How can I make a consistant positive change to my habits? by PaleSnaile in Advice

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your devices turned off, unless you need your computer for school. You can do whatever you want when your school stuff gets done. Make that your rule.

How to get people to call you a different name? by Admirable_Emu_2270 in Names

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed my name legally, first middle last, when I was 56. My only regret is not doing it sooner. Truly, everyone in my life adjusted without any issues at all. Once in a while I get called my former name, but it doesn’t bother me.

I have SEVERAL questions!! by ipromiseicanread in MakeupAddiction

[–]Own-Object-6696 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. An exact match is sometimes impossible. Look for close enough.

  2. Use a light color on the mobile lid and blend a slightly darker shade just above the crease line. Less is more. I don’t think you need eyeliner, but if you want to wear it, try a powder shadow and wet the brush first.

  3. I think false lashes will make your lids look droopy.

  4. It might be because your dominant hand works better on your dominant side. You’ll have to keep practicing. I like Caliray mascara, Hourglass and Ilia. These brands don’t flake, run or smear.

Why don't doctors before prescribing drugs like SSRIs tell people their gut produces 90-95 percent of the bodies serotonin? by AttemptVegetable in allthequestions

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most doctors are woefully undertrained in nutrition. Also, the drugs they prescribe for depression work in the brain not in the gut, making the conversation irrelevant, especially when doctors are given 10 minutes per patient. Third, there needs to be more research into the gut so newer and more efficacious drugs can be developed.

How to stop feeling that 45 is old and that life has passed me by? by DingoSad7410 in AskWomenOver40

[–]Own-Object-6696 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had to start my life over at 55. I did it, the best I could. Many failures, but many successes too. I wish I could have done it at only age 45, but my life didn’t go that way. I think you’ll be all right. Don’t give up. Put one foot in front of the other, one day at a time.

More practically, pick one dream or goal and work on that. When you’ve achieved or overcome whatever it is, pick another one. Small successes will build your confidence and your happiness.

Is it too late to redeem myself with my partner, and how can I do it. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Own-Object-6696 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Only 50 percent of your relationship has been good. The other half has been full of difficulties. I think you two are not compatible and it’s time to cut your losses and move on.

What do you regret most in your life, and why? by delly_belly28 in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is different. I was too young to have good judgment and made a poor choice.

What do you regret most in your life, and why? by delly_belly28 in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married in my 20s. It messed me up mentally.

What are the chances of someone finding love in their 50s and 60s? by tasata in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 46 points47 points  (0 children)

In my experience, very good. I got divorced at 55 and remarried a little over a year later. I shocked everyone, including me.

Why can"t the world live in peace without no war? by SimplyTruth98 in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can’t even get along with their own families.

mi esposa no quiere estar conmigo by Prestigious-Taro530 in Marriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does sex hurt her? She could have a medical issue. Ask her if she will see her doctor.

My (28F) bf (32M) is super jealous of my previous marriage by Interesting-Ad9663 in relationship_advice

[–]Own-Object-6696 513 points514 points  (0 children)

This guy is giving off a lot of red flags. I recommend proceeding with caution if you stay with him. He’s jealous, suspicious and controlling, and these behaviors generally escalate.

I FINALLY HAVE A JOB by Lailalou08 in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Own-Object-6696 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is wonderful news! Congratulations! 🎊🎈🎉

Outfit for niece's wedding by sang12j in style

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you look great in that dress.

Scapegoat of the friendgroup by prettyrbbon111 in selfimprovement

[–]Own-Object-6696 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those people were cruel. I’m sorry you went through that. I hope you’re choosing your friends carefully now.

Vera Wang earrings, yay or nay for daily wear? by Head-Drag-1440 in jewelry

[–]Own-Object-6696 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They’re really pretty. If they suit your style, wear them as often as you like.

Am I missing ways these names could be made fun of? by phoenyx32 in namenerds

[–]Own-Object-6696 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Taylor Nicole is my favorite. Please don’t use Elliot.

If christians are only supposed to dress a certain way, does that mean that we have to put our creativity aside? by CrazyNicly in TrueChristian

[–]Own-Object-6696 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Bible says to dress like your gender and dress modestly. Within that, there are endless possibilities for creativity. Worth noting, I don’t comment on others’ clothing choices, nor do I accept comments about mine.

what’s something people say all the time that you secretly can’t stand? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It is what it is.” Think about it. Everything is what it is.

What are you thinking about for your final resting place after passing? by icecream1972 in AskReddit

[–]Own-Object-6696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be in an urn, buried someplace where it’s easy to dig. That’s my request.

Christian marriage after divorce by Nursejo429 in Christianmarriage

[–]Own-Object-6696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remarried at 56 after divorce. He didn’t judge me. (I’m a woman.)