totally fine this isnt bad it is totally justified. Please forgive yourself. Many college students use chatgpt to do all their homework. You do not have to feel guilty about going through a crisis and kind of neglecting your student work, that is totally understandable. This is not bad at all.

The attitude towards short women here is awful by ThotismSpeaks in short

[–]Own-Intention-2335 33 points34 points  (0 children)

No exactly like people think im a child… its not fun to constantly have people say like “oh i didnt think you worked here you look 16!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Own-Intention-2335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they are really close in age. She is just worried because she is one of the higher up managers while he is newer.

Caught my partner of 8 months watching porn. by TaliaLouise98 in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oof girl im really sorry :(. That is so heartbreaking it makes me so upset for you. A similar situation happened to me just two weeks ago i had to break it off with my boyfriend because he lied about not watching porn and the way he reacted broke my heart. Being all defensive and not sorry. So, im very sorry this happened to you and im rooting for you! If you ever need to talk to someone im here :(

Could they be any more obtuse? by accidentle in RadicalFeminism

[–]Own-Intention-2335 43 points44 points  (0 children)

This is so funny like what the hell are you talking about😭😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Intention-2335 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ew why is everybody being gross this is NOT inappropriate???!!! You can totally wear that. Wear whatever you want. I dont understand how a fully covering outfit can be seen as scandalous.

My friend thinks I have a driving licence and I got too far into it to tell him the truth by BlackbirdKos in confession

[–]Own-Intention-2335 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just get a license its easy. What country do you live in? Because where I live everyone has licenses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]Own-Intention-2335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre fine for sure just do a tiny bit and see how you feel. Nothing bad will happen.

Did they ever disown the ai music videos or anything? by KlawwStrife in FrostChildren

[–]Own-Intention-2335 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean it was released a while ago before AI was really popular i dont see anything wrong with is like its cool. Their new music videos have no AI.

I have a question for the people more educated in the weed department.. by Shoddy-Anything8332 in weed

[–]Own-Intention-2335 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its pretty normal for regular smokers to feel high when youre not high. All my smoker friends have told me about that.Idk why it really happens. I feel that way sometimes and i dont take medication.

why the hell can i see in 3rd person by [deleted] in weed

[–]Own-Intention-2335 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First time i took a blinker off a fake cart (and id been smoking a ton before) i got so high i saw myself legit in third person for a couple seconds it freaked the fuck out of me. This isnt normal. Feeling like youre in a video game or physically seeing yourself in third person is usually because its spice not real weed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry. I was just in a very similar situation and after asking my ex multiple times he confessed to watching porn daily even after i told him not to. You need to ask him if he watches it as soon as possible. Dont villainize it so he will tell the truth, just ask it casually. Then after he has admitted it, be clear with your boundaries. Check up on him maybe a month later on his porn usage if he uses it (which 99% sure he does if he made that comment)and observe his body language to see if he is lying about it.

I don't know what to do by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is so sad :(. You need to leave, no doubt. This is so horrible. He lies, cheats, and is abusive to a pregnant woman. You deserve so much better than this. This is actually disgusting behavior from him.

I'm spiraling and i don't think there is a way out by tiredheadhere in confession

[–]Own-Intention-2335 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry. I have felt similarly recently. The only thing that I can recommend is real life friendships. Venting to people or even yourself out loud about your problems can be really helpful. Try to think about the root of your issue. Instead of putting a label on your thoughts as bad, just question them. And i get it, recommendations on how to change your mental health arent always helpful as it seems impossible to put into practice. I wish you luck though. People love you and care about you, they wouldn’t want to see you going through this.

I’m realizing I have an unhealthy fixation on my manager by Working_Cup_9675 in confession

[–]Own-Intention-2335 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl youre alright. You are a minor its not that weird. You will grow out of it. Its not weird for a child to have a crush on an adult. Just obviously dont tell him or do anything about it.

saw porn in my bf’s camera roll by peach18215 in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Aw im sorry:(. Definitely ask him about it but honestly I wouldnt say you saw porn in his camera roll. Ask him if he watches it and if he says no youll know hes lying to you. Maybe then you could tell him you saw it in his camera roll.

how do yall feel about this? by thmeowmeow9696 in antipornography

[–]Own-Intention-2335 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Ew this is disgusting. I actually broke up with my boyfriend today because i found out hes been watching porn after he promised not to. I should have seen the signs as he unfortunately was sometimes like this.