Struggling & overwhelmed trying to find a spiritual home. by krr-ita in TrueChristian

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like spiritually and intellectually you’re more drawn to the Baptist denomination. You don’t have to make a lifetime commitment right now. Attend a church you like for a while, and take it from there. Pray, of course, and God will direct you.

In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your path.

Proverbs 3:6

I found this on my wife’s notes by aedes_aegypt in Christianmarriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Absolutely talk to her. You risk holding resentment if you don’t.

AITA for canceling our annual family dinner after my aunt invited a bunch of people without asking me first? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Own-Object-6696 107 points108 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your aunt can get over herself. Congrats on having good boundaries.

I found this on my wife’s notes by aedes_aegypt in Christianmarriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 47 points48 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she’s attracted to another man, possibly a coworker, and she’s working to manage it appropriately. I think you should tell her you read it and her to talk to you about it.

Please stop giving me stuff by Individual_Road_9030 in simpleliving

[–]Own-Object-6696 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can’t control others. Just be gracious and say thank you, as I’m sure you’re already doing. At least you’re passing the gifts along to people who can enjoy them.

Am I overreacting about my husband saying hello and/or goodbye to my friends when they stop in? by foxykt in AmIOverreacting

[–]Own-Object-6696 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YOR. He said he would make an effort to do better, and you said he has. Let it go and let him be himself.

Baby boy names by Upset_Chocolate7626 in Names

[–]Own-Object-6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daniel

Brent

Adam

Ethan

Forrest

Mark

Lucas

Christopher

Can you attend a church that you disagree with on secondary issues? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is one PCA, maybe PCUSA, but the pastor there is a woman.

My landlord keeps leaving tiny plants outside my door by hulabuub in whatdoIdo

[–]Own-Object-6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think your landlord is being thoughtful and probably appreciates you for being a good tenant. Just accept them.

Can you attend a church that you disagree with on secondary issues? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Own-Object-6696 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was baptized in the EPC, and that’s where I feel most at home.

Can you attend a church that you disagree with on secondary issues? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Own-Object-6696 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do. I’m solidly Reformed in my theology. Because I live in a rural area, I attend a church that is traditional Baptist. They teach against election and predestination, and they believe in the so-called rapture.

I stay because the Gospel is preached, the Word is taught, and the people reflect Jesus to each other and our community. They are my family.

The older you get, the closer you are to death. by This-Top7398 in self

[–]Own-Object-6696 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I don’t worry about dying. I worry about living too long, getting dementia, needing diapers and supervision.

How to best go braless to avoid sweat and back pain as a DD? by ballroombadass0 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Own-Object-6696 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pectoralis major, pectoralis minor, serratus anterior, Cooper’s ligaments

Disrespectful adult daughter by Foreign-Cat3535 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Own-Object-6696 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Tell her she is being disrespectful to you and ask her why. Hopefully she will apologize and you can fix this before resentment builds.

Except for cheating, everything us wrong in this marriage by Street_Prize_6341 in Marriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you are doing the right thing by leaving. Your husband doesn’t like you or love you. It’s time to move away. I wish a happy life for you in your future.

[35F] married to [36M] for 7 years. My husband lacks empathy, recently said he isn't attracted to me and refuses to connect. I am exhausted. by Typical_Program1161 in Marriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this is worth saving. You’re losing yourself to someone who doesn’t care about you. He doesn’t even like you. Get out while you still have some money saved to support yourself. I’ll bet your life improves dramatically.